Idk, when you played high school or college sports (which I'm sure everyone on an internet forum has, right?) did you always pat your teammates on the ass and tell them how great they were, or did you give them shit as a sign of affection? Did it mean you hate them because you did?
Not everyone is a testosterone-bereft anime fan, most people understand just because something is labeled "woman hate" that doesn't mean it's for genuine woman hate.
Besides that would be kind of a sisyphusian task, women make up 50% of the population. Not very logical, and this isn't a woman thread so that won't fly.