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- Sep 21, 2023
I think the reason why people say that it's "taking advantage" is because the men in question are lying to the pooners about seeing them as male, calling them doods and saying they're totally masc AF. So by that logic, it would be similarly wrong to pretend to be really into feminism or 18th century fashion in order to fuck a hot girl in your Astronomy 101 class. (Or, reading up about tarot cards or flat earth theory and playing along with it, to use your example.)If fucking a pooner is taking advantage of a mentally ill woman, genuinely curious where the line ends? Is fucking a flat earth believer taking advantage? What about someone who believes in horoscopes and tarot cards? I’m not trying to justify myself here, I stand by what I said, but I wanna know if there’s a difference?
I guess the reason why this is worse is that telling a pooner that she's a hot d00d is technically affirming her self-harm. It would be perfectly ethical if you met a pooner, fucked her, and told her that she was a real woman the whole time. But that probably wouldn't work.
On the other hand, is it wrong to fuck an ugly person, then lie to her about how she's actually hot? I feel like I should give myself an autistic sticker right now.