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I'm so tired of not being "boy" enoughVent (self.trans)
submitted 34 minutes ago by sqapsudss
I (16ftm) have tried everything from tape to binders a size too small to really tight sports bras and I'm still just not flat enough and it still looks like I have a chest. Not only this, but I feel like everything I do just isn't masculine enough. My hair looks extremely feminine, all my clothes are really feminine, and I'm quite chubby and I feel like it outlines that I have a larger chest.
I'm just so tired of not fitting in and I feel like gender dysphoria is genuinely just killing me overtime. I feel like nothing I do will ever make me enough of a boy and sometimes it's just so hard to even go anywhere (school, etc) because of how crushing my dysphoria is. Somedays I'll wake up and just look in the mirror and sob because I cannot stand the way I look. Mixing dysphoria with severe depression disorder and an ed feeling crushing and I'm just so defeated every single day.
My boyfriend and all my friends say I look really cis but then I get misgendered by adults or my peers. I just feel like nothing I will do will amount to anything to make myself feel like I'm actually a boy. Does anyone have any tips to feel more masculine or to even just get a larger chest (B-C cup) a lot flatter?
And to anyone reading this, thank you for just listening, I feel really bad continuing to go to my boyfriend or friends about my troubles and I can't access professional help right now so this is my best option for advice.
submitted 34 minutes ago by sqapsudss
I (16ftm) have tried everything from tape to binders a size too small to really tight sports bras and I'm still just not flat enough and it still looks like I have a chest. Not only this, but I feel like everything I do just isn't masculine enough. My hair looks extremely feminine, all my clothes are really feminine, and I'm quite chubby and I feel like it outlines that I have a larger chest.
I'm just so tired of not fitting in and I feel like gender dysphoria is genuinely just killing me overtime. I feel like nothing I do will ever make me enough of a boy and sometimes it's just so hard to even go anywhere (school, etc) because of how crushing my dysphoria is. Somedays I'll wake up and just look in the mirror and sob because I cannot stand the way I look. Mixing dysphoria with severe depression disorder and an ed feeling crushing and I'm just so defeated every single day.
My boyfriend and all my friends say I look really cis but then I get misgendered by adults or my peers. I just feel like nothing I will do will amount to anything to make myself feel like I'm actually a boy. Does anyone have any tips to feel more masculine or to even just get a larger chest (B-C cup) a lot flatter?
And to anyone reading this, thank you for just listening, I feel really bad continuing to go to my boyfriend or friends about my troubles and I can't access professional help right now so this is my best option for advice.
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Pooner hasn't caught on that the "bi" guys connecting with her on grindr are not "bi" at all...
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Vent: why do cismen feel the need to tell me "it's OK I'm bi" self.ftm
submitted an hour ago by Screaminberries
This has been getting on my nerves as of lately.(I live in a country where transmen aren't v known) I go on grindr and get messaged by a lot of chasers. I explain usually I'm ftm not mtf and I get 2 responses. Either the most infuriating conversation about how no I am not a transwoman and no I don't have a girl dick. Or the aforementioned "oh I'm bi"
This shouldn't rub me the wrong way since being bisexual is completely fine and i don't care what your sexuality is as long as you see me as a guy. But thats the thing it's the nuance of saying I'm bi. it makes me feel like I'm not a man enough to say you're gay for me. It makes me feel like they see me as a woman who has short hair. I get dysphoric from those conversations and I feel like I'm overreacting???
submitted an hour ago by Screaminberries
This has been getting on my nerves as of lately.(I live in a country where transmen aren't v known) I go on grindr and get messaged by a lot of chasers. I explain usually I'm ftm not mtf and I get 2 responses. Either the most infuriating conversation about how no I am not a transwoman and no I don't have a girl dick. Or the aforementioned "oh I'm bi"
This shouldn't rub me the wrong way since being bisexual is completely fine and i don't care what your sexuality is as long as you see me as a guy. But thats the thing it's the nuance of saying I'm bi. it makes me feel like I'm not a man enough to say you're gay for me. It makes me feel like they see me as a woman who has short hair. I get dysphoric from those conversations and I feel like I'm overreacting???
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Is Anyone else getting periods? (self.trans)
submitted an hour ago by Emotional-Sink-9021
Alright so I am 11 months on E
A few weeks ago I had an experience which I don't really know what to describe as anything other than period symptoms. Obviously I'm not bleeding, I'd go right to a doctor. However, I was getting abdominal cramping, bloating, fatigue, acne, increasingly tender breasts, and more mood swings/irritability.
Like I don't know what else it could be. It lasted a few days and then just went away on it's own. Like this whole time I have been told trans women can't get periods because obviously no uterus but are we able to get like Premenstrual Syndrome?
submitted an hour ago by Emotional-Sink-9021
Alright so I am 11 months on E
A few weeks ago I had an experience which I don't really know what to describe as anything other than period symptoms. Obviously I'm not bleeding, I'd go right to a doctor. However, I was getting abdominal cramping, bloating, fatigue, acne, increasingly tender breasts, and more mood swings/irritability.
Like I don't know what else it could be. It lasted a few days and then just went away on it's own. Like this whole time I have been told trans women can't get periods because obviously no uterus but are we able to get like Premenstrual Syndrome?