34:40
holy shit i think ian is describing how anisa literally gaslights him
theyre talking about anisa's imagination or how she cant visualize things in her minds eye.
ian: when you describe things to me, it is a lot of feelings. like i'll get- a lot of our conversations in the past, i dont know if this is related, but a lot of our like arguments in the past have been based on, not a lot, some, have been based on this idea where anisa is describing the way that she is feeling and she'll use like what i would consider false or like objectively like lying- i would be like, "youre lying. youre lying to me." based on what youre saying and shes like, "im not lying thats the way it makes me feel." and then- but her way of describing the way it makes her feel is by using these like uh objectively like incorrect thing-
anisa: im trying to put you [in my shoes] to see but my seeing is- like when i have dreams or when im reading something, its almost like im- trying to figure out how to describe it, im feeling what the person is feeling.
she then goes on to talk about how "hard" she feels everything
wow, i skipped forward a bit and theyre still talking about it. im pretty sure anisa is trying to literally be "not like other girls" by saying she cant imagine things. i bet if you asked her to picture ians face she would say "of course i can picture his face but i do it, like, different. i guess."