In spirit of
@xXthrowawayaccountXx, I will be powerleveling a bit. (P.S. the guy is a faggot with a weird fetish and should be shamed for having it.)
I preface this by saying I am a straight man with XY chromosomes and have no desire to troon out.
I am what most would call a "femboy." I don't particularly follow the porn-addled aesthetic of emo thigh highs + skirts bought off amazon. I dress like a normal woman. I don't particularly like being called a femboy either, I don't like being associated with any crossdresser community. I don't do it for sexual reasons or because I like the aesthetic. I do it because I am under the delusion that everyone hates me, finds me disgusting, finds me dangerous. Crossdressing helps alleviate the symptoms for some reason. I don't know why and I'm not particularly interested in any thoughts from armchair psychologists (or psychologists for that matter, all of whom have tried to get me to transition. It is a disgusting profession full of disgusting people.)
Every other femboy, trap, etc. are either gay, a troon, a groomer, and/or a pedophile, the vast majority being all 4. Everyone associated with femboy communities are either gay, a troon, a groomer, and/or a pedophile, the vast majority being all 4. These communities are wholly unsafe for children to be in. These communities are wholly unsafe for adults to be in. If you ever meet anyone associated with these communities, you should assume they are unsafe to be around. I joined a femboy discord server once and left within 2 days due to how overly sexualized everything is. It was supposedly a SFW community as well.
The best comparison is furries, a community which has a lot of overlap with the femboy community. While there is a small percentage, perhaps half of 1% of 1% that actually just enjoy the aesthetic or have some other reason for liking it, the vast majority are weird fetishists. The community is therefore filled with weird fetishes that are actively harming the lives of the people who have them and sometimes others. While the biggest stain on furry community is beastality, femboys have grooming.
A lot of femboyism spawns from the sissy fetish. They are misogynists that get off to thr embarrassment of being "lowered" to the tier of woman. It is a form of masochism. By the name sadomasochism, it can be inferred that sadism follows masochism. This is why they get off to grooming others into joining them. On top of the sexual reasons, it also reenforces their subconscious into believing it is normal and natural for men to pretend to be women (it isn't. I am perhaps the most normal "femboy" there is and even that is the result of severe mental illness.)
@xXthrowawayaccountXx is at least honest to himself about it being a fetish (one that I hope he abandons.)
I end with a personal story. A former irl friend of mine, a totally normal guy on the surface, ran a public discord server. It was full of furries, most of whom were openly underage (or at least pretending to be). The server was "SFW" de jure but the rules also stated to be "not too lewd." Why allow lewdness at all on a server that allowed minors? Because he was using it to collect lewd images. There was an entire channel to dedicated to "thigh pics." One of its top posters was an admin, 15 years-old. My friend also posted on that server about how he fantased about "raping a femboy [he] knew IRL," referring to me. I threw up. Needless to say, he wasn't my friend from that point.
2 years later, he was arrested for possesion and distribution of CSAM.
There are snakes all around you, watch out.