was engaged to a religious girl (probably one of @John Andrews Stan neighbors) who ticked all the proverbial boxes of a "good girl", loved kids, wanted to be a mom (got knocked up out of wedlock...diff story), didn't drink, wanted to be involved with the church, planned for our home and future kids, etc. etc. etc. She also wanted me to fuck another girl in front of her, and have myself and another guy ravish her.
Edit: She also wanted to have threesomes with chicks as mentioned, but, claims her husband divourced her after she admitted she was bi.
My point being, is that Kayla sounds very, very much like the girl I was engaged t
I’d say both your ex and Kayla were trying hard to live up to expectations they thought made them a desirable mate. Trad wife and horny slut is a popular combo ethots love to promote.
I will argue a child out of wedlock, “
wanting to be involved in the church” and lip service to traditional stuff sounds more like a single mom trying out real hard for a wife/SAHM role. She probably thought this was what you, or higher quality men in general, wanted in a wife so was trying to meet that criteria. Kayla, otoh, walked the walk for many years via marriage, five kids, Christian radio in the car, regular church attendance and dedication to home schooling.
Kayla’s little breakdown indicate she is a major people pleaser. This is one reason she has slide down with Nick. Making him, and others, happy is part of her personality. In Nick 2021 wanted Hedonism 2 wife instead of homeschool church mom.
Women molding their identity and behaviors to please their husband, family, peers, community is pretty common. The biggest difficulty for her would be Nick’s expectations being at odds with her family, friends, community’s standards. If only they had a network of local swingers and alcoholics in small town MN to hang with, instead of church and homeschool parents, it would have been a lot easier for her. Nick could tap out and live in his online parasocial world, but Kayla still had to teach homeschool, go to church and hang with other local parents.
It is a bit late but I had a thought.
Nick wasn't allowed to be in the streaming room during late hours of the day, right? Is someone else in their house streaming?
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In a fairly recent kitchen stream where Nick reiterated people have no idea what’s going on in his life, he alluded to other family members living at the house. I could see in-laws moving in to help out with kids if Kayla is upset and Nick is a drunken, nocturnal gollum.