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Women Are Much More Selective And Find 80% Of Men Unattractive On Dating Apps, Per Recent Research​

At this point just about everyone has had some kind of experience in the dating app world, whether it's brief or it led us to find our spouse. Research shows that women are actually much more selective on these platforms than men are.

It's no secret that the dating scene isn't exactly hospitable for singles these days, and even though there are fewer people getting married than ever before, there are more than enough people out there looking for a relationship of some kind. In 2020, it was estimated that 44.2 million people used online dating services in the US and it's predicted that this number will increase to 53.3 million in 2025. But recent research shows that women are actually much pickier about which men they find attractive, and it's likely harming their chance at finding their husband.

Women Are Much More Selective on Dating Apps Than Men Are, per Recent Research​

Twitter user @datepsych, Alexander, regularly posts content about dating statistics and compelling behavioral research, and his bio indicates that his research interests are specifically in "attractiveness & dating." He shared a thread called "new study on male dating app profiles and matches," quoting a line from the research, "Only one profile out of 100 was liked by more than 80% of women."
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The study finds that women only swipe right 30% of the time; about 20% of all female dating app users also turn down more than 80% of the potential male suitors on the apps. The results showed that out of a group of 100 profiles of bachelors, only 1 profile was "liked" by more than 80% of the women, and yet 38 of the profiles were "disliked" by that same group of participants.

"This is an effect that I have described in the past. Although we see high inter-rater agreement on attractiveness, agreement of individual pairs in a sample can be much lower. In other words, there can be high disagreement even for what an attractive face is," Andrew tweets.
Popular YouTube channel Better Bachelor posted a similar video explaining how women are only selecting the top 1% of men to be their potential mate, demanding that their future husband have a six-pack, a six-figure income, fancy car, and a fantastic sense of humor, among other things. Meanwhile, an OkCupid study found that women find 80% of men unattractive on dating apps.

Alexander also pointed out on Twitter that women generally aren't interested in huge age gaps, which is to be expected. "Age predicted attractiveness ratings and swipes for men: men too much older, or too much younger, than the women were penalized," he wrote. "Pretty consistent with past research indicating that women don't like large age gaps." The study also confirmed that any profiles that didn't have clear, high-resolution photos generated much less interest. Attraction is reported as a top factor for selection, but it also matters if the pictures are of good quality.
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This makes many people feel less sympathetic to the women who complain about the lack of success they've had on dating apps. At some point, they have to admit that they're not helping their chances by being hyper-selective, especially if they're not in the top 1% themselves.
 
With such a glut in options AND higher match rates, this can be expected.

Alexander also pointed out on Twitter that women generally aren't interested in huge age gaps, which is to be expected. "Age predicted attractiveness ratings and swipes for men: men too much older, or too much younger, than the women were penalized," he wrote. "Pretty consistent with past research indicating that women don't like large age gaps."
How large is large? Are the tolerances the same for both older and younger (read: are women bothering to date men younger than them at all)?
 
How large is large? Are the tolerances the same for both older and younger (read: are women bothering to date men younger than them at all)?
In my experience talking to early and mid 20 year old women: No.

Younger men are seen as immature and with nothing to offer. It's even described as creepy to date a 19 year old guy when you're 21, because that guy is naive with nothing for you. This viewpoint starts to shift as women get older, but in those earlier 20s, dating younger is "creepy".
 
>women use dating apps
>find that 80% of men are unattractive

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I wonder if this is one of those “by design” moments where this was bound to happen. That’s a really high percentage.
oh my sweet summer child

For everyone else who didn't watch BB's video, it's lowered to 5% of men women are attracted to if I recall correctly.
In my experience talking to early and mid 20 year old women: No.

Younger men are seen as immature and with nothing to offer. It's even described as creepy to date a 19 year old guy when you're 21, because that guy is naive with nothing for you. This viewpoint starts to shift as women get older, but in those earlier 20s, dating younger is "creepy".
retards
 
"Per Recent Research"
recent? okcupid released data showing this well over a decade ago already.
as you can see, mens opinions on what is above or below average are accurate and consistent, while womens opinions are delusional and absurd

In summary it seems men want a woman and women want the ideal man when it comes to dating sites and apps.
 
"Per Recent Research"
recent? okcupid released data showing this well over a decade ago already.
as you can see, mens opinions on what is above or below average are accurate and consistent, while womens opinions are delusional and absurd
So Cotton was right. "Women do not know when they are attractive. It's up to a man to tell them they are."
 
The answer is to stop using dating apps. Gtfo on the grass and actually talk to people face to face.

I put my time into online dating, very rarely has any date with a girl I met through an app lasted beyond the first date. All of my hookups and girlfriends I've met through social events. Same with all my friends in relationships, none of them met through online dating. Many aspects of personality, body language, and other features that charm and seduce are impossible through a screen.
 
"Per Recent Research"
recent? okcupid released data showing this well over a decade ago already.
as you can see, mens opinions on what is above or below average are accurate and consistent, while womens opinions are delusional and absurd
Research shown in the video goes over to confirm it from more than just profile like statistics
These go waaaay into depth about a lot of things. If Alexander wrote an article featuring the information in the tweets BB shared, I can't find it.
 
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