I'm getting a familiar feeling I had a number of times in the past.
When one of my niggas that was some sort of asexual plant virgin-ish dude would find pussy.
And then the dumb shit starts. The "I gotta do that and this", the "no I cannot come to the gym find another 5th for the basketball game", the "No I cannot go to the club Saturday", the bad looks when somebody makes cheesy jokes about chicks.
Just submissive behavior leading to step by step isolation.
Then you meet them 5 yrs later, with 2 ugly kids, fat, out of shape, with cardiac issues and diabetes, in your hospital, asking you "how did this happen, fren?!? We used to shoot ball together just 10 yrs ago. Look at you, look at me. Why am I so unhappy and miserable and ill?"