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How do i get myself out of the demographic that has Displates constantly advertised to them on youtube?

I am not buying youtube premium. I will never buy anything advertised on youtube, but most adverts are at least less annoying in the first 5 seconds.
 
How do i get myself out of the demographic that has Displates constantly advertised to them on youtube?

I am not buying youtube premium. I will never buy anything advertised on youtube, but most adverts are at least less annoying in the first 5 seconds.
Install ublock origin nigger what the fuck are you doing, how are you just okay with companies stealing your life away in 5-30 second increments?
 
Install ublock origin nigger what the fuck are you doing, how are you just okay with companies stealing your life away in 5-30 second increments?
Cos I care about the people who make the content actually getting their dues.

Also its often just on in the background while I'm working, and I'm only half listening. Displates adverts distract me if I'm actually working, I can screen most of the others out.
 
How do i get myself out of the demographic that has Displates constantly advertised to them on youtube?

I am not buying youtube premium. I will never buy anything advertised on youtube, but most adverts are at least less annoying in the first 5 seconds.
1. Adblock
2. https://myadcenter.google.com/home
3. Turn off "Web and App Activity" if you haven't already.
4. Use the little + and - things for the topics you actually give a shit about if you're intent on being an ad zombie.
5. If you have an Android device: Settings > Privacy > Ads > "Reset Advertising ID"

Cos I care about the people who make the content actually getting their dues.
Go to the channel's "About" page, find their patreon/ko-fi/whatever, give money directly.
 
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2. https://myadcenter.google.com/home
3. Turn off "Web and App Activity" if you haven't already.
4. Use the little + and - things for the topics you actually give a shit about if you're intent on being an ad zombie.
5. If you have an Android device: Settings > Privacy > Ads > "Reset Advertising ID"
Thanks. I'll check this out.

I do give to some creators directly,
 
I do give to some creators directly,
Then use an adblocker. Ad revenue goes almost entirely to google, the creator gets very little (if indeed Google feels like paying them at all). A single dollar donation once means more money to the creator than a hundred adblocker-less watchers loyally watching each video for a decade.
 
Then use an adblocker. Ad revenue goes almost entirely to google, the creator gets very little (if indeed Google feels like paying them at all). A single dollar donation once means more money to the creator than a hundred adblocker-less watchers loyally watching each video for a decade.
Fair enough, I haven't really looked into the specifics of how much they get but you're probably right.
 
So I just dropped in this thread and read only the first few pages. I've been married for nearly twenty years at this point (I'm an old fart) and don't know dick about dating apps or any of that shit that young dudes these days have to deal with. I'm gonna drop some completely unsolicited and unwanted observations and opinions here.

The biggest thing I see in young dudes these days is a lack of confidence in yourself. That's a super broad thing sure, but women can smell insecurity a mile away. If you think you are ugly or your face is weird or you are too skinny or too fat or whatever the fuck it is you need to get to a place where you either accept it and stop giving a fuck about what other people think about it or you need to put in the work to fix it. Even just a little bit. Get a new haircut or start lifting and put on some muscle. Lose weight, whatever you gotta do. It's work and it sucks but that's how it goes. Once you see some results and start feeling good about yourself it gets 1000x easier from there, and people will notice especially the ones that knew fat/scrawny/insecure you. I interact with all kinds of people of all age ranges on a nearly daily basis and I have seen tons of dudes that I would say are like a 3 or 4 on the attractiveness scale be with ladies I would consider waayyyyyy out of their league because the dudes saw something they wanted and went out and got it. These aren't dudes that have their moms call and ask questions for them, they don't have their girlfriends making their doctor appts for them or any of that pussy shit like that. They aren't afraid to talk to people face to face etc. They are confident or just don't a fuck and it pays off. Or have boatloads of money (they don't).

Get a hobby. No one likes boring people.

Take a shower (use soap) and brush your fucking teeth. FLOSS.

Learn to cook. I'm not talking how to grill a hamburger, almost any neanderthal can do that. Actually learn how to cook. It's not nearly as difficult as you might think and you don't need to be a trained chef to make amazing stuff. Youtube is your friend here and I can recommend some awesome channels that will actually turn you into a monster in the kitchen.

Women aren't gonna come to you. You gotta go to them 99% of the time. Senpai isnt gonna notice you. Fuck, go to church if you have to you'll meet all kinds of people. You don't have to believe shit but you'll meet plenty of folks.

See #1.

/boomer shit off.
 
Fair enough, I haven't really looked into the specifics of how much they get but you're probably right.
From what I've seen, YouTube pays out about $0.018 per view. YouTube takes a 45% cut of all ad revenue, and Twitch takes 50% of the subscription costs people pay to streamers.
 
The biggest thing I see in young dudes these days is a lack of confidence in yourself. That's a super broad thing sure, but women can smell insecurity a mile away.

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Of course remember many women's "compliments," especially to each other, are actually disguised insults.
No shade to AnOminous but I see this all the time and I’m not sure I believe it. It just seems unnecessarily shitty, like more of an immature teenage girl thing than a woman thing. Am I just autistic or is this a real thing grown adults do?
 
No shade to AnOminous but I see this all the time and I’m not sure I believe it. It just seems unnecessarily shitty, like more of an immature teenage girl thing than a woman thing. Am I just autistic or is this a real thing grown adults do?
It depends on the comment, the woman, and the situation. My mom is incredibly no-nonsense, and very...un-womanly? Almost like a "not like other girls" situation, but that's not the point. The point is, if you looked ugly, or did something my mom didn't like, she would tell you.

But, my aunts and mother-in-law, who are more feminine, have done that. They've given a compliment, or tacit endorsement, and then laughed about it when the other person wasn't looking/noticing. My mom would just avoid talking about it, but the other women in my life would engage.

It's not that my mom would agree with whatever she was complimenting or anything. It's just she was, I don't know, autistic or something and couldn't bring herself to lie? It's weird.

On the same note, what life skills should moms teach their kids?
Like the question earlier in the thread about "what can men do to be sexy?", what is a skill, or lifestyle thing, that a mom should model for their kids?

My mom's autism has left me very asocial, and I'm trying to piece together what female wisdom I'm lacking.
 
No shade to AnOminous but I see this all the time and I’m not sure I believe it. It just seems unnecessarily shitty, like more of an immature teenage girl thing than a woman thing. Am I just autistic or is this a real thing grown adults do?
Hoo boy, I guess someone hasn't been around enough middle age women. My mother used to be a kindergarten teacher, her colleagues would do this shit on the daily, I think I picked up on it happening at the age of 6. My grandma and her friends exchange these "pleasantries" on the phone until someone gets so mad they stop talking, and they're all over 80.
 
Youtube is your friend here and I can recommend some awesome channels that will actually turn you into a monster in the kitchen.
Please do share.
I've been perusing through this thread, reading the guy's chatting and it genuinely hurts my heart to see how many of you think so low of yourselves, to a point where you primarily choose to shut yourself in. -- I've looked into the post history of some you guys and you're genuinely incredibly funny and well spoken on several other topics, even pertaining to lore on lolcows.

When I was chatting with some of the guys in the shared Woman/Man hate thread, I noted that the primary issues they ran into were us women. We had killed your self-esteem or feeling of self-worth. So to flip it around for a moment if I may: To you guys reading this; what can we as women do to ensure that you continue to know and realize the worth you have?
I felt it was maybe rude to leave this without a response. As others have mentioned, this issue is complicated and could be a symptom of all sorts of problems with the state of our society's culture or economy. It's not really on women alone to fix all of these issues, nor would I even be able to say exactly how it would be tackled. I also don't know to what degree my self-esteem issues parallel those of other men. I can say that more female-led dialogue between the sexes, like this thread, is probably a good idea. My reasoning is that just not knowing led me to assume the worst. I imagine other men end up the same way or even worse, because of how defeatist and bitter male spaces can be on the subject of women. It's kind of stupid and simple, but compliments are also massive. I don't know if I was included in guys who you found "incredibly funny and well spoken" but it's really heartwarming to hear stuff like that.
 
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It's kind of stupid and simple, but compliments are also massive. I don't know if I was included in guys who you found "incredibly funny and well spoken" but it's really heartwarming to hear stuff like that.
Expounding on this and my previous post, I think men are just starved of positive feedback and/or affection, at the very least compared to our childhoods. I think women are afraid to give men compliments out of fear that they'll get the wrong idea, and men are afraid to give other men compliments out of fear that they'll get the wrong idea. I've noticed in cultures where homosexuality is still frowned upon, men are able to be open with and supportive of each other to a degree that I've never experienced as a straight man in the anglosphere, probably because the idea that one of them is gay is about as salient as the idea that one of them fucks dogs; it's just not something they seem to worry about because there's a sociocultural agreement that you don't ruin the sanctity of fraternity by trying to fuck your homies, whereas now that "it's okay to be gay" emotional intimacy between straight men is mostly taboo.

Another afterthought: men by and large don't need much to be happy, memes have shown that as long as we have a fulfilling hobby and a loving partner we can be happy in a barren studio apartment, and consequently we spend a ton of time and energy doing things that don't matter to us at all but we do them anyway because they matter to the people we love, which is why the occasional show of gratitude or appreciation means so much.

I could be wrong about both these things but that's my perception anyway.
 
No shade to AnOminous but I see this all the time and I’m not sure I believe it. It just seems unnecessarily shitty, like more of an immature teenage girl thing than a woman thing. Am I just autistic or is this a real thing grown adults do?
They aren't always trying to be shitty. Sure, many of them are, but the ones that aren't are the ones who were taught to do that shit to "keep the peace" and make people happy.
Think "Telling the giant scary troon he looks beautiful so he doesn't throw you into the bathroom towel dispenser" or "Telling the fat chick she looks pretty so she doesn't off herself and blame you in her suicide note." You can usually tell the difference between the two groups depending on what they do after the subject person has gone out of earshot.
I don't know how common it was in ye olden times, but I can guarantee you that many women of the 80s and 90s grew up with the whole "You have to be friendly to everyone OR ELSE." messaging and never learned the difference between "nice" and "kind" if they ever learned it at all*.

*On a cow-related subject, the Jennings family is a perfect example of this mentality. Sander very clearly doesn't know the difference between the two terms, and Jazz conflates the two. In reality, everyone being "nice" to Jazz was a horrible unkindness and now he is what we see today. The problem is, that everyone was told if they weren't nice, the kid was gonna kill himself. So even if people subconsciously knew it was the wrong thing to do, they were consciously told to override it "to save a life".
 
I don't know how common it was in ye olden times, but I can guarantee you that many women of the 80s and 90s grew up with the whole "You have to be friendly to everyone OR ELSE." messaging and never learned the difference between "nice" and "kind" if they ever learned it at all*.
Interesting. I grew up around that time, my mom really emphasized looking for something good and being genuine about it when giving compliments. I think it’s a nicer way to handle things. She had a real thing about lying and impressed it upon me. But I can see how many people learn to just bullshit a bit with varying levels of grace, I do it too.

Honestly that was just kind of an offhand thought I had, so I appreciate the thoughtful replies. I think I have a knee-jerk reaction to the concept because I don’t love when catty behavior is assumed to be the default in women. But there’s a kernel of truth in every stereotype I suppose. I have plenty of cattiness I channel into laughing at trannies and fat women.
 
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