Sounds like you're projecting pretty hard over this. From what I've seen thus far, she's been providing a shit ton of evidence (phone call, texts, damaged property) to prove that the guy exhibits some serious abusive behavior and control issues. How much control he has over her life choices is anyone's guess, but like
@Allanon said, it's rather disappointing to see so many vapid takes amounting to, "she's a whore who scams her lonely simps and married an asian guy, so she probably lied and/or deserves to be miserable."
I'm not out here to defend thine lady's honor, but I'd prefer to see some new evidence that could back the idea of this situation not being all that cut-and-dry (such as old clips or posts contradicting the claims of him controlling all of her finances and social media while on Twitch and OF).