You Know What Grinds My Gears? - Things that personally piss you off

Guy accused me of being an atheist because we were talking about the apocalypse or something and because he insisted that I said I was. Not much context but I barley even payed attention to what this guy was saying and mostly my ears turned off after I heard "I was raised Methodist".
 
Guy accused me of being an atheist because we were talking about the apocalypse or something and because he insisted that I said I was. Not much context but I barley even payed attention to what this guy was saying and mostly my ears turned off after I heard "I was raised Methodist".
Can relate. I get accused of being all kinds of things based on incredibly limited knowledge on stances of mine that the other person knows about (or thinks they know about). I voice one even remotely conservative fact or opinion, I must be an ultra alt-righter way to the right. I voice even one remotely "liberal" fact or opinion, I must be a third wave feminist all the way to the left. I voice any fact or opinion that doesn't align with the perceptions of someone of any religion, suddenly I must be a Reddit atheist. I voice any fact or opinion in support of anything that any religion aligns with, and I must be some kind of zealot. Anything between or combining facts or views construed as being right and left, and people will accuse me of being whatever will suit their narrative. Fuck, people from all over the political spectrum assume I'm an ultra lefty just because I "dress goth", for pity's sake; then act shocked when I say I hate Commiefornia.

It really pisses me off that people are so obsessed with identity politics that their minds are incapable of even the notion that people exist who don't belong to a fucking cult, that some people actually think for themselves rather than just pick a team and then repeat the team mottoes. Stop being hiveminded bug people, retards.
 
Can relate. I get accused of being all kinds of things based on incredibly limited knowledge on stances of mine that the other person knows about (or thinks they know about). I voice one even remotely conservative fact or opinion, I must be an ultra alt-righter way to the right. I voice even one remotely "liberal" fact or opinion, I must be a third wave feminist all the way to the left. I voice any fact or opinion that doesn't align with the perceptions of someone of any religion, suddenly I must be a Reddit atheist. I voice any fact or opinion in support of anything that any religion aligns with, and I must be some kind of zealot. Anything between or combining facts or views construed as being right and left, and people will accuse me of being whatever will suit their narrative. Fuck, people from all over the political spectrum assume I'm an ultra lefty just because I "dress goth", for pity's sake; then act shocked when I say I hate Commiefornia.

It really pisses me off that people are so obsessed with identity politics that their minds are incapable of even the notion that people exist who don't belong to a fucking cult, that some people actually think for themselves rather than just pick a team and then repeat the team mottoes. Stop being hiveminded bug people, retards.
This is why I leave my deep conversations for the random homeless and drug addicts. I can have something more meaningful unironically.
 
This is why I leave my deep conversations for the random homeless and drug addicts. I can have something more meaningful unironically.
It's a byproduct of the retarded Amerilard "politics as sports teams" bullshit, generally from people so fucking dumb they don't even understand their own beliefs, much less those of others.
 
It's a byproduct of the retarded Amerilard "politics as sports teams" bullshit, generally from people so fucking dumb they don't even understand their own beliefs, much less those of others.
Don't even get me wrong you're right but this sports team behavior has long existed since the Fall of the Roman Empire. The Byzantine Empire (Basically the East Romans and one of the most successful Christian empires) had this exact example in place. Political factions that took their colors from the hippodrome chariot racers. Most notably the Greens and Blues where the Greens represented Monophysitism and the lower classes; the Blues, orthodoxy and the upper classes. Personally I'll continue to blame the largely inbred and power-hungry ascendant Jews.
 
Don't even get me wrong you're right but this sports team behavior has long existed since the Fall of the Roman Empire. The Byzantine Empire (Basically the East Romans and one of the most successful Christian empires) had this exact example in place. Political factions that took their colors from the hippodrome chariot racers. Most notably the Greens and Blues where the Greens represented Monophysitism and the lower classes; the Blues, orthodoxy and the upper classes. Personally I'll continue to blame the largely inbred and power-hungry ascendant Jews.
The Blues and Greens. Lmao, those are so hilarious, they literally got in a riot that left Constantinople in ruins. It was one of the most horrific massacres in ancient history.

Worst soccer riot in history. Well technically chariot racing, but seriously wtf.
 
The Blues and Greens. Lmao, those are so hilarious, they literally got in a riot that left Constantinople in ruins. It was one of the most horrific massacres in ancient history.

Worst soccer riot in history. Well technically chariot racing, but seriously wtf.
I loved learning about all those guys in school but it grinds my gears that a lot of people don't remember much about them. I usually relive the good days by watching Dovahhatty's videos on the East Romans because I can only be entertained if Chads and Virgins are involved in a creative video.
 
I've noticed a weird thing where people are like...wanting to be known as autistic now.

For example, I'm seeing people in their mid 30's posting these dumb adult autism quizes and getting all excited because they're being listed as autistic.

First of all, they're not. But second of all, why the fuck would anyone WANT to be a fucking sperg?
 
I've noticed a weird thing where people are like...wanting to be known as autistic now.

For example, I'm seeing people in their mid 30's posting these dumb adult autism quizes and getting all excited because they're being listed as autistic.

First of all, they're not. But second of all, why the fuck would anyone WANT to be a fucking sperg?
Because they think being "autistic" is this quirky little thing, and that some little quiz tells them they're autistic. Not going to a battery of doctors and psychologists and having a shitload of tests done on you at a young age to see if you've actually got the 'tism. And they have no idea what actually having autism looks like, or how much it can impede a normal life.

Same thing with teens who think they're trannies, it's something largely done for attention that isn't given the seriousness it deserves, which winds up cheapening things for people who actually do have a clinical diagnosis of autism.
 
Particularly retarded feels-based reasoning, no matter the political or whatever inclination of the person. I can have respect for people with fairly retarded fundamental beliefs as long as they apply them reasonably and logically.
Example: at my job, there's a drive towards a "green" and "eco-friendly" way of doing things. As part of this, we're selling off many diesel and gasoline-powered machines in favor of electric ones. But if you truly wanted to limit total atmospheric co2 release, you'd continuously repair and use the old machines until complete ruination rather than sell and replace functional shit, because the co2 cost of just manufacturing the new machines and their batteries is staggeringly high.

This is really annoying thing with many recycling campaigns as well: many things aren't fucking worth recycling for the material, and are best simply burned for district heating or power. Aluminum beverage cans are some of the few things actually worth it iirc.
 
Particularly retarded feels-based reasoning, no matter the political or whatever inclination of the person. I can have respect for people with fairly retarded fundamental beliefs as long as they apply them reasonably and logically.
Example: at my job, there's a drive towards a "green" and "eco-friendly" way of doing things. As part of this, we're selling off many diesel and gasoline-powered machines in favor of electric ones. But if you truly wanted to limit total atmospheric co2 release, you'd continuously repair and use the old machines until complete ruination rather than sell and replace functional shit, because the co2 cost of just manufacturing the new machines and their batteries is staggeringly high.

This is really annoying thing with many recycling campaigns as well: many things aren't fucking worth recycling for the material, and are best simply burned for district heating or power. Aluminum beverage cans are some of the few things actually worth it iirc.
On the same note with the eco-unfriendly-friendliness, I have to give a mild power level. I work in a laboratory that deals with GMOs and as such it's subject to very strict disposal rules. Every day TONS of single use plastic packaging and equipment is used and sent for autoclaving and incineration, in addition to the large quantities of damaging chemicals that require god knows what sort of processing for disposal. Power hungry machines run constantly, even when not in use.

Yet they still have the audacity to have little "be environmentally friendly" posters. Fuck off.
 
You know what Grinds my gears? Not this thread. It's quite enlightening.

When a hobby is taken over by people who don't care about the hobby and are only there to either; virtue signal and use it as a soapbox for spouting political shite or using it as a way to make easy money.

For example; gaming. Good artists get paid because their talent and skill commands money. Those who are shit artists give it away for free. Old-school games are made by good artists and are worth the money. Shit games are free to play and GaaS because they're shit.
 
Spotify audio ads, fuck them.

Because they think being "autistic" is this quirky little thing, and that some little quiz tells them they're autistic. Not going to a battery of doctors and psychologists and having a shitload of tests done on you at a young age to see if you've actually got the 'tism. And they have no idea what actually having autism looks like, or how much it can impede a normal life.

Same thing with teens who think they're trannies, it's something largely done for attention that isn't given the seriousness it deserves, which winds up cheapening things for people who actually do have a clinical diagnosis of autism.

Many autistic people try to fight back against the fakers, but often we get censored for it.
 
Can relate. I get accused of being all kinds of things based on incredibly limited knowledge on stances of mine that the other person knows about (or thinks they know about).
I've experience the same thing. Someone in a union job is convinced I'm an ultra-conservative Republican. Meanwhile, conservatives think I'm liberal given my opinions on other limited topics. I simply chuckle and enjoy both sides trying to pigeonhole me on very limited information. :popcorn:

First of all, they're not. But second of all, why the fuck would anyone WANT to be a fucking sperg?
My observation is that it allows them to declare themselves "neurodivergent" which means (in their minds) they can blame any lack of personal responsibility or bad behavior on having the 'tism - never mind that there are people who legitimately have Autism that still manage to be functional, respectable members of society.

When a hobby is taken over by people who don't care about the hobby and are only there to either; virtue signal and use it as a soapbox for spouting political shite or using it as a way to make easy money.
Edit to add: I've posted a similar gripe elsewhere. There is a podcast related to a hobby of mine that I'll listen to when time permits. During the summer of 2020, the host thought it was a good idea to let his guest sperg out about driving while black and white privilege - topics that have nothing to do with the hobby or usual subject/topics that get discussed. Needless to say, I didn't listen to that episode for more than five minutes tops.

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My observation is that it allows them to declare themselves "neurodivergent" which means (in their minds) they can blame any lack of personal responsibility or bad behavior on having the 'tism - never mind that there are people who legitimately have Autism that still manage to be functional, respectable members of society.
It's unironically this. They want to be able to do whatever they want whenever they want without facing any consequences. Slight PL, but I recently fired someone who tried to use this exact same excuse at my store.

Turns out claiming to be autistic, and that you "didn't know any better" doesn't mean jackshit when 1) you didn't put it on your resume, 2) are twenty-five, and logically should know better by that age, and 3) showing porn to customers, and coworkers.
 
Turns out claiming to be autistic, and that you "didn't know any better" doesn't mean jackshit when 1) you didn't put it on your resume, 2) are twenty-five, and logically should know better by that age, and 3) showing porn to customers, and coworkers.
This is especially retarded to use as an excuse, as autistic people (at least the high functioning ones) tend to be more heavily adherent to rules and routine.

Maybe he was going for the "socially inept" angle, but you can be socially inept without being autistic. In fact, that's another thing to add to this gripe: all these people wanna blame their social retardation on being autistic, when in reality they're just shitty people who suck at life.
 
The fact that I can't find a therapist that isn't dead-set on being "trauma-focused".

I know I had a shitty childhood, and despite this, I turned into a relatively functional adult with socialization problems. My shitty childhood is no longer my problem. I might be a little on the spectrum, but that really doesn't matter to professional counseling: fuck if you can find someone who's willing to do a behavioral evaluation on an adult.

Yes, I know my upbringing informs my behaviors as an adult, but I swear, having to constantly revisit my childhood is just a societally-acceptable way of reinforcing arrested development.

Find me a counselor that will talk to me like an adult, and I will follow them for-fucking-ever.
 
It really pisses me off that people are so obsessed with identity politics that their minds are incapable of even the notion that people exist who don't belong to a fucking cult, that some people actually think for themselves rather than just pick a team and then repeat the team mottoes. Stop being hiveminded bug people, retards.

I hate that too. The concept of individuality is horrifying to most people these days. Even if it's not political, people feel like they need to turn anything into a cause or identity. Worse yet, they also make these causes/identities their whole personality.

Particularly retarded feels-based reasoning, no matter the political or whatever inclination of the person. I can have respect for people with fairly retarded fundamental beliefs as long as they apply them reasonably and logically.

I also hate this. Knowing how you feel about something isn't the same as knowing what you're talking about. However, that never stops complete loudmouth self-righteous tards from unironically treating their feelings like facts.

When a hobby is taken over by people who don't care about the hobby and are only there to either; virtue signal and use it as a soapbox for spouting political shite or using it as a way to make easy money.

Yes! Exactly! These are people who just want to score brownie points with their activist groups. They're too spineless to solve real problems or be involved in their communities, so they resort to destroying other people's hobbies and interests. They have this weird delusion that they'll "reach the people" with shit like this, yet all they really do is piss off and alienate everyone else. They need to fuck off.

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I really hate office politics more than ever now because of my coworkers. I don't give a fuck about their self-inflicted drama. All I want to do is go to work, do my job, then go home. Rinse and repeat. I don't give a single fuck about their gossip or power struggles. Just let me earn my paycheck in peace.
 
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