Wow, this guy is literally trash. I have no respect for anyone who lies about military service. That's insanely disrespectful to actual veterans.
Also, I realize this is a bit late, but the reason many people stay with their abusive spouses is due to several factors:
1. The abuser finds ways to prevent their victim from leaving. This often includes controlling the finances and cutting the victim off from their support network.
2. After abusive episodes, the abuser often apologizes and acts very sweet towards their victim.
3. Abusers often use emotional manipulation on their victims. They make their victims feel guilty for wanting to leave.
Because of these factors, unfortunately, it is rare to see someone leave an abusive relationship. What Onision's spouses have done is not unusual in the slightest. It's not very realistic to ask why they don't just leave him.