'I'm so upset': This Gen Z worker went absolutely viral for slamming the 9-to-5 work day - Complains it leaves no time for friends, dating, working out. But does she have a point?

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Sabina Wex
Thu, October 26, 2023 at 5:00 PM EDT

Gen Z have officially entered the working world — and they aren’t too excited about it.
New grad Brielle posted a viral TikTok last week that has divided the internet. She explained through tears that her first 9-to-5 role leaves her no time to do anything but eat, sleep and shower. Brielle has to leave the house at 7:30 each morning to commute into New York for her in-office marketing job and doesn’t arrive back until at least 6:15 p.m.

“I’m so upset,” she says in the video, explaining that it’s not her job, just the 9-to-5 schedule itself. “How do you have time for friends? How do you have time to meet a guy?”
Her video blew up online, drawing some sharp responses initially. But many other replies were sympathetic, recalling the difficult first days of settling into a new lifestyle: “I had a crisis when I got my first 9-to-5 job. Literally I couldn’t believe this was life.”
So is Brielle complaining? Or is the 9-to-5 lifestyle really that bad?

40-hour work week​

In a follow-up to her viral video, Brielle explains how she feels about work: “That’s the whole 9-to-5 system: pushing the same rock up the hill.”
Brielle’s not wrong: the 40-hour work week was designed to be Sisyphean. It began in the Industrial Revolution to create schedules for assembly line workers, but in the late 1800s, 70 hours would have been common, says Benjamin Hunnicutt, a historian who studies the history of leisure and work, told NPR.
That was slowly whittled down until the 40-hour week became the norm during the Great Depression until it was enshrined in law in the 1940s. Economists and analysts expected the week would continue to shrink — John Maynard Keynes actually predicted that technological advances could see the workweek shrink to just 15 hours by 2030.
But that never happened. In fact, now, all workers are expected to fit into this assembly line mold — even if they’re working in marketing office jobs, like Brielle.
There has been a push for the four-day work week, which advocates like 4 Day Week Global argue increases worker efficiency. It hasn’t quite caught on in the U.S., but the recent “summer of strikes” has shown that workers of all ages do want to see drastic changes from their employers.

Poor equity​

In another follow-up video, Brielle explains that she wants to see a structural change to the 9-to-5 work schedule because it imposes inflexibility on workers that don’t always make it up the chain of command.
“It’s not fair that the only people that are benefiting [from 9-to-5] are the people that either run the corporations and can make their own schedules, so they just pile on the work to people that are less fortunate,” she says.
And while many would argue those workers are fairly compensated for their time, growing wages simply haven’t kept up with inflation. If you look at the minimum wage, you can see this is true: 1980’s minimum hourly wage was $3.10; today, it’s $7.25. This may sound like a big jump, but inflation means that a dollar in the 1980 is worth $3.68 in today’s purchasing power. If minimum wage accurately reflected inflation and cost of living, it would now be $11.40.
We’ve already seen trends responding to this, including Gen Z’s penchant for what they call “lazy girl jobs,” which require minimal effort while taking in a decent salary. When their paychecks aren’t covering both rent and groceries, it’s not hard to understand why employees are resisting the system.

Work-life balance​

Considering work and her commute take up nearly 11 hours of her day, Brielle has a point when she says she has limited time — and energy — for a social life after work. She adds that it’s even worse if you have kids or any other dependents.
But this lack of life is starting to see pushback from people like Brielle. A recent ResumeLab survey discovered that 73% of Gen Z will pick a job with a better work-life balance over a higher salary.
Brielle’s TikTok sums up the general feelings toward work culture right now. And it appears it’s not just Gen Z who feels this way, with many older workers agreeing with her in their comments. And perhaps these older workers would have said something earlier, but they didn’t have TikTok to share their message far and wide.
 
You're whining about one of the most standard shifts in the West? Try swing shifts. Try nights. For fuck's sake, try 10 or 12 hour shifts.

Like it or not, princess? Not everyone is a trust fund brat and has to work in order to make ends meet. Those Instathots and Onlythots sell their souls for their standard of living too. If you weren't so obsessed with being a boss bitch you might get a man, and even if you do get one most couples nowadays have to work so there's not many stay at home wives.
 
I'm sure this thread's going to be swarmed with variations of "suck it up zoomie zoom, I worked 25 hours a day when I was your age!", but she's kind of got a point. When the 40-hour workweek was conceived, it was assumed you would have a wife to take care of the home, with possibly older kids pitching in. Now if you have a spouse at all they have to work too to keep their heads above water, and good luck putting your kids to work without getting CPS and OSHA so far up your ass you'll end up with papercuts on the back of your throat. It's no wonder so many couples are getting divorced these days, the men feel like they're getting a raw deal when they have to go to some shit job and still have to pitch in for at least 50% of the housework, the women feel like they're getting burned because they have to somehow juggle childcare, housework, and having a career. But I somehow doubt any journalist is going to open that particular can of worms.
 
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Women weren't designed to work. The 40-hour work week I can live with, but the dwindling buying power does my fucking nut in. I don't tolerate any 'back in my day' shit from faggot boomers. Thanks for pissing away an entire country's wealth just so you feel a little bit more secure. No one listens to you retards because you have the most milquetoast takes on everything, most of which you're just repeating a soundbite said by an even bigger faggot. Die already so at least you aren't shitting up the market with your faggot demand.
 
Women weren't designed to work. The 40-hour work week I can live with, but the dwindling buying power does my fucking nut in. I don't tolerate any 'back in my day' shit from faggot boomers. Thanks for pissing away an entire country's wealth just so you feel a little bit more secure. No one listens to you retards because you have the most milquetoast takes on everything, most of which you're just repeating a soundbite said by an even bigger faggot. Die already so at least you aren't shitting up the market with your faggot demand.
If no one listens to them how do they have all the power

You're the one not listened to. What you do and don't tolerate doesn't matter. You hope that death will hand you some power by default, eventually. Got some bad news for you...
 
If no one listens to them how do they have all the power

You're the one not listened to. What you do and don't tolerate doesn't matter. You hope that death will hand you some power by default, eventually. Got some bad news for you...
Not talking about political power, more like financial. Most of them are homeowners so yes it will help when they finally fuck off.
 
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I'm sure this thread's going to be swarmed with variations of "suck it up zoomie zoom, I worked 25 hours a day when I was your age!", but she's kind of got a point. When the 40-hour workweek was conceived, it was assumed you would have a wife to take care of the home, with possibly older kids pitching in. Now if you have a spouse at all they have to work too to keep their heads above water, and good luck putting your kids to work without getting CPS and OSHA so far up your ass you'll end up with papercuts on the back of your throat. It's no wonder so many couples are getting divorced these days, the men feel like they're getting a raw deal when they have to go to some shit job and still have to pitch in for at least 50% of the housework, the women feel like they're getting burned because they have to somehow juggle childcare, housework, and having a career. But I somehow doubt any journalist is going to open that particular can of worms.
I saw parts of the video, the girl is whiny, but there is an underlying tragedy to it all that you're pointing out. Ironically, she's making me blame women slightly less for the state of everything. Listening to her complaining, part of what she's saying is "how do people actually live like this?" and I don't think she's totally wrong. She asks how she's supposed to have time for friends or find a guy. She wants to find a guy, and looking at her, she at least doesn't look like some wacky woke feminist, she looks pretty normal. How are young people supposed to find a mate and do the traditional things, when they have no place to meet, and no time to find each other? Is it any wonder we're all stuck with the hell that is dating apps?

If you work in an office, you spend practically all day preparing for work, commuting, or at work itself, maybe squeeze in time for a workout or something if you're lucky, eat dinner, go to sleep, and wake up the next day. That's no way to live. Boomers act like it's just lazy young people, but things were a lot easier in their day. The wife could stay home, the one factory worker salary could afford a nice house and car and kids, now everyone's stuck working a job they hate just to keep their heads above water. If this were an older guy ranting instead of crying, and blaming it on Joe Biden, Boomers would be cheering it on. I don't think she's wrong, just annoying.

And this is coming from a guy who hangs out in the "Woman hate thread."
 
I'm sure this thread's going to be swarmed with variations of "suck it up zoomie zoom, I worked 25 hours a day when I was your age!", but she's kind of got a point. When the 40-hour workweek was conceived, it was assumed you would have a wife to take care of the home, with possibly older kids pitching in. Now if you have a spouse at all they have to work too to keep their heads above water, and good luck putting your kids to work without getting CPS and OSHA so far up your ass you'll end up with papercuts on the back of your throat. It's no wonder so many couples are getting divorced these days, the men feel like they're getting a raw deal when they have to go to some shit job and still have to pitch in for at least 50% of the housework, the women feel like they're getting burned because they have to somehow juggle childcare, housework, and having a career. But I somehow doubt any journalist is going to open that particular can of worms.
There's going to be a lot more bootlickers in this thread, homey. People have a pavlovian response to this type of discourse unfortunately, this article is tailor-made rage bait.
 
I saw parts of the video, the girl is whiny, but there is an underlying tragedy to it all that you're pointing out. Ironically, she's making me blame women slightly less for the state of everything.
I agree, and blame boomers for the most part, although there's a couple points I'd hold against her:
  • This is why you don't take a 30-60 minute commute unless there's an actual gun to your head, DON'T WORK IN THE CITY
  • How are you supposed to find a guy? Did you try asking one, instead of allotting time to stand around looking pretty until one asks YOU out? Dating might be a hellscape, but nobody is going to throw you out of a Starbucks for chatting a guy up, unlike the other way around
  • Let this be a lesson - "OMG this sucks, what am I supposed do?" is a good complaint over a few beers, but you're an adult now, and after that it's YOUR job to figure out how to not be designated cattle for the rest of your life
  • If your answer to the above is "*sniffle* I guess I could start an OnlyFans for some extra money" then you're actually beyond hope
  • Literally just find whatever cave they stuck your network engineers and start making excuses to hang around there, something like "I just need to have 5 minutes where my boss can't find me, today is soooo busy!", and even the least autistic one will probably crawl across broken glass to move you in with him
If you look at the super-powered executive who makes tons of cash and is self-sufficient, and ignore the thousand scrubs working two jobs to barely stay above water, and say "I deserve everything men get, I want to join the workforce!", then you do in fact deserve what the average man gets.

I guess what I'm trying to say is... making your way in the world today takes everything you've got.
 
This is why you don't take a 30-60 minute commute unless there's an actual gun to your head, DON'T WORK IN THE CITY
I found this other article: https://archive.ph/AzJcr
Apparently this is the only job she could get, and she's staying with a friend to save money. Can't blame her for being desperate.

As for your other points, yeah she could easily get a guy if she took the initiative. Only thing is, the guys at work may be hesitant for fear of getting "me too'd"
 
This is a touchy subject, because no matter how we look at it, most people always had to work to survive, so whining about this reality of life is extremely childish. Besides, the 40 hour workweek, for office drones, is honestly not that terrible, try doing 10-12 hour shifts on the shop floor, doing some monotone shit.
On the other hand, I bet there is absolutely no need to employ every single adult, for society to function. But if we ever admit this, there is an uncomfortable question that needs to be asked.
Even if not all people have to work, some still need to, to keep essential systems running. Who decides who is allowed to live as freeloaders and who needs to continue to toil away?
 
I started working part time at age eleven by lying about my age so I could wash dishes in some diner because I had a rough home life. But I liked the feeling that I could work hard and be rewarded. And the feeling of completing something tangible, even if it was just a stack of clean plates, was empowering at a time when my family life was unstable. It likely kept me from going on a bad path in life. And the adults I worked with kept an eye out for me and tried to encourage me.

This lady’s problem is partly that she’s aware she has a fake marketing job. Her coworkers are fake, this is pretend girl shit, she produces nothing as valuable as clean forks.

So yeah, the idea she has to pretend to be contributing anything must be exhausting.
 
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