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Many old parables exist of blind men groping an elephant, each convinced that they truly understood what it was, instead of discussing amongst themselves (and taking different perspectives) to understand they only ever touched a part of it. They also, apparently, wouldn't listen to a sighted person telling them "It's a fucking elephant, dumbass." The point of "if you only see part, you don't understand the whole, especially if you won't listen to people" was well made and lasts through the ages.
This mostly stayed unchanged for a long time, though now the blind idiots argue about how 'valid' they are, and bigoted the other perspectives are, and jostle to see who can get their head the farthest up its ass.
It should be obvious that only letting one idiot-groper dictate how to see the world is going to lead to problems. Even the most well spoken tail-grabber isn't going to give any meaningful insight to someone touching the ear, though maybe the twit with the trunk might agree a little. So, too, does saying only one ideology is correct, and the others are evil, or bad, or whatever the fuck, lead to problems!
First and foremost, the person touching an ear is going to be incredulous that someone touching the tail says it smells like shit. You clearly smell grass and whatever else the elephant eats. To you, the elephant moves sideways, not away from you. So, too, would someone with a different perspective and different life experiences and different values just not 'get' what someone else says. The suggestion that you don't perceive what you perceive is ridiculous, and you'd also get pissed off if you were told you're somehow wrong despite the obviousness presented to you.
There's no literal elephant, but it seems we have two dominant factions making people pretend to see the same thing they do. While it seems some people actually do change values depending on what's dominant where they live, the likes of us do not. I'd also argue that's bad to erase different points of view and value sets in the interest of fitting in and serving some long dead asshole who founded an ideology. The solution is obvious: everyone's right about a part of the problem, but the truth is the entire thing, everyone's points of view in concert.
"But plussy, this isn't an elephant, it's society." OK, fine, let me make an example out of crime:
Libs look at fairness and equity more than anything else. They have externalized loci of control. They will see everything as arising from being in a bad situation, be it poverty or a lack of education, oppression or trauma. The more recent phenomenon of ascribing certain opinions to willful evil bigoted whatever is more of a woke thing, but whatever.
Conservatives also look at personal responsibility, purity, and loyalty. They have internalized loci of control. They see many things as coming out of how good your decisions are.
I'd say that those are different perspectives of the issue, and none are complete, since you can't see all the way around with just one perspective but a synthesis might be: some things are in your control, but others are not; being uneducated means you're less likely to make good decisions, but life experience will make up for it if you have other opportunities to go try. You shouldn't be punished for life for fucking up once, nor allowed to fail due to a lack of support and reduced to just one shot if you're poor. However, if you're dangerous to others, yeah, you should be prevented from hurting people.
This isn't to say some perspectives aren't retarded: "everyone's a victimizer but me, I'm the victim and always right, disagreement with me is willful evil" is the mumbled bullshit from someone with his head up the elephant's ass.
So, how do we shut up those assholes, and get everyone else to take a step back and listen long enough to realize we're all looking at different pieces of the problem, and thus each only have pieces of the solution? How do we build a synthesis of what people have to offer to make a complete solution and have a complete understanding, instead of merely switching between partial understanding and partial solutions endlessly, always chasing our tails when the blind spots of a dominant ideology create predictable problems for the next to fix, only to make its own mistakes and start the shit show again?