I was reading the dating advice thread in the women's section and just had to shake my head. I'd never tell a woman to take dating advice from a man. People have this self image that isn't necessarily real, but women think they have this gloriously marvelous intuition and they've even conned a bunch of other guys into thinking that if you don't adhere to that mythos, you're a sexist. Nobody really knows themselves, nobody is born knowing they have two kidneys, a spleen, etc... Just because you're in your body and have your own mind doesn't mean you actually
know it. That's why self-report polls in psychology are so useless.
But these women, unlike men, insist that the best way to date women is to take advice from women. You have to believe their personal narrative. Maybe it's true, maybe it's not. But I've taken advice from women, and I've taken advice from red pill. A lot of redpill is bullshit or bro science, but a lot isn't.
How many times have you heard women online say "alpha male" dudes are pricks and anyone claiming to be one is a loser? Many times. I've told chicks I've dated, as a joke, thinking they were in on it, that I was an "alpha male." The response was
always, "ooooh, I like that." Now I personally think that shit is bullshit, but it really helped open my eyes.
Studies routinely show that women are into dark triad traits. If you ask women though, you just gotta be a nice guy.
Sometimes I wonder how much of this is really just corruption in American culture and not women themselves.
Though I get relatively ignored in America, as the women in my local area have a certain type of men they want for their fantasy that I am not

, when I travel overseas and get on tinder, women who would never talk to me in America throw themselves at me for being an American, with a higher standard of living. Just because I'm an American. It's all about the fucking fantasy. What am I supposed to conclude after that? I guess I was an incel jerk that suddenly became a nice guy over the ocean. A lot of
those women watch too much Hollywood and think everyone in America is rich and lives in NYC and they soon lose interest after that reality sets in. Guess being a jerk is actually some sort of economic thing and not a personal attitude? Maybe I'm getting something wrong.