I mean, I was born in 1984 so I spent my childhood and early/mid teen years in the 90s. We’re all going to be nostalgic at times for the time period our carefree childhood days with little to no responsibility were spent. Same can be said for Gen X and the 80s and Zoomers and the 2000s.
I’m sure older people who lived through the 90s will easily be able to find things about the decade that get overlooked when we put on our rose colored glasses, but just strictly speaking as a child/teen during that time, it was pretty fucking sweet. Even my dad (who is a very staunch conservative that likes to laugh with me over PC police/wokescold faggotry) will say to me that yeah that shit started in the 90s, but even back then it was mostly just roll your eyes and chuckle before moving on. People just seemed much more laid back and willing to let shit slide then, for good and for bad.
I'm almost a decade older than you and I can firmly say that the 90s were great., but did a lot to fuck us over in the modern day.
It represented the time corporate america and europe figured out the lowest common denominator in terms of advertising, media and economics which is why everything became so extremely formulaic over the last 20 years (Look at Friends and tell me what the difference is between that and How I met Your Mother/The Big Bang Theory, etc is, because its all superficial).
It was when we went in to overdrive irt turning China in to the manufacturing center for the entire world because cost-correlation made it the only way to control tech costs. The first dot-com boom rode that wave and quickly became why everything digital became centralized, because when the bubble burst, a few companies with insane money started buying up every single copyright they could to further exploit.
its when education was over-burdened with special-ed and constant attempts to turn the inner-city schools around as if they were at fault for the kids in them being sociopathically raised inside their own homes. Once we saw kids with Downs Syndrome getting diplomas it really killed the American public school system, as it costs 5 times more to get a kid with a major disorder through high-school than it does to educate a kid with a 110+ IQ enough to be an MD because a lot of the choices made by bureaucrats and elected officials from 1993-2015.
The EU coming in to existence as a result of the collapsed Soviet Empire didn't help anyone that wasn't born in to wealth either and is directly to blame for all the awful shit going on in most of Europe.
America ignoring terrorism and trying to have the Saudi's self-police directly led to 9-11/GWOT/Etc. Us ignoring Iran and focusing on Iraq in relation to destabilization o the region is another very large problem we created then, as well.
The explosion of pornography in to the mainstream and the NEA even going to bat for it as a legitimate art form and getting subsidized funding for it along with the proliferation of the internet leading to the ease of access is also to blame for a lot of social maladies we deal with today.
But hey, it also gave us better manicured pubes, which made oral sex being 100000X better to perform