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I’m starting to suspect that there’s a minor connection between this and the hyper-critical drive to identify things that are “problematic.” It’s not the whole reason of course but the very-online urge to police others media consumption for purity causes discomfort about your own choices, conscious or not.Honestly what is so fucking hard about just crossdressing in the bedroom and leaving it at that? Sure there's occasionally the weirdo who wears BDSM gear in public but the overwhelming majority of people don't take their fetishes or kinks to work or out in public.
For the terminally online, everything is everything so if they have a cross dressing fetish, the overt sexism of it would cause too much dissonance. To resolve this, they conclude that their desires are identity.