Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious

[Procrastinhater]

I feel like random people are more hostile to me these days.

I'm not ugly, im not short, I shower/shit/shave everyday. Im not super fit but im in solid shape, and I dress like everyone else, so I have all the first impression stuff down.

But the cashiers at every shop and people on the street seem to look at me and become upset or look like I ruined their day. They'll be chatting and laughing with the customer before me, and as soon as I step up their while demeanor visibly changes. Guys at the gun store, nerds at the gaming shop, associates at the departments stores, I seem to bring them all down.

I try to talk to random people I'm trapped in line with or at some function with, and I only seem to get along with old men.
What happened, it wasnt like this 2 years ago, and I really dont think it was covid.

Are you subconsciously snarling at people?
I found a long time ago that a frown is a great way when you're in social situations to avoid people you don't want to attempting to start up conversations with you.
It's easy to forget though if you have something on your mind, if you're frowning all the time people think you're doing it at them.
I make a point to make eye contact and smile when I'm feeling friendly, people usually respond positively.
I don't mean walk around with a maniacal grin like a lunatic, that causes problems the other way

 

[𝕺𝖑' 𝕯𝖎𝖗𝖙𝖞 𝕱𝖆𝖙𝖘𝖔]

There's a mental categorization thing that guys do here that I don't think women understand what you mean when you say you have no hobbies. It doesn't mean you don't do things that entertain you, it's that you don't have a singular, focused hobby like someone who gets up at six on the weekend to go backpacking or something similar. Passive interests aren't really called hobbies to guys. Interests in things you're not actively doing is just something you don't tell people because it's viewed as minor.

Late as fuck but I'm a woman and the way I categorize the two is that mere interests are consumption-based whereas hobbies are creative/productive. Like some common examples of the split:

• Going out to restaurants vs working on your cooking skills
• Loving fashion vs sewing your own clothes
• Being a sports fan vs playing a sport
• Drinking different beers/visiting breweries vs brewing your own beers
• Reading vs writing

Naturally the hobby needs the underlying interest to keep someone involved, but the vast majority of those merely interested won't rise to making their interest a hobby.

 

[dvnc]

The idea that women can offer valuable advice is already funny.

But DATING advice? Yeah that's hillarious

You're a nigger, there's no hope for you and you know that.

 

[Procrastinhater]

What is the riddle of steel?

Many man smoke but Fu Manchu.

Sorry that's the Riddle of the Orient. I always got them confused.

 

[mold]

You know actually, this picture made me think of a question. Are there any fictional relationships that ladies think are the ideal? Or fictional character that are their dream men? This isn't so much for help but I think it could be fun sharing.

Lord Peter Wimsey and Harriet Vane
Arthur and Molly Weasley
the mom and dad in Whisper of the Heart

 

[NoReturn]

What the hell is that?

Its like a paddle used to slap mens asses at yaoi drink parties I presume. Its like a wooden ping pong bat with a larger surface area.

Back in the early 2000s, fujoshis (though that term wasn't known at the time, they called themselves things like "Yaoi fangirl" instead) were very lolsorandumb holds-up-spork-y.
One of these manifested this quirkyness was to buy giant wooden paddles and carry them around at school and anime conventions. Sometimes they would spank men and crossplayers with them.

It was a cringe time.

The inventor of the yaoi paddle is still online, by the way, still making porn:

 

[ConsentAccidentVictimNo98]

I'm going to be blunt here: this entire post reeks of femaledatingstrategy...

Wow, I actually pass as a female without even trying. Which is surprising, considering that I am a moid.

What I was saying wasn't meant to be super accurate. I was critical of it and only game some surface level statements about what ought to happen. I'm not a fan of normative claims but it was really meant to be linked to admissions. The actual reality of things is far more complex and the basic model really only was meant to show why people may not ask others out.

From experience women find it humilliating, even enraging, to have to ask a man out. Its like "what am I not good enough to be asked out? why should I lower myself to this?"

And this is where preferences come into play, and how these would actually interact in the game. I didn't go into much detail because as I said I don't really want to get into that much autism but they are still something that could be modelled, though it becomes more complex trying to aggregate everything and have different models for different people. Another, massive limitation that I did touch upon.

The real business behind those apps is to keep you single so you'll come back, why you think those apps are all owned by the same corp?

That is technically true, as naturally if everyone has a partner then there would be no one to offer services to. However, for them to make profit they still need people to some form of utility, reward out of it. They're, as such focused on the sorting process and trying to get people to date because then people would be like "oh this works". What the sorting reward actually does though is it makes every date become less valuable and people will not get as much utility from them. This sorta expands on the actual main flaw of dating apps when it comes to sorting being made more efficient. Though, some people actually find partners through dating apps but they are more the outlier.

Game Theory technically works in every aspect of life cause its focused on surviving the scoreboard rather than winning the game, minimizing long term losses over short term gains. However I wouldnt advise applying this autism to finding someone who you want to be with. This isnt the RooshV playbook.

Oh totally, I would not apply game theory generally to dating. The example was much more about asking people out generally. It first of all assumes that people are rational, which is a big no-no for people in real life. Secondly, people are complex and don't just form one set story.

However, they are still interesting to talk about purely from a theoretical standpoint.
"All models are wrong, some are useful".

 

[AgendaPoster]

So ladies
WTF is wrong with Westerners, moid and femoid, and this idiotic adoration of the worst Japan has to offer?
Is this some sort of mental, brain damage or what?

 

[JamusActimus]

You're a nigger, there's no hope for you and you know that.

When I say female dating advice is worthless, I think of post like the one below.
(Also do you think I am black because my Av is black? Are you retarded?)

1000000000000% agreed here. It's not about the body count you have behind you, it's about who you are as a human.

 

[Inside your walls]

WTF is wrong with Westerners, moid and femoid, and this idiotic adoration of the worst Japan has to offer?
Is this some sort of mental, brain damage or what?

It's very easy, people especially right-leaning or centrist weebs tend to fancy Japan as this LAST LE BASED BASTION of humanity against globohomo shit because their favorite artists on Twitter still draw anime girls with cow tits while ALSO thinking it's a place of culture, conservatism and morality.

Which is very ironic given that despite Japan's humble and conservative presentation of itself to the world, it has MANY dubious industries that are encouraged on young girls such as the Idol Industry (where girls that don't make it or are "too old" tend to get trafficked into making adult films or prostitution) and the whole "compensating dating" scene which is basically high school girls dating sugar daddies.

 

[AgendaPoster]

weebs

I hate anime so much it's unreal

 

[cybertoaster]

It was a cringe time.

Indeed but it was also a simpler time, and also less mean.

These days its like there's a constant competition to who can be the biggest piece of shit.

Nerd spaces have gone to hell.

Wow, I actually pass as a female without even trying. Which is surprising, considering that I am a moid.

Didn't say you were a woman just that it was the same mentality from that sub.

Though, some people actually find partners through dating apps but they are more the outlier.

And I still say its by design. Consider that the freemium biz model depends entirely on "whales" that is people who become so obsessed they plunge thousands of dollars on these apps. With social games (remember that crap?) and phone games they appeal to addiction. With dating apps they go for desperation instead, and there are some desperate people out there, mostly men but also a few women for whom the clock is ticking and they are suddenly out of choices.

They go with the carrot on stick strategy, the carrot is always near, you can almost reach it but you never actually do. Sure some quit after realizing they are being taken for a ride but most don't.

 

[Tablet County]

What I'm trying to say is: if you choose to not have children because of what tomorrow may bring, then the Jew wins by default.

But what if I am the Jew and I wanna win?

I hate anime so much it's unreal

I just like watching giant robots fight.

 

[Saddam Hussain Obama]

i made a thread for it but i guess i should just ask these questions here

1 whats it like bleeding out of your balls
2 whats it like to have sex
3 what do you find attractive in a man
4 are you interested in modern dating
5 what kinda music are you into
6 have you ever experienced sexism
7 have you ever been raped
8 do you find getting choked or beaten hot
9 do you ever get grossed out by women talking about vagina 24/7
10 would you rather be a mother than a worker

 

[AgendaPoster]

whats it like bleeding out of your balls

This should be your pick up line

 

[NoReturn]

1 whats it like bleeding out of your balls

I bleed from my dick, not my balls, you silly billy.

 

[dvnc]

I know reading is hard for you, but that was said in regards to men.

 

[BeetleBug242]

Get your legs medically extended to be closer to six feet. That would fix everything, trust me.

 

[AgendaPoster]

Short man that can dunk>tall man that cannot

 

[BeetleBug242]

Bleach yourself too if you can, aim for that titanium white gloss