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In Japan the husband is supposed to work until death by exhaustion but doesn't even get to touch his own money. Its a society of simps and cucks. The married women don't work, gets all the money and cheat all they want while her family berates him.
To be fair, it's a good system in concept, but we all have seen how this shit plays out in practice. The vikings had something similar (in that the woman got the money because she was responsible for running the home and therefore needed the money), but the timeline and day-to-day lives of the people involved are so wildly different we can't make a fair comparison.

It's kind of like the temperance movement. Everyone thinks the anti-alcohol women just hated fun, but in reality the problem started because bars were setting up near places where men were getting paid daily paychecks, then those men would take said daily paycheck straight to the bar and drink it all away so the women and children had nothing to buy food, clothing, etc. The temperance movement directed their ire at alcohol itself, rather than the businesses that were using the predatory practices.

I have two chicks that might be interested at me through various church groups. How do I choose one? ;-;
Where's that meme of the "Eugenic choice" wife vs. the flapper?
 
Oh no
Not the JBP lesson
Fear the Dark Triad Tetrad anon frog people
I haven't met a single intelligent person that was not also highly manipulative.
The only "salt of the Earth" no agenda (wink wink) people are basically grugg types that are unable to wield words correctly.
The pseudo intellectuals like JBP love these naive idiots cause wealth can be extracted from them and they are not asking him difficult, JQ-ish stuff during live events.
Life's easy, communism bad, tradition good, hierarchy desirable, lobster army stronk together.
Don't ask too many questions, just enjoy rule for life and get ready to consoome next rule.
I don't follow Peterson (have never listened to/watched him, afaicr), and I'm not quite following your point here. But (sorry I'm going back a couple days - got covid and have been out of it a couple days) for anyone not quite understanding how clinical-level npd/psychopathy is different - not garden-variety get along/get ahead in the world manipulation - this guy (below) makes a living out of his NPD/ narcissism. Personally I find him ott (on purpose, but not) and a bit of a try-hard, but he does capture the NPD perspective on manipulation, the perceived status of other people (subhuman disposable tools), control, etc. As much as this guy has a vested interest in portraying "his kind" (his term) as a scary monster, he's not wrong. And most normal people wouldn't think that a human being would actually operate this way. Be mean, not care, be callous, be an ass, be cutthroat - all of those are within a decent and uninitiated person's ability to grasp. But what he describes is not. This shit is feral. And though how successful a narcissist is may depend both on context/aspiration or the canniness of their prey, it has little to do with intellect, theirs or their marks. They may have cunning or a nose for innocence/ goodness to exploit, but that's not necessarily intellectual intelligence.








In Japan the husband is supposed to work until death by exhaustion but doesn't even get to touch his own money. Its a society of simps and cucks. The married women don't work, gets all the money and cheat all they want while her family berates him.


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Yet again a screenshot of part of an abstract, no freestanding link, and a clear failure to read what you offer as proof of...something.

A key point you missed, per the paper:
Okozukai is traditional, at least back to the 12th century. By the mid-70s it was still prevalent for 97% of urban housewives and about 2/3 for rural. Today (2019 data ), it's around/north of 50%.

You also missed - somehow, as it's right in the abstract, just below what you highlighted:

Our findings show that parenthood is positively associated with female money management systems, whereas in dual-earner couples, women are less likely to manage household money. The results suggest that female money management in Japan is positioned as part of the package of wife / mother / homemaker roles and is a “female” task rather than “male”

It's baked (less and less, it should be noted) right into gender expectations, and has been for 900 years. Now that more women work, the practice has fallen from virtually universal to closer to an even split.
 
What current fashion for men around 30 is there these days? Everytime I look into it, all the results are extremely gay. Im looking for something beyond flannel, jeans, carhartt, nice watches, and business casual.
Leather jacket, graphic t-shirt, and loose jeans. You either look flashy or like a hobo but either way that's men in their 30s.
 
If you are so beyond full of yourself that you think a woman being curious about you automatically means they want to fuck you, then you are narcissist and need further help.
Yeah but what if I od on a ton of autism pills and think that if a woman shows any interest with me, then they will try to be able to befriend me and thus if they succeed I will be less inclined to act in an objective manner surrounding them. Seeing them as less of an individualized number, but an object with social relation and selfish, subjective qualities? As such, I take the view that they immediately want to fuck me so that I can purposely make any and all social interaction awkward and then they won't be inclined to interact with me thus I can maintain objectivity like a good autist.

Checkmate woman 😎

Edit: I should totally study game theory and replace henry kissinger
 
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Here's a weird question, do ladies like guys that are just...clueless?

I ask because I've never adequately been able to ask a girl out, or describe my feelings, or anything like that. It's usually the gals that have to approach me. And I hate that. I wish I could turn the charm on, but I can't, I only ever attract women when I'm not actively trying. It's like negative charisma.

Is that what "cute" is? Have I cracked the code, or have I finally lost it?
 
What current fashion for men around 30 is there these days?
My bf doesn't like labels or anything that makes him feel like a billboard, so he wears just plain colored t-shirts and jeans. It's hot to me, lol.
Here's a weird question, do ladies like guys that are just...clueless?
Like unaware/oblivious? It's cute, yeah. Clueless as in stupid, no.
 
Here's a weird question, do ladies like guys that are just...clueless?
Depends. If they're like, trying their best to ask me out but kind of fumble it up, that may be okay. But if you mean as in, the woman has to ask the guy out? Then no, I don't like that. In fact, I find it a turn off when a guy can't muster up the courage to ask a lady out. Even if it's awkward or clumsy, I respect a guy that at least tries.
What current fashion for men around 30 is there these days? Everytime I look into it, all the results are extremely gay. Im looking for something beyond flannel, jeans, carhartt, nice watches, and business casual.
Are you just wanting to look nice or are you actually into fashion? If you just want to dress to impress then guys have it easy. All you need to do is wear clothes that fit your body, are not graphic t-shirts, are not wrinkled, have no holes them, and there are no stains. Polo shirts or just regular button up shirts look good on just about every guy. Also make sure your shoes match the outfit and aren't dirty.
 
Are you just wanting to look nice or are you actually into fashion? If you just want to dress to impress then guys have it easy. All you need to do is wear clothes that fit your body, are not graphic t-shirts, are not wrinkled, have no holes them, and there are no stains. Polo shirts or just regular button up shirts look good on just about every guy. Also make sure your shoes match the outfit and aren't dirty.
Got it, Duck Dynasty hat and camo printed suit it is.
 
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