Yeah.... even at my lowest point when I was a virgin, I never, EVER wouldn't sunk to that level. DBDR has always been next level downbad.
DBDR's 23, so you're a little off with is age, but he's still got some maturing to do. It takes longer for some men, but his fatal flaw is surrounding himself with gutter trash like the fake "friends" who use him or thinking that strip club employees, insta thots and Tinder hos represent all women. Realizing we're better off without shitty friends is a journey all of us go through and some of us figure it out sooner rather than later.
Imagine dwelling on middle school bullying well into your 20's. I mean, it's probably harder to move on from when you still live in the same area where it happened but it's been over a decade.