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I Learned the Hard Way Just How Barbaric American Health Care Is​

A recent COVID infection robbed me of my hearing, and even with decent health insurance, there’s no hope in sight… or sound.
Deborah Copaken - Published Aug. 05, 2022 4:31AM ET
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United Healthcare’s eleventh-hour refusal to pay for a quick, non-invasive, clinically proven surgery to reverse my sudden-onset deafness from a recent COVID infection was hardly my first ride on the bucking bronco we call— oxymoronically—American health care. But it is the one that finally broke me.

Prior to this refusal, surgeon Dr. Babak Sadoughi and I had done everything by the book. I texted him the minute I lost my hearing, on day four of my COVID infection. He prescribed a six-day course of steroids, but I was still deaf. He cut holes into my eardrums. This relieved some of the pressure, but I still couldn’t hear. He stuck an endoscope up my nose into my sinus cavity, where he noticed that my Eustachian tubes were completely closed shut with inflammation and scar tissue. We scheduled balloon Eustachian tube dilation surgery in his office under local anesthesia the following week. But the tubes were closed so tight that after five fruitless and painful attempts, I cried “uncle.”

Dr. Sadoughi, who’d warned me against doing the procedure under local anesthesia, as it could be traumatic, scheduled surgery under twilight for the following week. Just six more days, I thought to myself. I can make it until then. (If you’ve ever been unable to pop your ears on an airplane, this is how I’ve lived now for over a month and, alas, for the foreseeable future, with the added bonus of deafness and tinnitus.)

All week, as I waited for the physical relief of surgery and the return of my hearing, Dr. Sadoughi’s office kept waiting for approval from my health care insurer, United. It never came. Finally, it was time to leave for the hospital. So I did.

Was my despair, when United denied coverage (“This procedure is not medically necessary for you”), over being sentenced to live in unnecessary silence? Or was it over feeling powerless once again? Was it the cruelty of the denial just two minutes before my 3 p.m. scheduled surgery, as I sat there in my hospital gown, hungry and thirsty from having fasted, with a line for anesthesia already injected into my vein? Or was it the fact that United would not upload its denial into its database in a timely manner, which would have allowed my surgeon to demand an emergency peer-to-peer appeal immediately, while he was still scrubbed in and ready to operate?

“I’m so sorry,” Dr. Sadoughi said, looking crestfallen and furious. “They know I’m here. They’re doing this on purpose. I deal with this stuff every day.”


The only reason I could hear him say this is that I’d just been fitted with $2699.99 hearing aids from Costco—also not covered by insurance, but at least cheaper than more sophisticated versions, which can cost up to $10,000. Five years ago, Sens. Elizabeth Warren and Chuck Grassley passed a bipartisan bill to allow hearing aids to be sold much more cheaply and over-the-counter, but the FDA has yet to implement it.

The nurse shook her head, shocked, while removing the line from my arm. “I’ve seen them deny care before,” she said, “but never like this.” I paid the $37 parking fee and downed a banana and two hard boiled eggs from the hospital commissary. Then, still wearing my hospital bracelet, I sat down on the ledge of a planter outside the building and bawled.

This was the proverbial straw that crushed my back after 56 years of wandering through the arid desert we Americans mistake for a functioning medical system.

The “medical gaslighting” of women

Once, hours from death but fearing a surprise four-figure ambulance bill—I was hemorrhaging from both vaginal cuff dehiscence and $2400 monthly COBRA payments following a job loss, two college tuitions, plus the normal 45 percent decline in standard of living of women who divorce in middle age. I insisted, against my daughter’s protestations, on taking UberPool to the emergency room.

My out-of-pocket expenses for three pregnancies in 1995, 1997, and 2006—when I had what was considered excellent health insurance—were $27,000: a cosmic joke in a country without paid parental leave or affordable childcare.

Then there was the time five months after the birth of my third child, when an overscheduled doctor stood over my body, rolling his eyes, after I’d passed out from pain on the floor of his waiting room. “Come on,” he said, “It can’t be that bad. It’s just gas.” I was 40 years old. Postpartum women over 35 have an 84 percent greater risk of appendicitis. Three hours later, I was being wheeled in for an emergency appendectomy. (Medical gaslighting of women is a whole other issue, and appendicitis in women is routinely underdiagnosed compared to men.)

In fact, the American medical system—if one can even call chaos a system—is significantly worse when you’re a woman, because we don’t study women’s bodies, and it is multiple times worse if you’re a Black woman. And don’t even get me started on what’s happening with abortion in this country. (Abortion is health care. I’ll be taking no further questions.)

Females, for example, are at greater risk of the kind of Eustachian tube dysfunction I’m now being forced by United to live with. And menopausal bodies like mine are studied least of all. To manage the chronic urinary tract infections (UTIs) of menopause, for example, I was prescribed a prophylactic dose of Nitrofurantoin, which never worked. It took a female urologist reaching out over Twitter to change my life with one DM: all I needed was vaginal estrogen, she said. I’ve had zero UTIs since.

Alas, while insurance did cover my useless, post-coital antibiotic—the overuse of which ironically can lead to more UTIs, never mind the growing problem of antibiotic resistance—I now pay $80 a month out of pocket for a combination of Divigel ($45/month) and generic Estradiol inserts ($35/month) to keep my body safe from sepsis. (Which is significantly less than what many of my menopausal friends have to pay on their plans.)

“Where do I begin?” said Dr. Rachel Rubin, the fed-up doctor who reached out to me over Twitter. “It’s all a dumpster fire of brokenness. The insurance companies get to dictate medical care and go out of their way to deny medications, surgery, or treatments with no repercussions, or require crazy hoops of prior authorizations for practices to have to send in. Patients are tired, doctors are tired, and the insurance companies are raising rates after two years of making a surplus because nobody went to the doctor during the pandemic.”

Some of the advice we women get, for lack of studies or knowledge, is patently absurd. When I scheduled a hysterectomy to combat the adenomyosis it took sixteen years to diagnose, I was advised to keep my cervix, as it was believed to play a role in sexual pleasure. This was malarkey, based on a hunch, not clinical studies. Five years later, that cervix became diseased and had to be removed in yet another eight-hour surgery under general anesthesia. But first, we had to get insurance to understand what was going on between my legs and approve the second surgery—which would have been as side-splitting as a Benny Hill skit, had I not been the one lying there in stirrups with blood splashing on linoleum tiles as my doctor searched in vain for a proper insurance code.

“OK, so here’s the problem,” she said, her back to me as she stared into the abyss of her computer. “We don’t even have a pull-down menu option for whatever this is. I can choose abnormal uterine bleeding—you know, miscarriages, pregnancy spotting, postpartum bleeding, stuff like that—but there’s no option for abnormal nonuterine bleeding.” Without a diagnostic code for my insurance company, her office could not be paid, and we could not move forward with my care. My cervix turned out to be precancerous and in need of a trachelectomy, which also required preauthorization from an insurance system that did not recognize why I was bleeding from my vagina without a uterus.

Finally, the trachelectomy was approved, but because hospitals kick you out the next day (our bodies are worth much more in the operating room than they are recovering post-op), this led to the stitches at the top of my vaginal canal coming undone, which led to that UberPool to the emergency room for life-saving surgery. (Are you starting to notice this is a repeating cycle of unnecessary suffering?)

Why do Americans accept living like this?

For the sake of space and decorum, I’m leaving out several more glaring examples of the kind of health care barbarism that has Canadians, Brits, and Europeans writing me frequent emails of shock and horror, after reading about them in my latest book.

I should also note that the only reason I have what’s considered excellent health insurance in America—never mind that United Healthcare would rather I continue to be deaf than pay for a simple procedure to give me back my hearing—is because a generous patron, who wishes to remain anonymous, also read that book and, shocked by its contents, offered to provide my health insurance gratis, until I’m eligible for Medicare in nine years, when I turn 65. (That is, should Medicare and I both survive that long, which is no longer a given in America.)

In fact, according to a 2021 study, 1.1 million deaths—including one in two of those under 65, thanks in large part to our abysmal health care system—“would have been averted if the U.S. had the mortality rates of other wealthy nations.”

““It’s all a dumpster fire of brokenness. The insurance companies get to dictate medical care and go out of their way to deny medications, surgery, or treatments with no repercussions...”
This surprise, out-of-the-blue gift of health insurance—the kind citizens of so many other countries take for granted—moved me to tears. It was also life-altering, allowing me to choose my own projects and create my own income-generating publication, never mind the ability to earn more as a freelancer than I earned at former jobs that came with insurance.

But if health insurance won’t actually pay for our care, we remain sick and suffer in silence, which for me right now feels quite literal. I am deaf and filled with despair over the fact that our country will probably not get its act together and mandate universal health care as a right, not a privilege, before my daughter—now in her second year of medical school—faces her own challenges as both the owner of a uterus and as a doctor being told what care she can and can’t provide to her future patients—in order to keep insurance company shareholders happy.

UnitedHealth Group’s revenue, by the way, grew by 11.8 percent in 2021, climbing to $287.6 billion. Andrew Witty, its CEO, had a 2021 pay package worth $18.4 million.

Way to go, for-profit health care! You’re definitely fulfilling your primary goal (however perversely). Meanwhile, those you’re mandated to serve languish in health-care purgatory and die.

How bad is the for-profit health insurance system? Barbarically bad.

As a gut check, I called my younger sister, Dr. Laura Copaken, a pediatric orthopedic surgeon in Frederick, Maryland. How often, I wondered, is she fighting with insurance companies to provide care to her young patients. She burst out laughing. Then she sighed.

“Um, every day?” she said. I asked for details, without breaking any HIPAA rules. “OK, so just today, for example,” she said, “I had to do a peer-to-peer appeal on an infant who couldn’t straighten their legs since they were born. I have been serially casting this child, but now they were ready for a Dynasplint. Insurance denied it.”

“So what happens now?” I said.

“The child will regress,” she said sadly.

“Prior authorization is out of control,” wrote Gerald E. Harmon, MD, Immediate Past President of the American Medical Association, in an Aug. 3, 2022, email to U.S. doctors. “Once limited to a small number of new treatments, it’s now being applied widely, even to generic drugs and established regimens. The result:  delayed, denied, and abandoned care.”

Tackling this scourge has become the issue for the AMA. Last week, they were able to get the House Ways and Means Committee to pass H.R. 8487 (the Improving Seniors’ Timely Access to Care Act of 2022) which would streamline the prior authorization process for those covered under Medicare. “We’re urging the full House and the Senate to act swiftly to push prior authorization reform into law,” wrote Dr. Harmon.

After friends found out about my denial of care and ongoing deafness—easily rectified with the surgery, as my hearing loss is not sensorineural but rather conductive, meaning it’s the Eustachian tubes, stupid—I was inundated with offers to start a GoFundMe to raise the money for my surgery.

“But this is not how a functioning society should work!” I kept saying.

Meanwhile, to scroll through a typical GoFundMe thread on Reddit is to feel a sense of abject horror that America has sunk so low: a son begging for help for his single mother, battling stage 4 pancreatic cancer; a mother “drowning in newborn emergency medical bills;” a 3-year-old whose parents need help paying the neurosurgery bills for her brain tumor. And that was just page 1 on the day I happened to look.

The fact that one in three GoFundMe campaigns are now for health care-related costs is not the heartwarming story often presented to us on social media or the news. In fact, it’s our national shame. This is why health insurance companies like United are supposed to exist: to pay for needed health care. Not to pass the buck of those costs onto the general public via private donations. Even Tim Cadogen, CEO of GoFundMe, said, “The situation is nothing short of a national emergency.”

Last week, Dr. Sadoughi was finally given a peer-to-peer hearing for my surgery. While he was on vacation in Italy. He spoke to the OB/Gyn assigned to my case. (I always thought vaginas and ears were located in different areas of the body, but maybe that’s just me.) Once again, coverage was denied. Repairing my hearing was deemed “not medically necessary.” Never mind that I’ll be much more expensive to United should my hearing loss lead to dementia, as many studies have conclusively proven.

When I started my adult life back in 1988, I was based in Paris. As a combat photographer, I had plenty of visits to French doctors: once to remove a small piece of shrapnel from my hand, another to stitch up a stab wound on my arm. I never paid a single medical bill. I just went to the doctor whenever I got sick or injured or needed a pap smear, and I received care. I didn’t worry about going bankrupt over an ambulance ride. My birth control pills were practically free. Je ne regrette rien, but still: I often wonder what my life, health, stress level, and bank account would look like, had I never come home to face the barbarism of American health care.

Would I still be deaf if I lived in France, as opposed to America? Or would I have been treated and heard?
 
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Cancer research, reproductive research, mental health research, the majority of the money goes to addressing women's medical needs.

She lost 45% of her annual income because she got divorced? That's a weird way of saying her husband was the primary wage-earner.
Women are still understudied in medicine even if the funds are skewed. It was just discovered - or popularized at least - that lab mice react differently to male and female researchers and how even female mice are understudied. Those funds being set aside ton the first place highlights an institutional problem.

From the Troon threads you can see how little people know about female endocrine systems, let alone things like prolapsed uteruses.
 
Women are still understudied in medicine even if the funds are skewed. It was just discovered - or popularized at least - that lab mice react differently to male and female researchers and how even female mice are understudied. Those funds being set aside ton the first place highlights an institutional problem.

From the Troon threads you can see how little people know about female endocrine systems, let alone things like prolapsed uteruses.
When the overwhelming majority of medical research money is spent on pursuing solutions to women mental and physical health, it's quite literally impossible to claim that "women are understudied, ackshually."
 
When the overwhelming majority of medical research money is spent on pursuing solutions to women mental and physical health, it's quite literally impossible to claim that "women are understudied, ackshually."
Endometriosis still doesn't have a cure, and getting more female test subjects is an issue. From a purely scientific perspective, women must be studied.

Ovulation was not photographed until 2009 during a scheduled hysterectomy. The picture was accidental. The clitoris was not mapped until 2009 either, when the penis was fully mapped.


It's definitely not impossible. How long ago was it that we discovered men and women have different heart attack symptoms?
 
When the overwhelming majority of medical research money is spent on pursuing solutions to women mental and physical health, it's quite literally impossible to claim that "women are understudied, ackshually."
Both can be simultaneously true. Even if a majority of funding today is being dedicated to women’s health, that’s not gonna instantly make up for the historical disparity in research.
 
Shit like the fact that some viruses can in rare circumstances infect and cause problems for the inner ear is the only reason covid gives me even a moment's pause. I have pretty severe tinnitus which I received as a kid thanks to being in the wrong place at the wrong time and I would probably off myself if I went deaf and had to go the rest of my life listening to nothing but the EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE. The media and medical industry say "well get the vax then you science denier" but this boosted woman's article tells you the story there.
In that situation you would likely be heavily suggested to get a cochlear implant, as those for some reason are reportedly pretty good at reducing tinnitus in those poor bastards who develop it alongside deafness.

If that doesn't work you can have something injected to kill the auditory nerve from a report I read, but, at that point the implant won't help you either.
 
Yeah no it isn't the health care.
Because that implies socialized insurance would help. Which I assume is what this bitch is trying to kayfabe about trying to have HUMAN problems so HUMAN will vote.

No. It's the entire medical industry.
Even vets are fucked up (seriously. 12k for a failed surgery. Fuck all of you). There is no fixing this without a deep cleansing of the medical field in it's entirety.
And you lazy dumbfucks, I assume. Refuse to put the effort.
So live with mediocrity or die in squalor. Don't care.
 
As much as I don't feel bad for her, it was the dumbest idea ever to allow insurance companies to override doctors on what's necessary. A person who pays into insurance should never be forced to accept care that leaves them functionally less than what they could be. Anything not cosmetic should default to them paying.

Also, I don't feel bad for her because she had a chance to slam insurance companies for covering troon treatments, but not restoring her hearing, and she pussed out.
 
It should also be noted that if the procedure was done under general the doctor could charge more for it too, because he no longer can rely on feedback from the patient if he's going too far in the "wrong direction" as it were.

This is a classic case of "suck it up, butter cup". Do you want to be able to hear, or endure some discomfort as a doctor shoves a tube up your nose. You don't get general anesthesia for a blood draw, and you don't get it for this.
nailed it right here. that said, if the doctor could show some justification for the general, they could appeal the denial and the ins would more than likely cover it.

someone had mentioned COBRA and i feel i have to say, anyone who actually uses it deserves everything they get and more. Imagine seeing that you can and often will get charged a ridiculous premium and saying "sign me up"
As much as I don't feel bad for her, it was the dumbest idea ever to allow insurance companies to override doctors on what's necessary. A person who pays into insurance should never be forced to accept care that leaves them functionally less than what they could be. Anything not cosmetic should default to them paying.

Also, I don't feel bad for her because she had a chance to slam insurance companies for covering troon treatments, but not restoring her hearing, and she pussed out.
I agree that insurances shouldnt have the level of control they do, and I dont like defending them, but they are all in on any and all cost saving measures. if putting the person in pain is all that needs to happen to save as little as $200, they will deny coverage. Its scummy, but like you mindlessobserver said, she needs to suck it up and go with what is available.
 
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In the UK you’d lose your hearing, and then go and see your Gp. Depending on where you are you may be waiting weeks for just that appointment. The GPs job is to keep you away from consultants so if they did refer you, you’d then be waiting 6-18m minimum for an appointment with the consultant, then further waiting time after that. At that appointment you’d be told only CBT is an option (I know, wtf?) and told to fuck off. Any kind of vaguely new surgical procedure simply doesn’t happen. You’d end up with hearing aids. Admittedly you would t pay much for any of this (oh apart from 11% of your wages for life as national insurance…) but you’d still be deaf.
What you absolutely would not be able to do is ‘text your surgeon.’ You are kept as far away from anyone who can actually fix anything as possible.
Yes COVID can cause hearing loss. Any viral I fection like flu etc can cause a lot of inflammation in the region, like this lady seems to have, but some viruses can also actively target hair cells etc and deafen you. Measles is one for example. So can mumps, and so can a lot of viruses.
The US health system has its faults but the author is mistaken in fetishising socialised health. That doesn’t work great either. The best systems for the general public seem to be the combined public private ones like Germany/Swiss systems.
 
COVID
HAS TAKEN MY SIGHT
TAKEN MY LEGS
TAKEN MY HEARING
I CANNOT LIVE
I CANNOT DIE
LIVING A LIFE IN HEEEEEEEELLLLLL!!!!!
How in the FUCK do you end up losing your hearing and sight from a fucking respiratory virus?
It's only primarily a respiratory virus. SARS-CoV-2's spike proteins are such that they can be received by most types of cells in the body. Even at the start, we were aware that it could migrate to the digestive tract.

The fact that we never bashed China's skull in for screwing up this badly is proof in part that the American government as is, is only good for exporting anal sex.
 
The obvious solution is to just have taxpayer funded healfcare where anyone can visit the doctor at any time and get any surgery they want whenever ASAP.
This has no drawbacks and is very realistic.
(not serious)
COVID
HAS TAKEN MY SIGHT
TAKEN MY LEGS
TAKEN MY HEARING
I CANNOT LIVE
I CANNOT DIE
LIVING A LIFE IN HEEEEEEEELLLLLL!!!!!
How in the FUCK do you end up losing your hearing and sight from a fucking respiratory virus?
I mean TBF you can lose those with other respiratory viruses. I know influenza can cause blindness in rare cases.

The thing is with COVID is basically everything under the sun gets blamed on DA RONA because the media & government went on a mass propaganda campaign to convince us how uber-deadly it was.
 
Frankly, your medical carer should be shot if that happened.

You're supposed to get oral steroids immediately. There is no known cause for why sudden hearing loss like that happens, and all the treatments are empirical. There's basically three:

Oral steroids
Injected steroids into the ear
Hyperbaric oxygen therapy

There's something like a 60% chance of recovery, and said recovery is usually only partial. It's not even certain if the treatments actually raise the odds and why. Basically? You lucked out.
Randumb covid questions what are the odds covid was engineered virus that somehow got loose.
 
Randumb covid questions what are the odds covid was engineered virus that somehow got loose.
100%, since it was created as part of gain-of-function research in China. If you don't know what gain-of-function research is, its where scientists cook up new viruses in a lab as part of entirely hypothetical research into what an emerging outbreak may look like. So, COVID got loose from a Fauci-funded lab (he had been using a third-party as a cutout to dodge the ban on the USA funding said research), either intentionally or not, and since it was already a documented and mapped virus of course Fauci's buddies in Big Pharma could cook up a vaccine on the spot to save us.
 
100%, since it was created as part of gain-of-function research in China. If you don't know what gain-of-function research is, its where scientists cook up new viruses in a lab as part of entirely hypothetical research into what an emerging outbreak may look like. So, COVID got loose from a Fauci-funded lab (he had been using a third-party as a cutout to dodge the ban on the USA funding said research), either intentionally or not, and since it was already a documented and mapped virus of course Fauci's buddies in Big Pharma could cook up a vaccine on the spot to save us.
But if you mention this in, say, a Facebook post, YouTube video or podcast hosted on Spotify you’ll get tagged with the “False information” banner that redirects to the CDC documentation.

Because they care more about you getting the vaccine and boosters every six months than they do anything else.
 
As much as I don't feel bad for her, it was the dumbest idea ever to allow insurance companies to override doctors on what's necessary. A person who pays into insurance should never be forced to accept care that leaves them functionally less than what they could be. Anything not cosmetic should default to them paying.

Also, I don't feel bad for her because she had a chance to slam insurance companies for covering troon treatments, but not restoring her hearing, and she pussed out.
This would work in a perfect system where all doctors are saints and would never try to take advantage of a credulous system. But that is not the world we live in. Little Timmy took a short tumble down the stairs and broke his arm, and then for some reason doctor shekelberg is orderind MRIs AND ultrasound for brain bleeds, put him under general so he can reset the bone and doing bone density tests for osteoporosis.

Insurance companies have to audit what the doctors are demanding. The doctors have an econic incentive to do literally EVERYTHING.
 
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