Coming Out to Friends as a Transphobe

[Pitere pit]

Thanks God I'm lucky because my family and best friend are transphobic.
I laugh at troons with my sister, my bf and I always quote the YWNBAW copypasta, my ma and pa pity and hate them.
The only person I have problems coming out as normal is my partner, too normie to understand that troons are disgusting and I don't want to traumatize them by showing stinkditches, pedos, zippertits...

 

[TouchFluffyTail]

It's hilarious, both my father and mother are Gen-Xer, left-leaning types - not super hippy-ish, but definitely got that attitude, you know the type of liberals of that particular age and generation

Having very gingerly brought up tranny stuff with them over the last few weeks in general conversation, I was amazed (and pleased) to see how redpilled they are on it. I think a lot of liberals of that age group are less likely to buy into tranny shit, because they lived through times where women actually had to struggle with bullshit, and thus are less likely to broke the bullshit of these demented men-in-dresses who (incorrectly) claim to be oppressed.

 

[Cool Dog Returns]

both my father and mother are Gen-Xer

You have to be over 18 to post here zoomerfag

 

[TouchFluffyTail]

You have to be over 18 to post here zoomerfag

>thread explicitly asking about personal experiences on a particular topic
>TMI react

also:
>being so shit at Google you can't comprehend than Gen-Xers are in their ~mid/late 40s-to-50s right now

Yeah, it really is retard hours

 

[TruffleSpark]

the oldest gen xers are in their late 50s, plenty of them have adult children,

 

[Deezy]

Thanks God I'm lucky because my family and best friend are transphobic.
I laugh at troons with my sister, my bf and I always quote the YWNBAW copypasta, my ma and pa pity and hate them.
The only person I have problems coming out as normal is my partner, too normie to understand that troons are disgusting and I don't want to traumatize them by showing stinkditches, pedos, zippertits...

Same issue with my partner. I don’t see a long-term future with him. It’s a shame because otherwise he’s pretty reasonable, but nothing grosses me out like a man telling me that my opinions are bad because I think gender-segregated sports and locker rooms should stick around.

 

[Space Oddity]

I'm very happy to say that my best friends and family all love to laugh at trannies!

On another note, I'm in a bit of a pickle. I've recently started dating a really nice guy but he's very sensitive about racist, sexist, homophobic or tranny jokes. I'll give it some time, maybe he'll come around?

 

[Nonconsentual Pronouns]

I'm very happy to say that my best friends and family all love to laugh at trannies!

On another note, I'm in a bit of a pickle. I've recently started dating a really nice guy but he's very sensitive about racist, sexist, homophobic or tranny jokes. I'll give it some time, maybe he'll come around?

Please don't do the 'man thing' by leading him on while hiding who you really are. The sooner you let him know your thoughts, feelings, opinions and knowledge of facts on the matter, the better. If not for his sake, then for your own. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life pretending to kneel at the altar of the Stink Ditch? Or worse yet, do you want to spend the rest of your life with a man who values the sexual urges of men in general over your safety and overall well being? If he's willing to support sexpest strangers putting you at risk and making you feel afraid, how is he willing to treat you himself?

I know it's scary, but think of it like an adhesive bandage. When I had to do this (but with my RaCiSm), he only went quiet because he was having a moment of "oh fuck, it all makes sense now".

 

[Space Oddity]

Please don't do the 'man thing' by leading him on while hiding who you really are. The sooner you let him know your thoughts, feelings, opinions and knowledge of facts on the matter, the better. If not for his sake, then for your own. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life pretending to kneel at the altar of the Stink Ditch? Or worse yet, do you want to spend the rest of your life with a man who values the sexual urges of men in general over your safety and overall well being? If he's willing to support sexpest strangers putting you at risk and making you feel afraid, how is he willing to treat you himself?

I know it's scary, but think of it like an adhesive bandage. When I had to do this (but with my RaCiSm), he only went quiet because he was having a moment of "oh fuck, it all makes sense now".

Yes you're right, it's better for both of us if he got to know my "edgy" side. And if he doesn't like it, that's fine. Better to find out while we're in an early phase. I'll try to bring it up as naturally as I can (jokingly, sending memes while texting, etc). Thx for the feedback!

 

[White Devil]

Yes you're right, it's better for both of us if he got to know my "edgy" side. And if he doesn't like it, that's fine. Better to find out while we're in an early phase. I'll try to bring it up as naturally as I can (jokingly, sending memes while texting, etc). Thx for the feedback!

I've found that the best way to break the ice about this kind of thing is gradually ramping up offensive memes.

 

[Auron]

You want to be treated with kindness and for me to interact with you as if you're a woman? Sure, fine, I don't care.

Like you - IRL I would go along with some troon's stupid fantasy- but its only because Id be outcast by everyone else as hateful if I didn't.
In an ideal world we'd be able to call them out on their BS and refuse partake in their fetish.
I really want to wake up some year in the future and normies know its all BS. Young liberal women especially. They are the foot soldiers for this stupid movement. Parroting all the TWAW nonsense.

 

[nonespecified]

The last time I had the discussion about transgenderism with a leftist I told them I subscribed to the First People's two-spirit view and that trans individuals were an amazing example of nature transcending simple male/female binary with a third gender, and that we should do a much better job of recognizing that they exist outside our male/female systems.

I felt like it was a nice, subtle dig at "you will never be a real woman" if they thought about it long enough. Which they won't, because politics and gender are their religion.

 

[Chocola]

I'm very happy to say that my best friends and family all love to laugh at trannies!

On another note, I'm in a bit of a pickle. I've recently started dating a really nice guy but he's very sensitive about racist, sexist, homophobic or tranny jokes. I'll give it some time, maybe he'll come around?

bitch i had the same thing recently
started to date a guy who i was sure 100% is a normie with correct views, and i thought i was right for like 2 months. i was sure he would break up with me if he saw my funny pictures
then we actually accidentally had a discussion about politics, and turns out he hates trannies and pc stuff. now we make fun of it together, its really bonding

this is all to say, ARE YOU SURE he's sensitive? because i consider myself to be such a good human sneed level reader, and i was wrong for several months
also, yeah, your edginess will come out sooner or later... do you really want to be with a man who doesnt let you say nigger, queen?

 

[Lady Bizness]

bitch i had the same thing recently
started to date a guy who i was sure 100% is a normie with correct views, and i thought i was right for like 2 months. i was sure he would break up with me if he saw my funny pictures
then we actually accidentally had a discussion about politics, and turns out he hates trannies and pc stuff. now we make fun of it together, its really bonding

this is all to say, ARE YOU SURE he's sensitive? because i consider myself to be such a good human sneed level reader, and i was wrong for several months
also, yeah, your edginess will come out sooner or later... do you really want to be with a man who doesnt let you say nigger, queen?

There's also a chance that he's got "the correct opinions" as part of his game and would actually love to drop the facade.

 

[Nonconsentual Pronouns]

There's also a chance that he's got "the correct opinions" as part of his game and would actually love to drop the facade.

Perhaps, but then that just goes back to the fact that you'd be dating a guy who's basically catfishing you IRL by pretending to be a different person just to get into your pants. If he's willing to lie to you about stuff like that, he's willing to lie about whatever he thinks will work on you. I sure as shit found that out the hard way, once upon a time.

If he's just keeping his opinions to himself and not pretending to have opinions that he doesn't, it's still bad, just not as bad. That comes down to outright lying vs lying by omission.

 

[LinkinParkxNaruto[AMV]]

There's also a chance that he's got "the correct opinions" as part of his game and would actually love to drop the facade.

This is true.Nowadays men feel like they most women will lean woke by default so they hide their powerlevel just in case.

 

[White Devil]

There's no way we're going to just come right out and give our true opinions in the age of being destroyed and depersoned over them. You gotta work for those. It's not so much lying by omission as much as it is personal protection.

 

[Lady Bizness]

Perhaps, but then that just goes back to the fact that you'd be dating a guy who's basically catfishing you IRL by pretending to be a different person just to get into your pants. If he's willing to lie to you about stuff like that, he's willing to lie about whatever he thinks will work on you. I sure as shit found that out the hard way, once upon a time.

If he's just keeping his opinions to himself and not pretending to have opinions that he doesn't, it's still bad, just not as bad. That comes down to outright lying vs lying by omission.

I agree but to a degree. It's been ages since I've been in the dating game, but I wouldn't expect a guy to come out with his political opinions on his sleeve day one, though it happened a couple of times in my life*.

There's a certain amount of keeping it cool with no malicious intent of just getting into pants, but just trying to get along because most women tend to be liberal. I worked with a woman whose husband was full MAGA and somehow they got along because at the end of the day their focus was their family and the two of them got used to shrugging their shoulders about their political bents.

Spoiler: *

One guy warned me "I'm a cowboy" and another one wore a Tshirt with an assault rifle and "2nd Amendment" screen printed on it on our first and last date. At the time, I was probably at my peak leftist and I still didn't care they were conservative, just if they could back up the bluster with some actual masculinity. Anyway, they could not.

 

[SHOT TRASHED]

As far as dating goes, having "The Correct Opinions" is basically just part of the game now. People used to actively avoid getting so caught up in politics cause it was just one of those things that was likely to cause arguments more than do any good. Now everyone has an opinion on politics they just can't wait to share 99% of the time. So of course folks in the dating game are just going to default to whatever keeps the waters calm.

There's no way we're going to just come right out and give our true opinions in the age of being destroyed and depersoned over them. You gotta work for those. It's not so much lying by omission as much as it is personal protection.

This in addition to the fact that you never really know when people are being two faced when they're trying to learn more about your true opinions. Known a good handful of folks who basically rushed into revealing that stuff at the first opportunity and torpedo'd their relationships after the conversations they had were "totally chill".

Most people are non-confrontational. If trying to learn more about your opinions is just a shit test in disguise, you will not find out immediately.

I worked with a woman whose husband was full MAGA and somehow they got along because at the end of the day their focus was their family and the two of them got used to shrugging their shoulders about their political bents.

It's because social media has basically been engineered to radicalize people when it comes to political interaction and discourse. It gets people riled up like they're somehow going to be the exact deciding factor on an issue. Situations like this rubber-band the knee jerk reactions and make you go "Ah..Well. We don't really agree on politics, but I guess that's just that. Let's just not talk about it."

 

[White Devil]

I worked with a woman whose husband was full MAGA and somehow they got along because at the end of the day their focus was their family and the two of them got used to shrugging their shoulders about their political bents.

That's how it is with my wife and I. I'm not a Trumper but I'm very right wing and she's more liberal. We agree to disagree on stuff but avoid getting into politics. I vote more than she does but I don't try to pressure her into who to vote for, I just say research their positions for yourself instead of taking your friends word. We make it work because at the end of the day we're in a relationship for each other, not opinions that make up very little of our lives in the long run.