There's a lot of truth in your post, it's just that it's fucking retarded. If you don't believe in, or understand the value of, a traditional family structure, than so be it. Sleep around and deal with the pitfalls that come with that lifestyle. Be a incel, be a MGTOW, be whatever you want. It's ultimately no different than being a childfree atheist or a buttfucking homosexual.
You can play the field and have short term relationships but it gets to a point where you have to be honest with yourself: is that what you want forever, or is that what you're going to settle for because you believe what you actually want is unobtainable?
There's a lot of retarded, cuck guys in horrible relationships. They get played, they get cheated on, they get pranked by their wives for TikTok views. Feminism has destroyed femininity. Women are horrible. It's nothing new. Women probably take an average of thirty dicks in high school and when they're in college the number multiples by a thousand. A lot of guys have no self respect and still simp. They spend money on camwhores and worship them knowing full well what they get up to.
But why are you so worried about the social norms and limitations of normies, fags and freaks? You're supposed to find ways to live outside of that system and still achieve personal success. Women will follow their man's lead. They will adapt to your lifestyle and your life's mission. You don't have to pedestalize a woman to have a meaningful relationship with one. Every single major religion says that women are essentially a pain in the ass to deal with - but they also say to be fruitful and multiply.
The belief that women require you to spend a lot of money is also retarded. They live in the same fucked up society as you, and they want to escape it as much as you. Even if they aren't posting about it on social media that doesn't mean they aren't paying attention to what's going on. They cope and lie just as much as you do in their own womanly ways. A realistic, supportive woman will be fine with a simple, low key lifestyle and you can easily incorporate a child or three into that.
Which is also why your point about housing is retarded too, even if your numbers are correct. You can rent a house. You can rent an apartment. You can marry a woman who has property in her family. You're writing as if you're letting someone else tell you what you can and can't have. That shit isn't real. There are also some significant benefits of having a wife at home, and there's nothing wrong with expecting her to contribute financially. A realistic example would be a wife who is working remotely from home, getting money and benefits while doing a minimal amount of work and still being able to stay home and raise your kids. If a woman truly believes she is above that lifestyle than she can stay on Bumble forever. Why would you care?
Theres too much to say in just one post, but it ultimately comes down to the fact that there's a pretty powerful group of "New York intellectuals" who want you alone and childless, forever. They want your would-be wife to work for a cooperation, drink wine and buy Product until she dies. They want even worse for you and I. They don't care how you rationalize it. They don't care if it's because you're a leg crossing, mask wearing soy homo who doesn't want to have children because it's bad for the environment. They don't care if it's because you're redpilled and it hurts your ego to buy a girl a bowl of soup on occasion. As long as you don't have a family, they are getting what they want. They don't get to dictate your entire life for you. Figure it out on your own terms.