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I'm not sure if I can summarize this, but tranny finds out that his tranny boyfriend is a pedo by talking to his tranny ex.
https://old.reddit.com/r/MtF/comments/1chy1c1/my_girlfriends_ex_is_accusing_her_of_being_a/ ( )
The comments are gold.
"Ackchyually isn't not pedophilia and it's normal, and YOU should apologize!"
https://old.reddit.com/r/MtF/comments/1chy1c1/my_girlfriends_ex_is_accusing_her_of_being_a/ ( )
My girlfriend’s EX is accusing her of being a “Pedophile” and I don’t know what to do about itVenting (self.MtF)
submitted 5 hours ago * by purpleflower8815
[TRIGGER WARING: Abuse and Suicide]
This genuinely might be the height of T4T transbian drama. I don’t know if I’m in the right. I don’t know if she’s in the right. But I’ll explain my case here. For the record, I’m perfectly willing to explain the story as fully and objectively as possible, because I genuinely want to know if I’m in the right or wrong. That’s the entire point of making this post. I’m perfectly willing to find out I’m in the wrong, because that’d honestly (IN SOME WAYS) make me feel better. To know I deserve what this person has done to me feels better (IN SOME WYAS) then knowing I don’t. So let me begin.
Let’s call person who did this to me, Stormy. My relation with Stormy began before I even met my girlfriend. We met as a chance encounter on a queer meetup app, talked a little, but nothing ever really went anywhere. A few months later I met my girlfriend, who for the sake of this story we’ll call “Cloudy”.
My girlfriend would talk pretty often about her abusive EX, and how she pressured her to do drugs, would make fun of her and call her fat and ugly, misgender her on purpose when she was mad at her, and had been harassing her with burner phone numbers. At one point I told my girlfriend I’m in the “Transfems of [OUR CITY]” Discord server (we both live in a major North American city) Cloudy told me she got banned from that place a few months ago because of her ex girlfriend. She asked me who’s in there currently that I’m familier with. I listed off some names, one whome being this “Stormy” person who I’ve been taking to.
Welp, just my luck, Cloudy informed me that Stormy is the abusive ex she’d been talking about. I was pretty disappointed to hear this considering I’d previously thought of Stormy as pretty cool person. The queer community in our big city can sure feel small sometimes. To add to the smallness, I later met up with someone who ALSO IS AN EX OF STORMY, yet had a completely different perspective on her. She was still good friends with Storm, and actually let Storm know that she was meeting up with me. I made the mistake of letting this person know that I’m dating Cloudy, which resulted in Storm wanting to get back in touch with me to essentially “settle the Cloudy situation”.
Stormy contacted me BEGGING for me to break up with Cloudy. She even asked for us to meet in person at a mutual location, which I did agree to as I was seriously concerned about what was going on and was pretty upset to learn that my partner might be problematic. We met at a McDonalds and talked over the situation, this was the first and only time I met with Stormy in person. Here is what Storm informed me of:
When I found out what Stormy was saying to be people I became very upset with the well poisoning. I thought it was especially absurd that Stormy would go around accusing Cloudy of grooming her when THEY WERE BOTH ADULTS WHEN THEY MET, and Cloudy is THREE YEARS YOUNGER THEN STORMY. This is where I probably went too far, but in retaliation I told one of Stormy‘s freinds that Stormy had actually actually groomed Cloudy, which to me at the time wasn’t too out-there of a claim. Cloudy was in High School when they met, and Stormy was on college. Stormy pressured Cloudy to do hard drugs. At the time i didn’t think that was too much of a stretch. That said, in retrospect I really shouldn’t have used language as harsh as “grooming” for that situation.
Anyways, Stormy went around telling everyone I’m a pedophile sympathizer and now I have to deal with that for the forceable future. Great. Sometimes I think maybe I am kind of a fool for not breaking up with my GF, but I think I can genuinely see she’s trying to get better. She hasn’t done anything abusive to me. Plus, we’re poly so I don’t have to worry about her “cheating“ on me. Still, i don’t really know what to do about having someone actively trying to get an entire [MAJOR NORTH AMERICAN CITGY] to hate me and I don’t even know if I’m on the right or wrong.
TL
R: My girlfriend’s ex is actively trying to ruin my life. I feel like I may or may not deserve it. I want to know if I’m in the right or wrong, and I’m wondering if anyone else has been in a simuler situation and can relate.
EDIT: To the people saying “just walk away from this”, I can’t. I’ve tried to. On FOUR separate occasions I become estranged from an acquaintance because of her defamation. No real friends have left me, but still. She has literally ruined the life of my partner and has admitted to intentionally trying to drive her to suicide. The situation is fucked.
submitted 5 hours ago * by purpleflower8815
[TRIGGER WARING: Abuse and Suicide]
This genuinely might be the height of T4T transbian drama. I don’t know if I’m in the right. I don’t know if she’s in the right. But I’ll explain my case here. For the record, I’m perfectly willing to explain the story as fully and objectively as possible, because I genuinely want to know if I’m in the right or wrong. That’s the entire point of making this post. I’m perfectly willing to find out I’m in the wrong, because that’d honestly (IN SOME WAYS) make me feel better. To know I deserve what this person has done to me feels better (IN SOME WYAS) then knowing I don’t. So let me begin.
Let’s call person who did this to me, Stormy. My relation with Stormy began before I even met my girlfriend. We met as a chance encounter on a queer meetup app, talked a little, but nothing ever really went anywhere. A few months later I met my girlfriend, who for the sake of this story we’ll call “Cloudy”.
My girlfriend would talk pretty often about her abusive EX, and how she pressured her to do drugs, would make fun of her and call her fat and ugly, misgender her on purpose when she was mad at her, and had been harassing her with burner phone numbers. At one point I told my girlfriend I’m in the “Transfems of [OUR CITY]” Discord server (we both live in a major North American city) Cloudy told me she got banned from that place a few months ago because of her ex girlfriend. She asked me who’s in there currently that I’m familier with. I listed off some names, one whome being this “Stormy” person who I’ve been taking to.
Welp, just my luck, Cloudy informed me that Stormy is the abusive ex she’d been talking about. I was pretty disappointed to hear this considering I’d previously thought of Stormy as pretty cool person. The queer community in our big city can sure feel small sometimes. To add to the smallness, I later met up with someone who ALSO IS AN EX OF STORMY, yet had a completely different perspective on her. She was still good friends with Storm, and actually let Storm know that she was meeting up with me. I made the mistake of letting this person know that I’m dating Cloudy, which resulted in Storm wanting to get back in touch with me to essentially “settle the Cloudy situation”.
Stormy contacted me BEGGING for me to break up with Cloudy. She even asked for us to meet in person at a mutual location, which I did agree to as I was seriously concerned about what was going on and was pretty upset to learn that my partner might be problematic. We met at a McDonalds and talked over the situation, this was the first and only time I met with Stormy in person. Here is what Storm informed me of:
- Cloudy had sex with a 17 year old at the age of 19
- Cloudy apparently gave a PS4 to that 17 year old as “hush money”
- Cloudy is apparently an “abusive partner”and “serial cheater”, according to Stormy. Stormy cheated on her when they were monogamous.
When I found out what Stormy was saying to be people I became very upset with the well poisoning. I thought it was especially absurd that Stormy would go around accusing Cloudy of grooming her when THEY WERE BOTH ADULTS WHEN THEY MET, and Cloudy is THREE YEARS YOUNGER THEN STORMY. This is where I probably went too far, but in retaliation I told one of Stormy‘s freinds that Stormy had actually actually groomed Cloudy, which to me at the time wasn’t too out-there of a claim. Cloudy was in High School when they met, and Stormy was on college. Stormy pressured Cloudy to do hard drugs. At the time i didn’t think that was too much of a stretch. That said, in retrospect I really shouldn’t have used language as harsh as “grooming” for that situation.
Anyways, Stormy went around telling everyone I’m a pedophile sympathizer and now I have to deal with that for the forceable future. Great. Sometimes I think maybe I am kind of a fool for not breaking up with my GF, but I think I can genuinely see she’s trying to get better. She hasn’t done anything abusive to me. Plus, we’re poly so I don’t have to worry about her “cheating“ on me. Still, i don’t really know what to do about having someone actively trying to get an entire [MAJOR NORTH AMERICAN CITGY] to hate me and I don’t even know if I’m on the right or wrong.
TL
R: My girlfriend’s ex is actively trying to ruin my life. I feel like I may or may not deserve it. I want to know if I’m in the right or wrong, and I’m wondering if anyone else has been in a simuler situation and can relate.EDIT: To the people saying “just walk away from this”, I can’t. I’ve tried to. On FOUR separate occasions I become estranged from an acquaintance because of her defamation. No real friends have left me, but still. She has literally ruined the life of my partner and has admitted to intentionally trying to drive her to suicide. The situation is fucked.
The comments are gold.
"Ackchyually isn't not pedophilia and it's normal, and YOU should apologize!"
