Trainwreck Anisa Riyadh Jomha / @anisajomha & iDubbbz / Ian Kane Jomha / Ian Kane Washburn / "Anisa's husband" / "Poo-Pants Swastika Boy" - Anisa posting her bald nudes on OnlyFans even when married to Ian and thirsting over Hasan while her husband iDubbbz the Content Cuck/Simp/THE RAPED/ etc. watches

[Golden Boy]

Really Anus? Are you sure about that?

 

[Snake ERROR]

Why does she bake and eat cookies EVERY DAY, that is some fat bitch behaviour.

I guess that's the only thing she knows how to cook.

A few years ago I was living in an apartment complex and one of my neighbors was a BPDemon who I helped by giving her a ride to work a few times in exchange for some cash. She latched onto me and it was the most exhausting and stressful experience in my life, phone getting blown up constantly, door getting banged on, all at odd hours of the night whenever she was going through some crazy BPD-meltdown. I breathed a sigh of relief when she got evicted and thanked christ I never let her get closer than "This neighbor gives me a ride"

I can't imagine the living hell that would be having an actual relationship with one.
Sheesh.

I've had some sort of relationship with a crazy woman (not as much as Anisa), and it drains your vital energy, you feel every single part of your own body but at the same time you don't, it's like void that is stealing anything it can from you. I did everything I was required to do without thinking too much about it, I felt like a robot.

The only thing that I was enjoying was hanging out with my friends and that's it, that was the only thing that helped me forget about that woman and all the problems I had.

After interacting with anyone that's fucked up, it's very likely that you'll get the same mental problems. Especially if you have a relationship with them.

 

[JelloJerk]

PLEASE show me support guys. THANK YOU for all the support recently. Shut the fuck up! - content deputy leafy
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>past decade has been SO hard
All self inflicted
>im saving money by cooking/baking it’s so fulfilling!
Immediately buys food at the first negative comment
>but enough about me, YOU are loved
Manages to throw in a platitude before closing out, amazing.

If I were a stronger autist I would calendar plot every time Anisa had a mental breakdown along with her other Anisa cycle-isms, but alas

LMAO. How long was that? ONE DAY without buying fucking sweets? Were the scones that bad?

didnt something like this happen last year too? idubbz went away for a while (i dont remember why or where he went) and anisa had a total meltdown on twitter and instagram while he was gone

She went to Canada to celebrate Muslim Christmas with her family and idubbbz stayed in the states. She posted something about him being on a plane to get a tattoo in Australia. I don't remember exactly when that was, only that she made hotpot and gave him the shits. Otherwise they have been mostly glued to the hip since his Rhode Island trip.

I think you guys are confusing multiple events. Anisa had a bit of a melty on Twitter last year right before CC2 where she made that Tweet about drinking a whole bottle of wine or something. The plane on a tattoo thing was in the middle of their Australia trip and she said she couldn't go with him to get the tat because of the hotpot. It is interesting now that you mention it, it isn't the first time he's gone off by himself. Something must've happened. Maybe all the heat from the Kirk Honda episode caused her to spiral?

Tofu scramble with banana bread bento boxes. Also cinnamon rolls. She once discovered a very basic pasta recipe too.
She should cook more, food is the only hobby she's kept throughout the years and cooking is such a useful skill to know.

You forgot the salmon she fucked up and poisoned her and Ian with. She also made some Irish... thing for St. Pat's last year that she quickly deleted after being made fun of.

You know Anisa the pro boxing promoter is probably critiquing how they’re doing it wrong and endangering the lives of the fighters. But the funny thing is, the reason creator clash takes place in Florida is because their regulations and requirements are less strict than other states(this info came from Anisa herself btw). If creator clash was the heccin fun safe event that they say it is, why the fuck do they only operate in the state with the least protections? Also why the fuck is Anisa throwing stones at other events for getting accreditation through the right channels?

LOL the audacity to start talking shit about other people in the middle of your meltdown. She is so rotten.

 

[thefreshmaker]

What if he just ignored it?

You don't.
There's two ways to deal with BPD cases. The first is the reaction everyone does; give in. It's easy, let's face it. That makes it worse and will result in it ending, inevitably. The second is to treat them like a child and put your foot down. Establish inviolable boundaries. Do not answer the phone, don't buy into delusions, etc.
No one does the second because, after enough attempts, you will be broken down. Enough suicide attempts, self-harm, physical attacks, mental abuse, whatever else, maybe you just get sick of dealing with the fucker, it ends, and not amicably so.
Ignoring it is just failing to square the circle. BPD cases are unstable. If you are in a relationship with a BPD case, you need to be a rock that will not break. But you will. Time is on their side, not yours. It will end, and it will never get better. If you are ignoring it, you may as well save the next two years of hell and just fucking end it today.

9 Traits of BPD

BPD can be simply distilled as "insecurity" writ large. There is (a belief in having) no identity, which makes them extremely insecure in themselves, their partners, their friends, their work, their pursuits, their hobbies, even their skills and experiences. Imagine every time you got a minor niggling feeling that something wasn't all it seemed, you weren't as skilled or knowledgeable as you or others thought, or that your partner or friends secretly hated you. Ramp that up to eleven, 24 hours a days, and you have BPD. You know people think you're an idiot, you know your "friends" actually hate you, you know everyone at work talks shit behind your back, you know that little trip your husband is going on with his old friends is secretly an excuse to be able to go whoring out and bad mouth you behind your back!
And yet you will still marry or date this person all your friends and family are saying to avoid because BPD is an evil, evil succubus. They are, ironically, the most intelligent people you will meet. They are extremely loving and charming. People like Ian, who are naturally depressive, passive, and lacking confidence will find great joy in the opposites of Anisa and in many ways come out of their shell. BPD is a seductive temptress; you will see the red flags and willingly ensnare yourself. You will be the one to "fix" her. And then it's too late.

She'd keep talking to the wall and when he gets back there'll be hell to pay for it.
If you ignore BPD hoes that have latched on like this you're rolling the dice on whether you get off light in the form of intensified emotional abuse when you return, to "this bitch sold all my shit, killed the dog, shat in my pillowcase and broke everything there is to break in this house."

Yeah, it's a flip of the dice; either he gets back and she immediately lashes out, or the episode is subsided by the sheer joy of him returning for a time. But an episode will occur again, she will have a growing voice in her head and be unable to suppress the ideas that pop up. Even though we all know Ian will be rejecting out of hand any conversations that his buddies attempt, she will believe he eagerly engaged. He will admit that they even brought it up, then boom, she's figured it all out, this event was a great denunciation of Anisa at Ian's behest and he will not hear the end of it. Either way, he's going to catch it big when he gets back.

 

[Anti Snigger]

I have a bit of a theory bouncing around in the back of my head about Anisa.
I think she wants to destroy Ian because of an instinctive drive. Plenty of animals exhibit an urge to 'cull' the weaker members of the herd, and I think that has been activated in her upon meeting him. She saw this pathetic specimen of a man, and she hated him. She couldn't simply kill him, for a variety of reasons, so she did what she could: She drew him in, literally neutered him, emasculated him publicly in such a fashion that no woman will ever have sex with him, should he escape her clutches.

She is obeying some primal eugenic force that we barely understand in the animal kingdom let alone ourselves, she is doing her part to save the world from his pathetic genome.
Godspeed Anisa, you misunderstood hero.

 

[Godmode]

BPD can be simply distilled as "insecurity" writ large. There is (a belief in having) no identity, which makes them extremely insecure in themselves, their partners, their friends, their work, their pursuits, their hobbies, even their skills and experiences. Imagine every time you got a minor niggling feeling that something wasn't all it seemed, you weren't as skilled or knowledgeable as you or others thought, or that your partner or friends secretly hated you. Ramp that up to eleven, 24 hours a days, and you have BPD. You know people think you're an idiot, you know your "friends" actually hate you, you know everyone at work talks shit behind your back, you know that little trip your husband is going on with his old friends is secretly an excuse to be able to go whoring out and bad mouth you behind your back!
And yet you will still marry or date this person all your friends and family are saying to avoid because BPD is an evil, evil succubus. They are, ironically, the most intelligent people you will meet.

You had me up until that last line. BPD are the most manipulative, but not necessarily intelligent. Anisa is a fucking retard.

They are extremely loving and charming. People like Ian, who are naturally depressive, passive, and lacking confidence will find great joy in the opposites of Anisa and in many ways come out of their shell. BPD is a seductive temptress; you will see the red flags and willingly ensnare yourself. You will be the one to "fix" her. And then it's too late.

 

[2020chan]

Idubbbz addresses a comment regarding his tattoo

• comment tl;dr "why wouldn't idubbbz vlog his tattoo, it's a throwback to chad's pewdiepie one. that's a stupid decision"
• he says he thought this was a hater comment but thinks the commenter genuinely wants him to succeed

Lmao haters everywhere they look. I bet they assume a lot of well meaning comments are haters. How many of their own fans have they blocked because "HATERS could be here" he thought, "I've never posted this video before. HATERS could be anywhere".

You forgot the salmon she fucked up and poisoned her and Ian with.

Why does she keep making him sick with her food? Does he really have IBS or is it just Anisa giving him the shits through incompetence or malice?

Even though we all know Ian will be rejecting out of hand any conversations that his buddies attempt, she will believe he eagerly engaged.

Tale as old as time.
There is nothing you can say to someone in the crazy bitch clutches to snap them out of it. They have to figure it out on their own.

 

[Super An Hero]

I have a bit of a theory bouncing around in the back of my head about Anisa.
I think she wants to destroy Ian because of an instinctive drive. Plenty of animals exhibit an urge to 'cull' the weaker members of the herd, and I think that has been activated in her upon meeting him. She saw this pathetic specimen of a man, and she hated him. She couldn't simply kill him, for a variety of reasons, so she did what she could: She drew him in, literally neutered him, emasculated him publicly in such a fashion that no woman will ever have sex with him, should he escape her clutches.

She is obeying some primal eugenic force that we barely understand in the animal kingdom let alone ourselves, she is doing her part to save the world from his pathetic genome.
Godspeed Anisa, you misunderstood hero.

And in the process of doing so, she also ensured no man would ever have sex with her. Honestly its a win win situation.

 

[Anti Snigger]

And in the process of doing so, she also ensured no man would ever have sex with her. Honestly its a win win situation.

Her magnanimity knows no bounds.

 

[Zilch]

Ian's entire life is talking Anisa off the ledge. Catering to every whim, doing what she wants. Always. Trying to mold himself into what she thinks she wants him to be.
He will never be good enough, she will never stop pushing him away and then clawing at him to stay. Endless suffering.

And he doesn't even get the benefit of the hyper-sexuality bpd's often exhibit

Does he stay because..

1. He believes he loves her
2. He's to insecure to try and move on
3. He thinks she'll kill herself
4. He's too checked out with SSRI's
5. Clinging to the good times. We can't break up we've been together x amount of years
6. He's content. Not happy obviously, but depressed incel Ian wasn't happy either so at least he's not alone. Being alone is scary. (This might just be 2.)
7. Stubbornness. Unwilling to admit Sam Hyde was right.

 

[Godmode]

Why does she keep making him sick with her food? Does he really have IBS or is it just Anisa giving him the shits through incompetence or malice?

At this point Ian is probably worth more dead than alive. If I were Ian I would send his scones into a lab to be tested for arsenic.

Does he stay because..

1. He believes he loves her
2. He's to insecure to try and move on
3. He thinks she'll kill herself
4. He's too checked out with SSRI's
5. Clinging to the good times. We can't break up we've been together x amount of years
6. He's content. Not happy obviously, but depressed incel Ian wasn't happy either so at least he's not alone. Being alone is scary. (This might just be 2.)
7. Stubbornness. Unwilling to admit Sam Hyde was right.

Stockholm syndrome.

 

[loosebladder]

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Really Anus? Are you sure about that?

OK, so... the podcast ISN'T for views, it's to foster a community... but they "don't read the comments" so it can't be for the community aspect... could it be that the podcast is just for them to feel important about themselves and act like their opinion matters and push it onto others? Who woulda thunkered it?

 

[Zilch]

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Of course it’s another purebred dog ffs.

Not a purebred.
Boston Terriers don't come in red. Non-standard color as a result from crossing with bulldogs.
They went to a backyard breeder, as predicted.

 

[Slur Generator]

All squished face dogs should be mandatorily sterilized and all breeders should be jailed.

 

[DumbDude43]

Ian's entire life is talking Anisa off the ledge. Catering to every whim, doing what she wants. Always. Trying to mold himself into what she thinks she wants him to be.
He will never be good enough, she will never stop pushing him away and then clawing at him to stay. Endless suffering.

And he doesn't even get the benefit of the hyper-sexuality bpd's often exhibit

Does he stay because..

1. He believes he loves her
2. He's to insecure to try and move on
3. He thinks she'll kill herself
4. He's too checked out with SSRI's
5. Clinging to the good times. We can't break up we've been together x amount of years
6. He's content. Not happy obviously, but depressed incel Ian wasn't happy either so at least he's not alone. Being alone is scary. (This might just be 2.)
7. Stubbornness. Unwilling to admit Sam Hyde was right.

ironically, i think she could actually be a tolerable girlfriend if she was with the right kind of man
and by that i mean someone who stubbornly refuses to put up with any of her bullshit, and basically coerces her with sheer force of will into getting her shit together and acting like a grown up. this would either result in a loud and dramatic breakup very fast, or she would fall in line and end up a lot more functional and happier than she is currently.
but ian definitely isnt that kind of guy, with him it feels like she is constantly poking and pushing him into acting a certain way, he goes along with it, and then she kind of feels disappointed and frustrated by the fact that he did that.

 

[2020chan]

Does he stay because..

1. He believes he loves her
2. He's to insecure to try and move on
3. He thinks she'll kill herself
4. He's too checked out with SSRI's
5. Clinging to the good times. We can't break up we've been together x amount of years
6. He's content. Not happy obviously, but depressed incel Ian wasn't happy either so at least he's not alone. Being alone is scary. (This might just be 2.)
7. Stubbornness. Unwilling to admit Sam Hyde was right.

All of the above and intensifying as we go down the list.

He probably does think he loves her and they've been together long enough to have a familial bond.
He's obviously painfully insecure and seems to be becoming even more insecure as time goes on.
I haven't seen any proof of her suicide baiting but I'm sure he can't leave her because she  needs him.
He's definitely checked out on something. His whole personality is gone.
Clinging to the good times. I wonder when the good times actually were because they said the beginning of their relationship was the worst.

Sam Hyde, he will NEVER leave Anisa because it would mean Sam was right. Broken as he may be, I dont think his ego will allow it.

Sam should say he started watching their podcast, apologize to Anisa and say she's been the best thing about idubbbz all along. Thats the only way idubbbz might contemplate leaving her.

OK, so... the podcast ISN'T for views, it's to foster a community... but they "don't read the comments" so it can't be for the community aspect... could it be that the podcast is just for them to feel important about themselves and act like their opinion matters and push it onto others? Who woulda thunkered it?

It's all a bunch of words that mean COPE. It was for views, they totally wanted to make money off of it and become big like Joe Rogan. Since that's not happening and every episode leads to them dunking on themselves, now it's for community but they disagree with and block everyone.
Cope.

 

[Charnel Ground]

Why does she keep making him sick with her food? Does he really have IBS or is it just Anisa giving him the shits through incompetence or malice?

I am hoping and praying and wishing for an Anisa cooking video. Can you even imagine how great that would be?

 

[Billy Bong]

I am hoping and praying and wishing for an Anisa cooking video. Can you even imagine how great that would be?

They can have 'Cooking With Jack' as their podcast guest. Pure kino.

 

[Reticulan Joe]

Apropos to seeing the discussion about Anisa's BPD and being reminded of my own days dating a BPD woman, I'll share this. I only came across it afterwards, and it probably wouldn't have helped me if I'd read it before, but I'm dropping it here because it can give BPD-naive people a good window on what they're like and why they're so maddening to deal with. It's probably too late for Ian or someone in his position, but maybe it'll help some of you before you're in too deep.

From David M. Allen, MD, who is unorthodox (he likes benzos!) but insightful but very therapy-focused:
How to Disarm a Borderline, Part I
How to Disarm a Borderline, Part II
How to Disarm a Borderline, Part III: Overall Philosophy
How to Disarm a Borderline, Part IV: The Kernel of Truth
How to Disarm a Borderline, Part V: You ARE Helpless
How to Disarm a Borderline, Part VI: Respect Their Intelligence
How to Disarm a Borderline, Part VII: Suicide Threats
How to Disarm a Borderline, Part VIII: Splitsville
How to Disarm a Borderline, Part IX: Listen to the Lyrics, Not the Tune
How to Disarm a Borderline, Last Part

From the Last Psychiatrist, who gives a more rambling, psychoanalytic approach:
Borderline
The Diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder: What Does It Really Mean?
Penelope Trunk, Abuser (warning: NSFW image at top)

 

[Arcade Gannon]

• Anisa and idubbbz revisit the childhood segment of last week's podcast
  • talks about how weird other people were. Anisa specifically recalls a girl who would "cross boundaries" and peed on her ex's shoes

Was Anisa in a sped class? Normal kids don't pee on each other's shoes.