Trans man goes viral after getting emotional about the ‘loneliness’ of life after gender transition - Health conscious feminists can now drink male tears lite.

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Trans man goes viral after getting emotional about the ‘loneliness’ of life after gender transition

'I also now understand why the suicide rate is so much higher in men, because this s--- is lonely!' Barnes claimed on Instagram

By Gabriel Hays

A biological female turned trans man went viral this week after posting an emotional video about the loneliness of being a man.

"Nobody told me how lonely being a man is," the influencer claimed in the two-minute video discussing having more friends when identifying as a woman.

The subject also discussed why the male suicide rate is higher than in women.

The video was first published to Instagram by James Barnes, a motivational speaker, stress management coach, and social media influencer who claimed to have transitioned from being a woman to a man eight years ago.

Barnes, who goes by "thetranscoach" on the platform, opened up about the struggles of living as a man in the clip that was shared Thursday.

Specifically, the user lamented that life as a man is much lonelier than life as a woman.

The clip opened with Barnes, sporting a beard and wearing a white baseball cap, declaring, "Nobody told me how lonely being a man is." The user then noted how, as a woman, it was much easier connecting to other people in general.

Shedding tears, Barnes said, "I have had closer relationships with random women I met in the bathroom before I transitioned at clubs because of how open women are, than I’ve had in my eight years of transitioning because women are just so much more vulnerable and deep than men."

The speaker noted that trans men have the unique experience of this dramatic shift after they’ve transitioned, stating, "But to have known, and I think a lot of trans men feel this, is we knew what that depth felt like before we transitioned. We knew what it felt like to like have people want to hug us and to have people want to talk to us and have a community."

Voice breaking, the influencer continued, "And then you transition and you’re just a guy walking down the street that people cross the street so that they’re not near you."

Barnes also voiced his realization that as a man "friendships are so much harder to build. And people are colder."

Additionally, the speaker admitted they could now see more clearly why the suicide rate for men is "higher," though Barnes noted that it doesn’t negate the complaints the rest of society has about straight white males.

"And what’s hard is, none of this invalidates how real and raw women and people who are in marginalized groups feels about cis white men, all of that’s valid. But I also now understand why the suicide rate is so much higher in men, because this s--- is lonely!"

Barnes then urged viewers to reach out to men in their communities and "help them maybe be seen for a moment."

Prominent conservative Twitter account "Libs of TikTok" shared the clip to her Twitter page on Friday, where it acquired more than 15 million views in less than 24 hours.

Libs of TikTok captioned the post, writing, "This is really sad. Trans man realizes how hard it is to be a man when you’re really a woman. Males and females are different and no matter what you do to your body, you can’t be the opposite sex."

 

[Daniel Wallace]

I don't understand how these woman can claim that they feel like a man, have always felt like a man, claim to be a man, but have no idea what being a man is like.

 

[Xarpho's Return]

Womp womp.



As a man, you reap what you sow. You don't get any (positive) attention for being a man, and people don't usually just approach and talk to you. You make friends and bond over common interests and shared suffering, surprise surprise, you aren't going to make many male friends as a narcissistic imposter whose entire existence and personality is basically trans activism, or even be able to hold a conversation. Does she know anything about cars? sports? handiwork? skilled trades? investing? fitness? These are common topics of conversations as men, not social nonsense, gender theory or activist politics.

The other thing about men that women don't understand is that insults are a way of bonding, a lot of things men say to each other would have a woman running off crying.

This probably another man/woman difference: MtFs and would-be MtFs love invading women's hobbies and spaces and going full "How do you do fellow women, I too wear panties and bras", while FtMs don't really try to do "male hobbies" beyond "pretend to be interested in sports". Can you name even one semi-popular FtM streamer?

 

[Kane Lives]

Am I supposed to feel sympathy for this pooner? Everything she talked about is just a normal reality of being a man.

 

[DankSmoker]

Maybe some of what this woman LARPing as keemstar is correct but what they failed at is the key component of manliness: stoicism.

 

[East_Clintwood]

I live in a blue city

it's like I'm surrounded by a bunch of mentally ill retards or something.

There's no like about it, my dude.

 

[Maverick Vile]

Tough titties, like isn't easy.

More like no titties, amiright?!

 

[AnOminous]

Does she know anything about cars? sports? handiwork? skilled trades? investing? fitness? These are common topics of conversations as men, not social nonsense, gender theory or activist politics.

She's not a man so she's never going to be anyone's bro, and she's a gross bearded woman so they don't even want to fuck her. Good job turning in that pussy pass for an armflesh tube.

The other thing about men that women don't understand is that insults are a way of bonding, a lot of things men say to each other would have a woman running off crying.

Men swapping outrageous insults is literally how we tell each other we're bros and can say shit to each other that would get any other man punched in the mouth.

 

[Kermit Jizz]

I don't understand how these woman can claim that they feel like a man, have always felt like a man, claim to be a man, but have no idea what being a man is like.

"I have no idea how these women can claim to feel like they know something without actually knowing anything about it."

They're women.

 

[Pissmaster]

"Nobody told me how lonely being a man is," the influencer claimed in the two-minute video discussing having more friends when identifying as a woman.

It's a good thing that I can naturally handle lonliness, and even enjoy being alone most of the time, thanks to how I was born a man, with a man brain and man instincts.

 

[OutInTheRain]

Just like a man can't grow his hair, wear shitty makeup and dress like a stripper and suddenly become a woman.
A woman can't grow a beard, dress like a slob and shave her head and become a man.

She was used to how women behave, how much more social and outgoing they are. Guys are stoic, we don't care, and news flash, no dude wants to talk in the bathroom. Turns out there might be more to being a man, and being a woman than just playing dress up and pills made by the lowest bidder.

 

[Falcos_Commisar]

You rotten, loathsome, shallow cunt.

You'd think after eight years of playing pretend that she would have picked up something by now of what being a man is really like. She did this to herself. She can fucking rot.

I will say her hormones and probable masculinization surgery did a pretty good job at hiding the fact that she's a woman... Right until the neck is exposed and she's down to her underwear or swim trunks.....

 

[stupid frog]

Guys are stoic, we don't care, and news flash, no dude wants to talk in the bathroom.

She was talking to women in bathrooms at clubs. They were doing their make up and gossiping, not actually using the bathrooms.
Also drunk girls are friendly to other drunk girls, or incredibly bitchy. She was fat so they probably mocked her behind her back.

 

[Honored guest]

"Additionally, the speaker admitted they could now see more clearly why the suicide rate for men is "higher," though Barnes noted that it doesn’t negate the complaints the rest of society has about straight white males.
"And what’s hard is, none of this invalidates how real and raw women and people who are in marginalized groups feels about cis white men, all of that’s valid. But I also now understand why the suicide rate is so much higher in men, because this s--- is lonely!""


Well fuck you to. Why don't you add to the 'male' suicide rate. You're a white male now so necking yourself is a net positive now, you worthless pooner.

 

[Cats]

Straight white transphobes did this to him. It can't be that he is now fucking repulsive looking and nobody wants to look at or touch him. It can't be that.

It can't be that we don't like seeing niggers burn our cities to the ground and grift for jew-pities and societal favor because normal people demand that there be consequences for their actions. It can't be that we sometimes express disdain toward them because they have made blatant disrespect a definitive feature of their culture and attitude. We're just racists. It must be that.

Why do we keep doing this to poor marginalized groups?

 

[The Ugly One]

This was surreal to watch because she looks and sounds aesthetically male (at least not without showing her elfin hands), but the content was 100% a hysterical woman rant. Let's go down the list:

1. Crying. Holy fuck, the crying. I haven't cried this much since I was little, certainly not about being lonely.
2. She made an elaborate plan to become something she hates (a white male) without even thinking, once, maybe...uh...there might be a down side.
3. Expecting everyone around her to just know she's a TiF and give her hugs or whatever
4. She cannot process the misfortune in her life as a consequence of her choices
5. No hint of a plan of action to improve her circumstance; she just wants to cry and everyone will come share feelz with her

At least when TiMs get the chop, lose their libido, and go "holy fuck, what have I done?" they're snapping back to reason out of madness (too late, of course, but still). But this li'l pooner can't do that. She got into this via female feelzing and unreasoning, and she's just crazypilling herself further down into the mire of her own empty-headed nonsense.

 

[Dr. Henry Armitage]

Nobody told me how lonely being a man is," the influencer claimed in the two-minute video discussing having more friends when identifying as a woman.

Fuck you. Men have been talking about it for decades and people like you made fun of them.

Additionally, the speaker admitted they could now see more clearly why the suicide rate for men is "higher," though Barnes noted that it doesn’t negate the complaints the rest of society has about straight white males.

Go fuck yourself with a rake. Despite having some idea of what it's like being a modern man you still cannot find an ounce of sympathy for men. Men don't want to be validated that's what women want. All we want is to not be shit on by the society we keep running. You will never be a real man and you should suck start a shotgun as soon as possible.

 

[Marvin]

My dad went out by lying on the NEC tracks and getting blasted by a train. These girly motherfuckers are tourists to the male experience in America.

 

[LurkTrawl]

The suicide rate for men is higher due to competency and not being as histrionic on average.

Women are just fucking bad at it.

 

[quaawaa]

...Christ almighty, it's like I'm surrounded by a bunch of mentally ill retards or something.

The only thing that kept me sane when living around that sort of person was the knowledge that if we regain control of the media, they'll all agree with us within a week. NPCs are a benefit if you can control them and a curse if you cannot.

 

[White Devil]

Little bitch can't hang. They think that after spending decades trying to emasculate us, take away our spaces, behaviorally modify us, and claim everything about masculinity and being a man is "toxic", they can just go and cosplay as us.