Fun fact: when you make 2B blow off her skirt, 9S does the same with his shorts. It's less noticeable, but it's equality.
But yes, Automata is very misogynist. Nevermind characters like Pascal being femme sounding, but using male pronouns. Or YorHa letting the androids have whatever parts they want. I'm sure Lily thinks the game wants to **** 2B.
Lily really doesn't know what 'misogyny' actually is. Making fictional women attractive is not misogyny in its own right, it's about character framing. Nier and Automata both have attractive and scantily-clad women (and you know that Lily's only exposure to Automata is 2B porn because otherwise she'd know about A2, who is literally naked) but in both games the women are never objectified either in terms of their story relationships or even in terms of camerawork (the pan of Kaine in the original game is about as close as we get and it's not framed as sexy so much as baffling).
A character can be fully and conservatively clothed but still be objectified and sexualized (my go-to example is Madison Paige from Heavy Rain; even ignoring the ridiculously indulgent opening chapter of her sashaying around in her underwear she is constantly being leered at and slobbered over by male characters, constantly in bizarrely sexual danger, and exists only to facilitate the male characters in the narrative with her involvement being ancillary, unnecessary, and incoherent). Just because a sexy lady looks sexy doesn't make it misogynist.
You know what is misogynist? Talking about how much you loathe pretty much every high-profile female creative you can think of, accusing them of being misogynistic tradwife bitches and cunts, and threatening to beat their faces in with a brick on the regular.
Remember Lily saying that love between girls is the purest kind there is? This belief, which is far from exclusive to Lily, extends to the (incorrect) idea that sapphic women experience attraction to women in not only a fundamentally different way than straight men do, but in a "better" way than straight men do. Even if they say and do the same thing straight men do, it's somehow different because of some sort of innate "purity" that sapphic women supposedly have. If this all sounds like gender essentialism, that's because it is.
A woman who likes women draws horny lesbian art? Based and empowerment-pilled.
I vividly remember an Ask Lily got saying that, if she hates fantasy for being so 'tropey', why does she write nothing but romance, once of the most static and tropey genres out there?
Her response was that she makes it gay and therefore it's innovative and novel.
I'm sure that all of this is just because she really feels very deeply about it and not because it's what she gets off to.
Now all that out of the way I think we need to look at this original post and realize how utterly deranged it is.
Who would say 'You like Kingdom Hearts? You'll like Automata!' Yes, they are both action RPGs, and... that's it. They don't play particularly the same. They certainly don't have the same vibe. And they certainly don't have anything resembling the same sort of story or themes. I really don't think anybody would look to Lily Orchard and think "Yes, because you have played Kingdom Hearts, would appreciate the game about existential robots.'