Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious

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With all the help y'all have given, I think it's time to ask:

Any of y'all femoids wanna take a chance with me?
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Nigger write something about yourself besides having a loli avatar
 
I am lost and need female advice.
So I have been dating a girl for about a year or so now. She's heavy into Reddit and internet communities like that, very progressive, very pro trans rights/current thing/#votebluenomatterwho or whatever and I'm not any of those things. I may have been one at some point, but things change. Recently, after a couple of her friends trooned out, I discovered that she sometimes switches her pronouns to she/they or something like that. Is this relationship fucked? I'm pretty upset about the whole thing. What do I even do now?
 
I am lost and need female advice.
So I have been dating a girl for about a year or so now. She's heavy into Reddit and internet communities like that, very progressive, very pro trans rights/current thing/#votebluenomatterwho or whatever and I'm not any of those things. I may have been one at some point, but things change. Recently, after a couple of her friends trooned out, I discovered that she sometimes switches her pronouns to she/they or something like that. Is this relationship fucked? I'm pretty upset about the whole thing. What do I even do now?
Uh, talk to her? You got to tell her you have a problem with it or she’s going to keep doing it. You can get along with someone of differing political views but you have to talk it out. If it’s impossible to talk things out then I think that’s your sign to leave.
 
I am lost and need female advice.
So I have been dating a girl for about a year or so now. She's heavy into Reddit and internet communities like that, very progressive, very pro trans rights/current thing/#votebluenomatterwho or whatever and I'm not any of those things. I may have been one at some point, but things change. Recently, after a couple of her friends trooned out, I discovered that she sometimes switches her pronouns to she/they or something like that. Is this relationship fucked? I'm pretty upset about the whole thing. What do I even do now?
Prepare yourself to be called a transphobic piece of shit bigot and broken up with, then talk to her about your concerns calmly. Nothing worse than that could happen so there's a fair chance you're instead gonna be pleasantly surprised by the result.
 
I am lost and need female advice.
So I have been dating a girl for about a year or so now. She's heavy into Reddit and internet communities like that, very progressive, very pro trans rights/current thing/#votebluenomatterwho or whatever and I'm not any of those things. I may have been one at some point, but things change. Recently, after a couple of her friends trooned out, I discovered that she sometimes switches her pronouns to she/they or something like that. Is this relationship fucked? I'm pretty upset about the whole thing. What do I even do now?
Talk to her directly, or do the more fun route and start dropping dog whistles.
I say this because I've run into a surprisingly large number of women in the blue hair community who secretly hold "TERF" beliefs, and all it takes to get them to open up is a few offhand comments.
Best case scenario, the girl is on your side and she'll feel relieved to have an ally.
"Worst" case scenario, you're free of a woman who would turn you into the secret police for wrongthink.
 
Uh, talk to her? You got to tell her you have a problem with it or she’s going to keep doing it. You can get along with someone of differing political views but you have to talk it out. If it’s impossible to talk things out then I think that’s your sign to leave.
That's just it. We get along just fine even though we disagree politically. But you're right, I just need to confront her and figure out what happens next. I don't know how much of it is because it's the 'current thing' and 'everyone else is doing it, why shouldn't I', but if she's that far gone, why belabor it any longer.
Prepare yourself to be called a transphobic piece of shit bigot and broken up with, then talk to her about your concerns calmly. Nothing worse than that could happen so there's a fair chance you're instead gonna be pleasantly surprised by the result.
I mean, if this doesn't go well, I can't see troons ever changing my mind. Any small sliver of hope of me ever changing my opinion on the tranny mind-virus would go with her.

Sometimes, it feels like I'm the only sane person left in a society that's slowly gone mad. I hate to say this, I know so many people that are falling into this. I don't really want to see her dragged into this lunacy, but it's really not my call. She can do whatever she wants, but I won't follow her down this rabbit hole. I'll know soon enough.
 
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That's just it. We get along just fine even though we disagree politically. But you're right, I just need to confront her and figure out what happens next. I don't know how much of it is because it's the 'current thing' and 'everyone else is doing it, why shouldn't I', but if she's that far gone, why belabor it any longer.

I mean, if this doesn't go well, I can't see troons ever changing my mind. Any small sliver of hope of me ever changing my opinion on the tranny mind-virus would go with her.
Well if your gf is a trend chaser just ask her what her interests are beyond her political beliefs. Try to nudge her more to a hobby instead of political sperging.
 
That's just it. We get along just fine even though we disagree politically.
Am I the only one surprised about how much politics infected relationships?
10-15 yrs ago the most controversial discussions I had with my GFs were about the music and movies they enjoyed or their families. The only time politics fucked my relationships was when I dated Jewish chicks, which was quite the eye opening experience, but still has nothing to do with the hyperliberal failure of modern relations.
Politics were not a topic of discussion AT ALL in like 90% of my relations.
 
Height
weight
Income
Occupation
Education
How is the relationship with your family?
Do you have siblings
Do you like cats and dogs
Do you want kids
Age
Have you been married before
Do you have children.
Location ( at least say the contintent you are on)
Race
Nigger write something about yourself besides having a loli avatar
Height-5'10"
Weight-280 (Working on losing that weight)
Income-50k
Occupation-Foodservice Manager
Familial Relations-They are good. I regularly chat with parents and younger bro
Siblings-One older and one younger
Cats and Dogs-I love almost all animals
I would like kids
I'm 27
Never married, no kids
Live in North America
White.
 
Height-5'10"
Weight-280 (Working on losing that weight)
Income-50k
Occupation-Foodservice Manager
Familial Relations-They are good. I regularly chat with parents and younger bro
Siblings-One older and one younger
Cats and Dogs-I love almost all animals
I would like kids
I'm 27
Never married, no kids
Live in North America
White.
Short and fat.
Been there, done that bro you'll make it.
Lose the v-tuber avatar though, gives people the creeps.
 
Height-5'10"
Weight-280 (Working on losing that weight)
Income-50k
Occupation-Foodservice Manager
Familial Relations-They are good. I regularly chat with parents and younger bro
Siblings-One older and one younger
Cats and Dogs-I love almost all animals
I would like kids
I'm 27
Never married, no kids
Live in North America
White.
well lets see what single women say

lose the fucking anime loli avatar nigga gives the wrong vibes also write hobies and interests
 
I am lost and need female advice.
So I have been dating a girl for about a year or so now. She's heavy into Reddit and internet communities like that, very progressive, very pro trans rights/current thing/#votebluenomatterwho or whatever and I'm not any of those things. I may have been one at some point, but things change. Recently, after a couple of her friends trooned out, I discovered that she sometimes switches her pronouns to she/they or something like that. Is this relationship fucked? I'm pretty upset about the whole thing. What do I even do now?

Normally, it's fine and even healthy to have some differing beliefs between you and your partner, it allows you both to grow together and love each other more deeply. However, when you're dealing with hyper liberalism, you are dealing with the values and morality that comes with it. If your values and morality differ by vast magnitudes, it's going to be a hard, and eventually, most likely, a loveless relationship. Dating is fine, but if you are serious, you really want someone who is on the same page as you or who has morality/a character that you can respect and admire.

Without respect and admiration, it will likely become a hassle for you, and also for her. And if you have to walk on eggshells or sacrifice your most basic principles, you may as well just castrate yourself right now. In the end, it really is all about how much you respect and value yourself

Good luck!
 
I keep attracting girls with baggage and the one I'm seeing now has the most tolerable baggage. I'm the first man she's been with after a 2 year dry spell because her past relationships were abusive. She may drink like a fish and game more than I do but at least she's not a single mom and she has a job. And she isn't into going out and partying too. This relationship feels like a pretty risky dice roll but it's lasted over a year so far somehow.
 
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Am I the only one surprised about how much politics infected relationships?
10-15 yrs ago the most controversial discussions I had with my GFs were about the music and movies they enjoyed or their families. The only time politics fucked my relationships was when I dated Jewish chicks, which was quite the eye opening experience, but still has nothing to do with the hyperliberal failure of modern relations.
Politics were not a topic of discussion AT ALL in like 90% of my relations.
This is very important. Politics have, at the same time, become more important than ever for many people and also turned into the Bastard child of philosophy and sociology. It fucks over Families, friends and lovers and often you can do nothing about it, because people have to stop caring about stupid bullshit on their own.
 
I keep attracting girls with baggage and the one I'm seeing now has the most tolerable baggage. I'm the first man she's been with after a 2 year dry spell because her past relationships were abusive. She may drink like a fish and game more than I do but at least she's not a single mom and she has a job. And she isn't into going out and partying too. This relationship feels like a pretty risky dice roll but it's lasted over a year so far somehow.
age, general location as in bughive over 1 mil metro area , towns , semirural or rural . So i can tell you what is the problem , also what are your earnings and do you live alone or with your parents
 
>Go on date with girl last night
>Feel like it was a great time, she made eye contact a lot, laughed at my jokes, played with her hair
>agreed to go to ice cream after dinner with me, we stayed out for about 4 hours
>ask her at the end of the date if she wants to hang out again (mistake probably)
>She says yes, but that she'd have to work around a busy schedule
>send her a text when I get home asking if she got home safe, saying I had a good time, said I'd like to go out again
>get back "I'll definitely let you know!!" to the last question

what do I do from here? wait a while to text her? make small talk over text? set up a time and place and ask if she's free?
 
Careful guys, the Norwegian is trying to doxx the American boys!
I can't give proper advice unless i get the specifics very often men complain about single moms and baggage when they are themselves 35 + with similar baggage and essentially their dating pool will be same . Not to mention some places are slim pickings i:e rural and semi rural areas and often have lopsided demographics more men than women due to the more available jobs for men ( farming, lumber industry local plants) and sometimes larger towns where conservative culture of dating is prevalent and where divorce is less accepted .
 
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