Anisa never shuts up and makes herself look stupid in comparison and overshares everything about her life to the point it gets boring so she has to embellish or straight up lie.
I think that's at the root of Anisa being so fundamentally unattractive, in that everything about her, including her appearance, has a price. Both sexes, but women in particular, benefit from mystique. What we don't know about somebody leaves them interesting, it invites curiosity and speculation, leading people into imagining, even investing emotionally into their lives. iDubbbz benefitted hugely from this because we knew, or we thought we knew, almost nothing about his actual life or opinions - in fact, whether the opinions he openly expressed were even what he really believed, was exactly what made him a fascinating character and personality on YouTube.
Anisa is the negative of that, in that she commodifies everything about herself, and has been slowly parleying iDubbbz's intrigue away since long before they got married because she knew it was all she had that would prompt people to invest in her. You look at her, in excessive tattoos she buys to stand out, to nudes she sells to feel desired, to opinions she blurts out to get attention, and just get the sense that to her, everything is for sale. There's nothing to learn or be enticed about Anisa because she's physically and intellectually laid herself bare. Her OnlyFans stuff is so unsexy because she believes just the superficial act of showing flesh or even just looking vaguely suggestive in the mirror of some public bathroom stall is the objective - the potential to tease, to hint at or toy with the imagination, to tantalize with possibility and mystery, to invite interest, it's non-existent. She's not providing a service in the sense of giving people what they might like, she's validating an existing self-perception of herself. Just stating opinions and ideas and generally letting hot air escape from her head is the endpoint, because it's producing 'content', yet what's so off-putting is that even though what she has left to sell is barely worth anything, she's such a narcissist that she'll only do it on terms favorable to her ego.
By throwing out everything she can to seem desirable and enviable, which requires observers to only be given an incomplete picture of her life, she is paradoxically showing that she has less and less reason to be considered either.
