Especially with Kayla’s new appearance, I fear that it’s only a matter of time before one or all of Nick’s daughters develop eating disorders, be it starving themselves or binging in secret. They don’t seem to have structured family meals & Nick’s constant harping about weight combined with seeing Kayla suddenly getting the attention she’s always craved only when she adapts a thot persona, gets plastic surgery tweaks & drops an alarming amount of weight can’t be positive indications of what his girls are learning about their own value, to say nothing of the coomer brain rot the boys are likely picking up on.
I saw a video recently that posited that women who have a healthy self esteem and don’t have a warped and negative/toxic self image grew up in households where beauty wasn’t emphasized as a virtue. Not that those girls parents didn’t tell them they were beautiful; rather that their intelligence and character were esteemed and the importance of being beautiful deemphasized. Has Nick ever complimented his wife’s character, or her mind? Not to my recollection. It’s all just stories about acting gay to get in her pants and seeing her as a college cheerleader for life. He’s lauded her getting back in shape after her pregnancies like it’s her biggest accomplishment, which it probably is if she’s a scatterbrained pill head. Having a wife who can’t manage her household and make it through the day without pharmaceuticals isn’t something to put on such a pedestal. What an example for his daughters.
He's famously "on the wall" (meaning kill) pedos, yet
Famously? Pretty sure we collectively hallucinated that, he’s always been pro-MAP pro-degeneracy. We just saw him as something he’s not.
No, any husband who doesn't look at his wife with admiration after birthing his children deserves admonishment. I don't believe for a second that Kayla was as heavily impacted by the pregnancies as Nick seems to think. It's far more likely Nick is a self centered asshole who takes every opportunity to needle Kayla over her appearance and reality doesn't play a part in that sort of mindset.
She was thin pre-babies, spaced her kids 2 years apart, and frankly 5 kids isn’t a record shattering number. It’s impressive in Nick’s world of internet weirdos who worship him for having a family. It’s a rookie number in my circles. I know many women who had 7, 9, 11 kids who didn’t blow up like a balloon or split in half or melt into a puddle. Their husbands didn’t psychologically abuse them for the natural fluctuations and changes their bodies went through, hence the many children and 20 year spreads of happy marriages.
Nick has made it abundantly clear he resents her childbearing years and is glad she’s back to the skeletor thin, plastic surgery having, kinky sex object that he wants his woman to be.
Nick is not with his college buddies drunk in a bar where the unfortunate and tactless conversation will be soon forgotten.
Talking shit on your spouse is always a classless and disgusting move. Even in a bar, with dudes, in passing and under the influence. You’re signaling to the world you’re unhappy with the results of your decision in a life partner, and you’re insulting and debasing yourself when you do so. It’s like telling your conversation partner you’re a loser with buyers remorse.
Nothing good is ever easy, and creating life is one of the most significant things any human can ever accomplish. Although it comes with a price the impact is immeasurable. The potential of that life is limitless and therefore any superficial repercussions pale in comparison.
I can understand in theory being upset with body changes resulting from pregnancy but I can’t empathize with it personally. Every little change I went through was amazing to me and a sign of the impact of what I was doing and who I was getting ready to welcome into my life. I’d happily let my body be “destroyed” to keep welcoming these people into the world. It’s a gift, not a curse or a burden. That Nick seems to resent his children’s intrusion into his schedule of drinking and cooming is tragic, for his whole family.
