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- May 9, 2021
Regarding Chantal's family. They did try to help her when she went to the ER to get attention after bouncing on the ball and claiming her heart hurt or something regarding the cocaine. Her uncle took her in, told her he would help her get clean, would help her stay away from Nader, etc... Her mother and sister were going to come and make pizza the next day and help her. She shit all over all of them. Personally, I wouldn't help her again after that either. She has treated them horrendously. She has talked about them like shit. At some point, you have to stop trying to save someone and let them hit their rock bottom. You cannot sacrifice yourself to save someone else, any counselor will tell you that, especially if any of them have been to AA, NA, or a similar type of meeting or familial support meeting. She has to want help, and she doesn't.
I agree @ADHD that they could, but I'm not sure her mother loaned her cash. I'm wondering if that is why her mother had to go with her to Montreal. Her mother will buy her clothing because she's gained weight and can't fit into her old clothes, she'll give her a gift card to the grocery store (not someplace like Walmart where you can get other things or get cash back) but not give her money. These are things that counselors will tell you that you can do for those in cycles of abuse when you fear that something bad will happen to someone you love because of drugs, booze, etc. I can understand her mother not wanting her naked or to actually be hungry. But I don't think that they're giving her a lot and they are demanding payback, which I am proud of them for because I think they didn't in the past. However, with her paychecks from YT and OF dwindling, I don't even think that is going to keep her afloat for long with her being stupid and buying $400 sunglasses as a flex.
I agree @ADHD that they could, but I'm not sure her mother loaned her cash. I'm wondering if that is why her mother had to go with her to Montreal. Her mother will buy her clothing because she's gained weight and can't fit into her old clothes, she'll give her a gift card to the grocery store (not someplace like Walmart where you can get other things or get cash back) but not give her money. These are things that counselors will tell you that you can do for those in cycles of abuse when you fear that something bad will happen to someone you love because of drugs, booze, etc. I can understand her mother not wanting her naked or to actually be hungry. But I don't think that they're giving her a lot and they are demanding payback, which I am proud of them for because I think they didn't in the past. However, with her paychecks from YT and OF dwindling, I don't even think that is going to keep her afloat for long with her being stupid and buying $400 sunglasses as a flex.