I only feel pity for pooners, rather than the disgust I have for their troon counterparts, so I have a different view.
They aren't gay men (obviously), they are straight women who went to college and have been mindraped by a debauched and degenerate modern western culture. A man may be the only one who can potentially bring her back from the brink, and right the course for a healthy life. This may sound crass, but in my experience you can fuck the idiotic political beliefs out of the women you date, or at least temper them.
Maybe the same thing can be done for the pooners. Maybe this gender bullshit can be fucked out of them. Although, in this case you would be presenting yourself as a gay man, so that's a hurdle. And also you have to get to them before they sterilize themselves with cross sex hormones. And I have read that they smell like shit. And to get to the point of becoming a pooner, they have to have some serious baggage. Wow that's all a pain in the ass actually.
How fucking bad is the dating scene for this to even be a discussion? Jesus christ.
None of this is worth it. forget it. It's just a hassle.