Corissa Enneking / fatgirlflow and Juliana "J" Aprileo / comfyfattravels - Delusional fat-acceptance lesbian couple, junk-food addicts with expensive taste, denied a mortgage due to excessive Doordash ordering

[Eat and Yeet]

Holy shit, I rarely get agitated over these people and prefer to watch from afar but to continuously make the suffering of other people about yourself is so damn narcissistic!
"My dad has all these issues and whatever but I, the brave person I am, have to visit him and endure being pushed around by my mom instead of trying to be mobile for myself or accept the fact that I can't walk and not put strain on others! I am the disabled one here!"

I know I know, powerlevel but I am heavy and when I broke my foot I rather walked than having the poor short and thin nurse try to push me around in a wheelchair. Is it really so hard to think about other people instead of pushing your own suffering onto them until everyone around you is miserable as well? Where is the line between "these other people are suffering but I am the biggest victim" and "I am suffering so other people are not allowed to not suffer along with me"?

 

[Angry New Ager]

I've known more than a few people with destructive lifestyle habits—smokers, fatties, drunks, druggies—who cleaned up their shit because they realized that they were eventually going to pose a heavy burden on people they loved if they didn't.

If you watch a family member care for a dying relative, and see how hard it is for them, the last thing anybody with a heart would want to do is put them through that again, or inflict it on another family member. If you love the people in your life, you just don't do that to them. At the very least, you make some effort to avoid it. You don't even have to love yourself to do it; you just have to not want to be a source of suffering and grief for the person who would get stuck caring for you.

I honestly don't know what Juliana thinks she's going to do when her back pain/sciatica doesn't get better, and her mobility keeps dwindling, and the day comes when she can no longer care for herself. One day, she will be in too much pain to get out of bed, and while she might be okay the following day, those days where she can't get out of bed are going to start happening more frequently, until they become most of her days, and then all of her days.

And it's going to happen faster than she can possibly imagine. I can't remember where I heard it, but somebody (John Michael Greer, perhaps?) was talking about how the collapse of civilizations happens "slowly, then all at once." And I can't help but keep thinking about that quote when I look at the deathfats here, but especially when I look at Juliana. Bodies, like civilizations, are complicated structures composed of interlocking systems that work in concert with each other, and if you keep slowly chipping away at the integrity and function of individual structures, eventually the whole damned thing will just collapse.

At the rate Juliana's going, there is no possible recovery for her without taking the kind of drastic action she has,proven herself utterly resistant to so far. She needs to not only stop chipping away at her bodily systems, but actively do the work of restoring them, or at least shoring them up, as best she can. That's not going to happen; we all know that. So it's all downhill for her, and has been, slowly, for years. And even now, it may still seem like a slow descent, but it's definitely accelerated in the last three years, and I don't think it's going to take another three years for her decline to make a catastrophic, "all at once," surge forward.

And who is going to get stuck taking care of Juliana, post-collapse? It sure as shit isn't going to be Corissa; that burden's going to fall squarely on Pattie. But whoever's job it ends up being, Juliana hasn't given a single thought to the hardships it will impose on that person, or how that might be avoided. I suspect she avoids thinking about it at all, because to do so would make her uncomfortable—and she has no tolerance for that.

 

[Septictic]

OK, so Julianna is an egoistic scrotum who brags about how her mighty weight inconveniences and harm her sick and dying parents. I get that. She is living her revenge fantasy. For a lot of fatties weight is power. They can charge and sit on their bullies, it magically protects against SA, it makes them impossible to kidnap. And the one they really love: It takes up a lot of space. A room of ones own indeed.

What I don't get: You'd have to have a gargantuan ego to even find yourself in Juliannas situation (bragging on social media about your sick little old mom pushing you around to see your dying father.) An ego that size, so cold, so developed, should protect Julianna from self-mutilation.

The ritual suicide of the HAES cult is a slow and painful death. Far from the obvious choice for an ego of this size. I just don't get it.

 

[GenociderSyo]

What pisss me off about J lately is her father is dying of pancreatic cancer that hes just treating non stop and has yet to get remission, he has had a full of stroke and now hes fallen and broken his hip/femur yet J is making her mother take care of her and wheel her around the hospital. It's a complete disrespect of her parents.

 

[beanbag in a hurry]

What pisss me off about J lately is her father is dying of pancreatic cancer that hes just treating non stop and has yet to get remission, he has had a full of stroke and now hes fallen and broken his hip/femur yet J is making her mother take care of her and wheel her around the hospital. It's a complete disrespect of her parents.
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What makes people look at you and think you need a pep talk?
You.
You do, juliana.
For the absolute actual freak that you've eaten and testosteroned yourself into.

 

[Breadbear]

My father's dying but look at what a burden I am, tee hee.

 

[stupid frog]

You are a freak, among other words.

Noticed she's started using Corissa's ugly freckles butterfly filter. I'm guessing it also slims...

 

[LonesomeDud]

I hope J gets hit by lightning and sizzles like a piece of pork belly while she screams.

 

[Tomato flowers]

So manly. Much nail polish … ?

 

[often puzzled]

Contextually, they probably thought she needed a pep talk because she was in a wheelchair at the hospital and looks like she's actively dying. If I saw J being pushed around the hospital, I'd assume she was the patient. After all, one's mind doesn't automatically jump to "deathfat with dying father who has no shame about making her disabled mother push her around a hospital."

She also talks about how hard it is not having a full-time caregiver, as if this is something even legitimately-disabled people can easily acquire (far from it). If anyone needs a live-in caregiver, it's Steve and Pattie. A broken hip is so often the specific injury that means the end is very near, and I doubt Pattie is up to assisting her (very, very physically frail and apparently in cognitive decline) husband. The man is a total stranger, but it just hurts your heart to see another human being in that condition.

But J somehow doesn't see it. And somehow feels that she's the one suffering. And feels targeted by a stranger's attempt to be kind.

Wow. Just wow. Godspeed to Steve and Pattie, truly. Not a trace of sarcasm there. I'm glad they have the other people in their facility to offer them support.

J, get a grip. You're not the victim here, and you should be completely ashamed of yourself. And who's gonna roll you around at fat camp? Do you think your mom is going to leave her dying husband to be your chaperone and chauffeur?

Completely disgusting.

 

[LonesomeDud]

@often puzzled You're just right. She looks like she needs a pep talk. It also sounds like the woman was Christian or Muslim. Sharing testimony is something both groups get moved to do, sometimes inappropriately, but usually from a good place. Sharing the love and miracles of God doesn't harm anyone. It takes so little to encourage someone just to remind them there's a shared brotherhood of man and that they're loved by their brothers and sisters, or as J-types prefer to say, "seen."

I've received a lot of help and kindness in my life, some of it as a brief exchange where someone took the time to lift me up for no other reason but human kindness. Some of it was deeply life-changing. I hope I've done that for other people, and what a rotten person she is for scorning that woman. I hope that woman never finds this thread.

J may be a unique miracle of God, but she certainly isn't my favorite, if God reads this thread.

 

[stupid frog]

J may be a unique miracle of God, but she certainly isn't my favorite, if God reads this thread.

If this fat bitch wasn't hanging off Corissa's tit, she'd be an aside in the general fat thread. She can't even be entertaining.

 

[GenociderSyo]

 

[Cranky Old Broad]

Damn, Corissa, put your saggy tits away. No one wants to see that!

What happened to shame?

 

[toilet_rainbow]

Nice to see Coco distancing herself from her partner eating herself into a wheelchair by doubling down on her own obesity. Ozempic is the real enemy here!

 

[Cuddlebug]

God, J makes me MATI. I know I should just point and laugh, but that *chip* on her shoulder makes me want to throttle her.

*What makes people think that I need a pep talk?*

I dunno, J, maybe it's because you've rendered yourself disabled at the age of thirty and weigh almost as much as a small car? I used to pity you too, but then I saw that in your case, the outside matches the inside. Rotten, bloated, fat, and self centered.

Super glad that Corissa is TAKING A STAND and keeping the fat body, though. She's one of my favorite cows, and skinny cows just don't give the same milk.

 

[GenociderSyo]

 

[multiverse]

Juliana ought to be utterly, completely shamed of herself for demanding that her ailing mother wheel her to their sick and dying family member for a visit. When you are a burden and not a help - STAY CLEAR OF THE ACTUAL SICK.

What does Juliana do at home when she doesn't have her mother to wheel her about in a free hospital wheelchair? Oh, does she walk? Then walk, you selfish bitch. Walk like you life depended on it - because it does.

This fat useless lump can't die in her sleep fast enough. I hope Coco has to pay to have a wall torn down when it happens.

 

[toilet_rainbow]

Juliana ought to be utterly, completely shamed of herself for demanding that her ailing mother wheel her to their sick and dying family member for a visit. When you are a burden and not a help - STAY CLEAR OF THE ACTUAL SICK.

What does Juliana do at home when she doesn't have her mother to wheel her about in a free hospital wheelchair? Oh, does she walk? Then walk, you selfish bitch. Walk like you life depended on it - because it does.

This fat useless lump can't die in her sleep fast enough. I hope Coco has to pay to have a wall torn down when it happens.

Dr Now has said that once a deathfat is in a scootypuff or wheelchair, their prognosis is pretty grim. Most of them never leave the chair or end up bedbound until they die. Look at Jen Armstrong and how she wanted to "progress" from bedbound to being in the chair. We all know how that ended.

Juliana is fucked.

 

[GenociderSyo]