Does anyone else get crippling dysphoria when reading or watching mlm romance?
I’ve been reading a mlm book recently and am reminded that I go into a depressive state every time. It’s just like… I’m never going to have that experience. Rationally, I know it must suck to grow up as a gay man in such an unaccepting world, but I’m jealous. My teenage years are almost gone and I haven’t even dated any guys. I never got a chance to have someone have a crush on me. I never looked like a boy. I never acted like a boy. These books, while I love them, make me so incredibly frustrated and depressed. Kinda just wondering if any of y’all understand? I'm a hard-core yaoi reader so I always try to self insert but it's like damn...I wish that was me yeah :/ it's so hard bc I want to consume media like that but I know it just makes me feel like shit afterwards. I watched heartstopper for the first time a few weeks ago and I was sent into some really bad dysphoria from it, I really liked the show, but it just sucks that I never got to have an experience like that I really like mlm romance but felt bad about it before knowing I was Trans. Tbh it made me feel happier that I could live a life that I dreamed of once I accepted being trans. Even if I don't have a cis man's kinda body, I'm happy enough with it. My disphoria comes more from people than anyone else I read a lot of yaoi and mlm fanfic as a tween/young teen because I saw myself in it (am a gay dude) and wanted that for myself. I didn't realise it at the time, but yeah LOL
I get what you mean though. I found it difficult to watch Heartstopper because it just filled me with a sort of grief-like feeling over never being able to have those experiences growing up as a guy. The scene where they have their first kiss? GOD I wish I'd had that as a teen. :') Dysphoria sucks
That is so funny/sad because you must live so far removed from reality if you think that real men would act like they do in gay romance novels (written by women). So many emotions and confessions of feelings and I assume the smut is not very realistic either. You will never live that sort of life, trans or gay or not, because nobody does! One of my gay friends said Heartstopper is unwatchable for him because it's way too unrealistic. But these delusional girls somehow think they are missing out on their "gay guy" experience.
I really like mlm romance but felt bad about it before knowing I was Trans.
This is extra retarded and the reason we have so many fujo troons now. I am fully convinced that they were shamed too much by Tumblr about "fetishizing" gay guys so they had to make up a new identity.
If the mental image of a crazy chick lying and masturbating, while fumbling with a dildo and furiously choking it to squeeze out some lube to “cum” can’t make you chuckle, nothing will!
I sat here and read that to my husband with perfect narration worthy of a audio book, he was laughing so hard he was crying. Probably more tears then this sad fuck.
I can’t speak for anyone else, but I’d be fascinated by the prospect of gathering all troons, tens of thousands of them, and putting them in one little city.
Imagine the street scape!
Imagine the stores!
Imagine schools where all the students are grown APGs LARPing as little schoolgirls.
I’d expect tourism to become pretty a pretty big business there. Obviously in up armored busses where curious onlookers can watch the parade of sexpests trying to flash genitals at them.
The whole response chain is both a hoot and infuriating. I may not be black, but the ladies at Lipstick Alley would no doubt be calling these people 'bitch ass niggas' for good reason.
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Lonerbox is an even more irritating Shaun, more so as he argued that Rotherham and Telford grooming gangs were not the result of racism against white girls, but racism against Pakis.
Here are some more screenshots from that video.
Many of them are rapists, Gwen. She's done this BS before on other videos.
"There is no evidence the facility is needed" says the people who believe JKR is systemically murdering trans people.
Their own admissions and perversions makes one hate them.
"A sign cannot stop rapists" says the people who argue transwomen will always be raped by men and so need women's spaces.
A male doesn't understand why women are afraid, before saying it's wrong of them to see males as dangerous. "I'm not saying it's a valid excuse" bitch, yes you are.
And oh, have a nice treat from a troon supporter who thinks transwomen can get periods. Observe his hypothesis.
So yes, LonerBox promotes rape apologia, is wholly unaware of it, and calls himself a proud feminist. I await for his sex pest allegations, as they are wont to appear among leftist men.
Does anyone else get crippling dysphoria when reading or watching mlm romance?
I’ve been reading a mlm book recently and am reminded that I go into a depressive state every time. It’s just like… I’m never going to have that experience. Rationally, I know it must suck to grow up as a gay man in such an unaccepting world, but I’m jealous. My teenage years are almost gone and I haven’t even dated any guys. I never got a chance to have someone have a crush on me. I never looked like a boy. I never acted like a boy. These books, while I love them, make me so incredibly frustrated and depressed. Kinda just wondering if any of y’all understand? I'm a hard-core yaoi reader so I always try to self insert but it's like damn...I wish that was me yeah :/ it's so hard bc I want to consume media like that but I know it just makes me feel like shit afterwards. I watched heartstopper for the first time a few weeks ago and I was sent into some really bad dysphoria from it, I really liked the show, but it just sucks that I never got to have an experience like that I really like mlm romance but felt bad about it before knowing I was Trans. Tbh it made me feel happier that I could live a life that I dreamed of once I accepted being trans. Even if I don't have a cis man's kinda body, I'm happy enough with it. My disphoria comes more from people than anyone else I read a lot of yaoi and mlm fanfic as a tween/young teen because I saw myself in it (am a gay dude) and wanted that for myself. I didn't realise it at the time, but yeah LOL
I get what you mean though. I found it difficult to watch Heartstopper because it just filled me with a sort of grief-like feeling over never being able to have those experiences growing up as a guy. The scene where they have their first kiss? GOD I wish I'd had that as a teen. :') Dysphoria sucks
I'll never understand why troons just can't be content with enacting their autohomoerotic fantasies in the bedroom. Ten years ago these girls would have been content with pegging and anal while the guys would have been content dressing up in their girlfriend's lingerie. Like how did something as innocuous as fantasizing about being the opposite sex become a mandatory lifestyle so fast? Just masturbate to your yaoi and yuri and leave it at that for crying out loud.
I'll never understand why troons just can't be content with enacting their autohomoerotic fantasies in the bedroom. Ten years ago these girls would have been content with pegging and anal while the guys would have been content dressing up in their girlfriend's lingerie. Like how did something as innocuous as fantasizing about being the opposite sex become a mandatory lifestyle so fast?
I'm suppose that its because they started doing this sort of thing in private like you said, ashemed as they should be for being sick fucks but then you know, post mordenism came and people started enabling theses behaviours you know, not judging anymore, accpeting the differences and etc...
I'm suppose that its because they started doing this sort of thing in private like you said, ashemed as they should be for being sick fucks but then you know, post mordenism came and people started enabling theses behaviours you know, not judging anymore, accpeting the differences and etc...
I don't think you can underestimate the role shame plays in trooning out. And the thing is these desires are nothing really to be ashamed about. But it takes years of genuine self-reflection and exploration to healthily assimilate them. Or you can deny and repress them until they completely consume you and speedrun everything once the dam bursts like troons do.
I'll never understand why troons just can't be content with enacting their autohomoerotic fantasies in the bedroom. Ten years ago these girls would have been content with pegging and anal while the guys would have been content dressing up in their girlfriend's lingerie. Like how did something as innocuous as fantasizing about being the opposite sex become a mandatory lifestyle so fast? Just masturbate to your yaoi and yuri and leave it at that for crying out loud.
Even though it seems like we're in a shameless society, shaming has increased in some ways. It just looks very different now.
Before it was okay to have fetishes as long as it stayed in the bedroom and you shut up about it. People barely knew about fetishes outside of the common and their own ones. Now, fetish's have lots of exposure and as a consequence there's a lot of talking and shaming going on.
People really seem to feel worse about having fetishes now more than ever.
PL: I've noticed even in my lefty friend group it's quite common to shit on furries, fujoshi's, other degenerates, etc but not trannies.
Even though it seems like we're in a shameless society, shaming has increased in some ways. It just looks very different now.
Before it was okay to have fetishes as long as it stayed in the bedroom and you shut up about it. People barely knew about fetishes outside of the common and their own ones. Now, fetish's have lots of exposure and as a consequence there's a lot of talking and shaming going on.
People really seem to feel worse about having fetishes now more than ever.
Sure, maybe some of the people who “kept it in the bedroom” didn’t need shame, but a good part of them did it, because they knew they’d be relentlessly bullied and possibly beat up if they exposed themselves in public.
Fetishes are often like drugs. It escalates. After awhile you won’t get rock hard from wearing your wife’s panties in the bedroom, you need to wear them at work. And then maybe some leggings under your jeans.
And on and on it goes. Until you’re a bimbo slut in the mall flashing in a selfie.
Even though it seems like we're in a shameless society, shaming has increased in some ways. It just looks very different now.
Before it was okay to have fetishes as long as it stayed in the bedroom and you shut up about it. People barely knew about fetishes outside of the common and their own ones. Now, fetish's have lots of exposure and as a consequence there's a lot of talking and shaming going on.
People really seem to feel worse about having fetishes now more than ever.
PL: I've noticed even in my lefty friend group it's quite common to shit on furries, fujoshi's, other degenerates, etc but not trannies.
Yeah, paradoxically there's both more acceptance but more shame. And troons are the perfect illustration of this. They'll unashamedly describe all their kinks but don't you ever suggest sexual motivations for their "gender identity." And the thing is they even openly discuss their sexual motivations within their own communities. But it's never the reason! It's such a strange doublethink.
Not to get too technical, but I think it's easier to rationalize sexual motivations with identity based paraphilias like autogynephilia because the fantasy is something you're so romantically attached to. Also, what's interesting about AGP is that you have to literally castrate your libido to fully actualize it. That will always be a line that holds most of them in check.
Good surgeon properly noticed this idiot was a self-harming anorexic and rightly put them off. But now this person is probably dreaming up ways to get into CA because CA in it's infinite wisdom is manufacturing a housing crisis while courting every sad retard to seek asylum there.
LOL'ing at this lunacy. If that entered my restroom I would alert emergency services of a psychiatric nutcase in my presence. "Single Use Restrooms" so then why does it matter which one you go in??? You just need to feel speshul right?
LOL'ing at this lunacy. If that entered my restroom I would alert emergency services of a psychiatric nutcase in my presence. "Single Use Restrooms" so then why does it matter which one you go in??? You just need to feel speshul right?
LOL'ing at this lunacy. If that entered my restroom I would alert emergency services of a psychiatric nutcase in my presence. "Single Use Restrooms" so then why does it matter which one you go in??? You just need to feel speshul right?
What a great find! The massive stubble, the enormous male potato head, the to me obvious intellectual disability and maybe autism, the casual reference to him snapping and screaming at a mother with young children. Fantastic. He must peak so many people.
