It is sort of funny to read the title. I too, for a long time, rejected Christianity and passionately hated it because I thought, to some extent, like AR did about it. However, what I found out over the course of my life is that, Catholics, at least, actively don't hate women and it is a huge criticism of Protestants of them. Our Blessed Mother is revered because of her complete self-sacrifice and submission to the will of God. However, what is not talked about as much is St. Joseph, her husband. He fully too submitted to the will of God and accepted his burden. In Catholicism, it is thought that he was chaste from that point on because his massive devotion to the Lord and not wanting to defile the Theotokos. Once I learned about that, my mind started to change on the whole thing. The burden in Catholicism is for BOTH men and women not to be degen retards. It isn't one sided at all. Yes, no birth control, but men are fully expected themselves to stick around and raise whatever results from that under pain of hellfire.