The best dutch are in the bible belt (hardline protestants but not the schizo mega church tier, just trad), in the southern, more Belgian provinces (Brabant and Limburg) and those who live in the north and are Frisian farmers.
Sadly, the large majority of population lives in the "Randstad" which is a metropolitan area around Amsterdam, Rotterdam and Den Haag. It's like the tristate area of Europe, extremely cosmopolitan and the colony of globohomo in the low countries.
It's where you find weed smokers, prostitute and gay parades, while 100 km to the east you've got nuclear families that go to church every Sunday and where the mother wears skirts that come to her ankles.
The Netherlands is famed for it's tolerance, but it is not an ideological thing. It's pure pragmatism because otherwise the country would have ripped itself apart centuries ago in civil war.