Steve, you need to learn something all men learn eventually. We fight it because at our core we’re all good men and we don’t want to look down on someone for things they can’t control, but you do eventually learn it and I see you’re stumbling onto the lesson today. It was hard earned.
Women are not smart and they are pathologically designed to make bad decisions.
You’ve let this woman into your life, given her everything you have and in return she has given you grief. Take control of her and the situation or kick her ass to the curb.