Trans man goes viral after getting emotional about the ‘loneliness’ of life after gender transition - Health conscious feminists can now drink male tears lite.

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Trans man goes viral after getting emotional about the ‘loneliness’ of life after gender transition

'I also now understand why the suicide rate is so much higher in men, because this s--- is lonely!' Barnes claimed on Instagram

By Gabriel Hays

A biological female turned trans man went viral this week after posting an emotional video about the loneliness of being a man.

"Nobody told me how lonely being a man is," the influencer claimed in the two-minute video discussing having more friends when identifying as a woman.

The subject also discussed why the male suicide rate is higher than in women.

The video was first published to Instagram by James Barnes, a motivational speaker, stress management coach, and social media influencer who claimed to have transitioned from being a woman to a man eight years ago.

Barnes, who goes by "thetranscoach" on the platform, opened up about the struggles of living as a man in the clip that was shared Thursday.

Specifically, the user lamented that life as a man is much lonelier than life as a woman.

The clip opened with Barnes, sporting a beard and wearing a white baseball cap, declaring, "Nobody told me how lonely being a man is." The user then noted how, as a woman, it was much easier connecting to other people in general.

Shedding tears, Barnes said, "I have had closer relationships with random women I met in the bathroom before I transitioned at clubs because of how open women are, than I’ve had in my eight years of transitioning because women are just so much more vulnerable and deep than men."

The speaker noted that trans men have the unique experience of this dramatic shift after they’ve transitioned, stating, "But to have known, and I think a lot of trans men feel this, is we knew what that depth felt like before we transitioned. We knew what it felt like to like have people want to hug us and to have people want to talk to us and have a community."

Voice breaking, the influencer continued, "And then you transition and you’re just a guy walking down the street that people cross the street so that they’re not near you."

Barnes also voiced his realization that as a man "friendships are so much harder to build. And people are colder."

Additionally, the speaker admitted they could now see more clearly why the suicide rate for men is "higher," though Barnes noted that it doesn’t negate the complaints the rest of society has about straight white males.

"And what’s hard is, none of this invalidates how real and raw women and people who are in marginalized groups feels about cis white men, all of that’s valid. But I also now understand why the suicide rate is so much higher in men, because this s--- is lonely!"

Barnes then urged viewers to reach out to men in their communities and "help them maybe be seen for a moment."

Prominent conservative Twitter account "Libs of TikTok" shared the clip to her Twitter page on Friday, where it acquired more than 15 million views in less than 24 hours.

Libs of TikTok captioned the post, writing, "This is really sad. Trans man realizes how hard it is to be a man when you’re really a woman. Males and females are different and no matter what you do to your body, you can’t be the opposite sex."

 

[God of Nothing]

Because they think they can become better, safer men. Even though they're still afraid of real men.

Also not realizing that feminine men are disliked by everyone.

Women like the idea of feminine men, as you often hear them say, until they actually interact with them

It's such a novel concept to the average woman they mistake experiencing empathy like a normal human as a sign they are an "empath." It's truly a level of self-absorption I struggle to wrap my head around.

I don't understand how women can keep saying the most ridiculous shit and have no one bat an eye just because they're women. Astrology, manifesting, and just plain ignorance. It'd be one thing if it were just the internet if I didn't have the misfortune of encountering this in my day to day life.

It is. We call each other names every so often. This is how males get along.

It's the male version of the shit test, except it's given so we actually improve as people. If you get hurt by words, what kind of man are you? They're endearing because we implicitly understand the other person thinks us above such things. They trust that you can handle it, and if you can't, you should learn to because there are far worse things in this world. A man who can't take an insult isn't someone you can trust or depend on nor should.

 

[The Ugly One]

Reminder that "society" is half men, and all this shit happened because it was enabled by institutional simpery.

THAT SAID

Society has literally always treated men as disposable, and this isn't just a curse. The fact that society, as a whole, doesn't care too much if a man gets blown to bits is why we can do cool shit. Look at how Amelia Earhart's death is, to this day, some kind of legend, while the legions of men who died making powered flight a reality (including notable men, like one of the founders of Rolls-Royce) are completely forgotten. In fact, Earhart was only able to become a figurehead for flight because people felt like the male pioneers had finally made flight safe enough for a woman to play at adventure.

Or look at how different the reaction was to Christa McAuliffe dying in a fiery explosion as compared to Gus Grissom. Guess who's featured in more biographies and children's books on Amazon? But there's another important difference - Grissom's death, like the previous deaths of Elliot See and Theodore Freeman, was viewed as a necessary tragedy on the road to the moon, while McAuliffe's death was the beginning of the end of the Shuttle program.

She can't imagine what she would do with a few days of alone time, because she's not a man, and she doesn't want to do anything. Forget going to the moon. Go up on your roof and clear shit out of the gutters. Get under your car and see if you can figure out what's clanking without going to the shop. Go get your tools and build a birdhouse. Go dig up a dead bush and replace it. Or just, I don't know, play video games all afternoon.

Nobody cares what you do, and it's kind of nice.

 

[Maverick Vile]

And the reported attempt rate is lower because if a man tries and fails, unless he's found unconscious or ends up incapacitated, no one will ever know he tried.

How much you bet they count obvious attention-grabs like raking a butter knife across her wrists as attempted suicide? Many "attempts" for women have no intention of success, they just wanted people to feel sorry for them. When men kill themselves, they're generally not looking for attention, they're making the hurting stop the only way they know will work for sure.

Therapists have barely bothered to cater to men and it's hard to find decent mental help. The social saftey net for men is like the foam pit at Twitch con without the foam. It's a ten foot drop onto cold, hard concrete.

Oh, they cater to men alright. If you open up about your issues to a therapist all sorts of wonderful things happen to you, like being pathologized, considered a threat to society, and having your 2nd Amendment rights stripped for expressing something as human as rage or sadness. That solves the suicide problem, right? Right?

Women like the idea of feminine men, as you often hear them say, until they actually interact with them

Never believe a woman at her word. They are creatures of keeping verbal peace and will say whatever sounds good for society to keep the room sounding pleasant. Observe how they react to behavior to understand what they truly want, and women respond very poorly to emotional males.

 

[Cyclonus]

How much you bet they count obvious attention-grabs like raking a butter knife across her wrists as attempted suicide? Many "attempts" for women have no intention of success, they just wanted people to feel sorry for them. When men kill themselves, they're generally not looking for attention, they're making the hurting stop the only way they know will work for sure.

Every time someone brings up the male suicide rate being so high, some bloody feminist counters with "Oh, but women are four times more likely to ATTEMPT suicide!" This is why. You can dress it up as "a cry for help" but this is why. The only alternative would be that women are too incompetent to commit suicide.

I've also heard them say "Men don't care about the way they look so they blow their brains out, but women do and they're more considerate of the people who find them so they just take overdoses!" like finding a corpse covered in its own vomit would be a pleasant experience. Do you know which method is incredibly effective yet leaves a good looking corpse? Gas inhilation. So you'd expect more women to check out that way. But no, the male rate of death by gas is much higher than that of women.

But of course, it's so important to feminists that men shouldn't win even one event in the oppression Olympics that they'll always find a way to downplay male suffering.

 

[Vyse Inglebard]

Society has literally always treated men as disposable, and this isn't just a curse. The fact that society, as a whole, doesn't care too much if a man gets blown to bits is why we can do cool shit.

^this. Isn't it interesting how the world at large keeps on churning, even though men, as a gender, have recieved nothing but emasculation, insults, and shame since at least the '60s? Isn't it fascinating how our infrastructure remains standing despite the complete lack of acknowledgement for men's contributions as a demographic, even though the overwhelming majority of the literal back-breaking labor involved is fufilled by men? It's a good thing actual men, by and large, don't require the constant uplifting emotional validation that people like this pooner believe that we can't go without. Otherwise, we probably would've gone extinct long before we laid the first brick in making society what it is today.

 

[Zookerton]

As a man the deal gets worse every year. Hoflation is a reality. Marriage is equivalent to handing a gun to a woman and telling her not to shoot you with it anytime from when you tied the knot to your expiry date.

This woman decided to play life on the insane difficulty. Imagine being treated as a guy even if you take the hormone of the gods it's not going to change the fact that they are biologically a woman.

You aren't allowed to cry as a guy. People will lose respect for you in any circumstance for crying.

At the end of the day she has an out she can go join the lghdtv+ group to farm a little bit of sympathy.

The deal for men is so dogshit in 2023. I won't be surprised when we have an atlas shrugged moment and infrastructure for a lot of modern conveniences just crumbles away.

 

[The Ugly One]

^this. Isn't it interesting how the world at large keeps on churning, even though men, as a gender, have recieved nothing but emasculation, insults, and shame since at least the '60s? Isn't it fascinating how our infrastructure remains standing despite the complete lack of acknowledgement for men's contributions as a demographic, even though the overwhelming majority of the literal back-breaking labor involved is fufilled by men? It's a good thing actual men, by and large, don't require the constant uplifting emotional validation that people like this pooner believe that we can't go without. Otherwise, we probably would've gone extinct long before we laid the first brick in making society what it is today.

Society keeps going because dudes have always rocked.

 

[frap]

Once again I am convinced that FtMs have literally never even interacted with an actual male in any way, shape or form. It's not some secret knowledge that men behave, emote and interact differently to women.

This bit is quite telling:

Voice breaking, the influencer continued, "And then you transition and you’re just a guy walking down the street that people cross the street so that they’re not near you."

She's making it all about her, but the men I know go out of their way (when they notice) to not alarm a lone women if they happen to both be walking in an isolated place, usually giving them a wide berth or trying to quickly get ahead so it doesn't seem like they're stalking her. But it doesn't even occur to Miss Man here to do that - it's all about how sad it makes her that the girls are trying to escape the creepy manlet thing. If she was truly a man deep inside her manly soul shouldn't this be the most affirming thing ever?

 

[AnOminous]

Even if society shits all over you, like you said, you're supposed to "man up" and operate at full capacity as a cog in the machine no matter what.

And they wonder why more and more people want to chuck a monkey wrench in it instead.

Women like the idea of feminine men, as you often hear them say, until they actually interact with them

Yeah but they mean some bishie type like a Kpop star who is also a millionaire, not some cringy manlet with no chin and a pube beard.

 

[Male Idiot]

And they wonder why more and more people want to chuck a monkey wrench in it instead.

Yeah but they mean some bishie type like a Kpop star who is also a millionaire, not some cringy manlet with no chin and a pube beard.

A K-pop star that is a millionaire, a world travelled rogue, a poet, a secret spy, has a cute boyfriend and can mpgreg.

 

[Stoneheart]

And they wonder why more and more people want to chuck a monkey wrench in it instead.

This would all be fine if they didnt interfere in our work.... they can call me a monster in the media all year around, but please no more HR....

 

[God's drunkest driver]

Can you name even one semi-popular FtM streamer?

I can't. Can a streamer viewer is the real question. I only know of any streamers at all because of memes, KF, and a podcast I used to listen to, so it isn't representative.

 

[Sugriva]

Real men only cry when the dog dies in the movie. It's a single, solitary tear, and you're a faggot if anyone catches you.

 

[CuzinEd]

Imagine wanting everyone to think you are man and then you sit in front a camera and cry like a bitch for nearly 2 minutes about how lonely you are.

Women are social and men not so much. Men spend most of their time alone. A lot of them like it that way. We can deal with it and women can't. You can't handle it because you are fucking woman and a not a real man. You are woman LARPing as a shitty version of a man. Like a shitty knock-off product.

All the hormones in the world aren't going to change your fucking female brain.

Nothing says "I'm a real man" like crying in front of a camera like woman. Good fucking job freak.

 

[Standardized Profile]

I mean, this isn't new. There are three options available to men: booze, drugs and a bullet.

We also have vidya and jacking off. With Tears of the Kingdom, I'm set for months.

 

[Omen_Sulk]

 

[AnOminous]

Real men only cry when the dog dies in the movie. It's a single, solitary tear, and you're a faggot if anyone catches you.

Or if your team wins the Super Bowl. Or when they play the national anthem. Or if you're an Indian sadly looking at a toxic waste dump.

 

[SIMIΔN]

Or if your team wins the Super Bowl. Or when they play the national anthem. Or if you're an Indian sadly looking at a toxic waste dump.

If you are an Ay-talian sadly looking at a toxic waste dump

 

[AnOminous]

If you are an Ay-talian sadly looking at a toxic waste dump

Iron Eyes wasn't an Indian but he played one on TV.

 

[stupid frog]

I'm going to treat this exchange as male banter for the purpose of this observation. no idea if it actually is or not because

Observing from the outside as a female. It's easy to see how she might have had a lot of fun viewing that sort of interaction, It's funny, and it's clear to see the camaraderie between the two men as it occurs.

But watching that interaction and enjoying it are very different from actually experiencing it. And if you're used to female socialization, you're not going to have fun being in the middle of that exchange, but if you lack self-awareness to the point where you're willing to poon troon out you're not going to realize that.

Girls in beauty parlor get mad if you say nigger. This shit exists on this site. No, I won't stop saying it.