r/actuallesbians currently has three front page posts made by TIMS that are hypersexual in nature (praise kink, poly relationship, and talking about "bottoming" for the first time which is lol), as well as an actual lesbian being targeted by an AGP. Not to say lesbian discussion never gets horny but it's just so blatant when it's coming from a place of male sexuality.
Really wish there were some places where these men couldn't shove their way in and do this. I don't care to read about a man trying anal for the first time.
I want TTD for this alone. THERE ARE NO LESBIAN SPACES. None!!! NONE> Let me repeat...... NONE. There are no lesbian space where you are openly allowed to be a lesbian. People wanna say Ovaritt has one but I disagree. Radfems suck. Radfems truly and honestly believe that being a lesbian is more akin to a special type of "sisterhood" than anything else. Being a lesbian is just being a straight man in a womans body. We can like submissive women, choking, BDSM, humilation, etc. Yet in their eyes, that's not okay : ) because mUh SExisM. They go out of their way to call that shit "porn brained". I got told I was "porn brained" by a FUJO in an AAP server because I was interested in submissive womrn.
People wonder why lesbians are pooning out. Gee, maybe because you aren't allowed to be sexual as one? Maybe because even the ones against troons will still give you slack for being openly sexual??? God forbid you are sexual?? God forbid you are interested in things the majority of straight people are into as a woman?
Hypersexuality is fine but not if you are an actual lesbian, apparently. DDLG, BDSM, fujos, transbians, pet play, that's all fine and dandy. But being a dominant woman whos into other woman? Oh well thats just perverted and you are problematic.
Or no, getting told you are seeking "the male gaze" for liking those things..... Even though theres no men involved. Give me a break. Im so tired of being treated differently for my sexuality, as if being a lesbian is being a different species entirely. Gay men are allowed to be kinky and into crazy shit, no one bashes them the way they do with lesbians. Hell, gay men still have places where they can openly be gay men. They don't get banned.