[–]lenality
[-3] -3 points 3 hours ago*
I didn’t want to recommend a facility I am comfortable in, which includes me as a woman, to someone who might possibly* attempt to run me out of it.
Also, yikes. I don’t bother anyone or intrude on anyone, and I by and large pass easily these days so you likely don’t know I’m trans unless I’m wearing pride stuff. I literally wear a C-cup. You would probably be super weirded out and/or harass me if I changed in the men’s, not that I actually need to change at the gym I go to since I currently work out literally less than a minute from where I’m staying.
That said, it was just an offer to meet a trans woman if she hadn’t and was uncomfortable because of TERF propaganda that paints us as predatory. How are people going to see me as the human I am first if they aren’t given an opportunity for a civil, friendly conversation in a safe, public place to ask their questions? Like all offers, you can just decline.