The Ethics of Sex with Trans-Identified Females - or Why Porking Pooners is Potentially Problematic

Is it ethical?

  • Yes, they want to be heckin' validated and treated like gay men. This is mutually beneficial.

    Votes: 401 30.0%
  • No, deceit is wrong.

    Votes: 643 48.1%
  • All ethics are spooks. All that matters is penis feels good.

    Votes: 294 22.0%

  • Total voters
    1,338
If fucking a pooner is taking advantage of a mentally ill woman, genuinely curious where the line ends? Is fucking a flat earth believer taking advantage? What about someone who believes in horoscopes and tarot cards? I’m not trying to justify myself here, I stand by what I said, but I wanna know if there’s a difference?
I think the reason why people say that it's "taking advantage" is because the men in question are lying to the pooners about seeing them as male, calling them doods and saying they're totally masc AF. So by that logic, it would be similarly wrong to pretend to be really into feminism or 18th century fashion in order to fuck a hot girl in your Astronomy 101 class. (Or, reading up about tarot cards or flat earth theory and playing along with it, to use your example.)

I guess the reason why this is worse is that telling a pooner that she's a hot d00d is technically affirming her self-harm. It would be perfectly ethical if you met a pooner, fucked her, and told her that she was a real woman the whole time. But that probably wouldn't work.

On the other hand, is it wrong to fuck an ugly person, then lie to her about how she's actually hot? I feel like I should give myself an autistic sticker right now.
 
What if you meet a true and honest woman there
She will friendzone you just like all the other chi chi men she meets.

It’s not the same thing as going to a gay club to hook up with faghags in real life. That’s actually an effective strategy for getting laid.

Those women won’t even be on Grindr because there’s a map. Could you imagine if Tinder and Hinge had a map? I know the map can be turned off but I’m pretty sure 99% of fags have a “no location, no love” policy.
 
Deeply disturbing.
The small one donated her tits to the big one.
Also why are they obsessed with dressing in the most sexual but least sexually appealing way possible? Like you can tell that's what they are going for but they are so....unhot. It has to be on purpose.
 
Eh, there are many 'non-binary transmasculine' attention whores who take no hormones and dress like instathots. Not sure if these are common on Grindr though, you see them on TikTok mostly. And they're all BPD so still best avoided, but I can see how they make peepee go hard.
At that point they're no different than Lauren Southern's publicity stunt where she changed ID Gender to Male to make a point that Canada's then progressive rule change is inane and they might as well just remove Gender from the license.
 
The small one donated her tits to the big one.
Also why are they obsessed with dressing in the most sexual but least sexually appealing way possible? Like you can tell that's what they are going for but they are so....unhot. It has to be on purpose.
Wait, there's more information on these freaks? I just saw the image on twitter with no context. They need thread. Total Horror Cow material.
 
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I've already talked about this in other tranny threads in the experience of my fraternity brothers doing it. The results are positive and detransed at least one Lil pooner. I'd suggest not thinking about it too hard and let those who would, do. It doesn't make those guys any less probably gay, but I like them anyway.
Fraternity = they were gay to begin with.
 
Honestly I can't cosign willingly seeking out mentally ill pussy.
Sometimes it seeks you out. I had a friend in high school, great guy, but his personality could be described as "generic nice guy" along with being tall and athletic and handsome. In the years I knew him he had so many of these girls chasing him on account of him ticking all the boxes as an attractive, gentle person.

It's not as simple as saying "sorry, you're mentally ill, you need a therapist not a boyfriend" it's not always easy to delineate who's too mentally messed up to date and who just needs a healthy relationship with another human being. Most people are at least a little mentally fucked up or insecure over something, and especially now that being a genderspecial is on the level of a fashion trend rather than an indication something is deeply wrong with a person it's not easy to just write people off in that way.
 
NGL, that first one is kind a hot with those masculine feattures, but I don't have lesbian sets.


There's a two fold problem:
1. Men will stick their dick into anything, and it's why a lot of effeminate gay men transition and crossdress because in early teenage years and adulthood, a lot of straight men will stick their dick and anything and then say, "Gay men are just like women, but they don't get periods". This of course is to justify their sexual urges to slam anything without ramifications. I'm sure this is why Blair White transitioned and other gay men as well.

2. Society is fucking stupid, and we suffer from black and white thinking. People can't tell them the difference between Yaoi and real life or they think just because some weirdo likes to wear his mother's underwear, this must make him female.



Anybody who fucks pooners at any point is gross. They shouldn't have a seat at any table.
 
Regardless of whether it's ethical or not, it's pretty gross. If you're straight, and want easy sex, femboys are the solution.

As to the question of whether or not it's ethical, there's a few factors to consider.
  1. Is the pooner exhibiting promiscuous sexual behavior as a result of abuse?
  2. Is claiming to be a gay man deceit?
  3. Is claiming to consider the pooner a man unethical?
  4. Does one affirm the pooner's delusion?
As to the first one, a large number of pooners are victims of sexual abuse at some point in their lives. A common result of sexual abuse at a young age is hypersexuality. There is a question as to whether having sex with someone in this position is taking advantage of them. However, by that definition, most men who engage in hookup culture are taking advantage of women; mentally sane women don't like short-lived hookups. I think this point is pretty moot.

Is claiming to be a gay man deceit? You have to think about the pooner's definition of "gay" to answer this question. If the pooner believes that those who are attracted to her are gay (or bisexual), then is it really deceit?

#3 is when the ethical question begins to manifest. Deceit of any kind to get sex is ethically shaky at best. However, deceit is, to some degree, a part of dating and hookup culture. Tinder photos tend to be flattering poses, angles, filters etc. If you accept deceit as a part of hookup culture, then you can argue that deceit is not inherently unethical...

#4 This is where the true lack of ethics shows. Encouraging people to be mentally ill is an immoral act. It can be understood in the context of using a troon's preferred pronouns, which is an attempt to avoid the social/legal/employment sanctions that may come as a result of using a troon's actual pronouns. There is no social sanction that forces men to fuck pooners.

Verdict: it's an immoral act.
 
I'd say being deluded into thinking you are a man when you are in fact a woman is pretty mentally ill in most peoples books. Luring someone into having sex with you who is of not sound mind is inherently predatory, even if they are exhibiting predatory traits themselves by invading spaces they do not belong in. Being a shit person does not make someone exempt from being able to be the victim of another shit person in my books.
Take gender out of it. Go around saying "I'm open for sex, ready to go," and you're gonna get used. Most people that detached have some damage or mental illness, but they're still culpable for their decisions. What she goes through result from her choices, and I'm not going to cry for her when she gets burned. Poor woman became a boy, got fucked and cried about it. So sad
 
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