It's simple. Shades of gay is a lie. Freedom is a lie. There are only norms.
Go back to the 1950s.
Whores wanted the right to sleep around and once they got that, they called everyone who wasn't a whore a virgin.
Or
Race-mixers wanted the freedom to mix and once they got that, they called everyone who didn't want to mix racist.
Same shit.
The pattern is simple. They flipped the moral script. These people initially started their journeys arguing for freedom but once they got that, it caused the norms to change, and that meant the old norms were now evil and anyone who promoted them was evil. So these people become the very authoritarians they claimed to hate.
You can feel the same thing with the JQ crowd.
They start by saying, "why can't we question the holocaust. We only want to question it." and eventually end with, "Fuck you kike. how dare you pretend the holohoax occured. There is no questioning. It didn't happen. That's the only narrative allowed."