Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious

[pork and beans]

I'm so-so. It's a stringed instrument. The electric version is a ton of fun to play, and looks pretty cool besides, but only men seem interested.

Girls wont care until you play us a tune. Come on, now!

and wtf i hope umami's milk is right i hope you do play the electric dulcimer. or a lute like shidoen said.

 

[Shidoen]

Oh I hadn't seen those before. How many folk instruments have electric options anyways?

Bardcore needed to be modernized for the posers man.

 

[community member]

Is fujo stuff generally representative of female sexuality, or is that some sort of an aberration? if so, what are the main differences?

aberration. gay males are not very compatible with general female sexuality lol

I think that a lot of guys mistakenly assume that women are basically gay men in women's bodies, and get disappointed when that turns out not to be the case. I think that this is caused by the fact that most porn that they consume is drawn and written by other men, who necessarily self-insert into the woman characters. This is probably a big reason why tranny porn (no bottom surgery) is exploding in popularity. Would you agree, and have you ran into this or similar problems? Basically: have you run into the roadblock of men being gay.

ya I'd agree. but I've only really directly observed this phenomenon online

Moving on from the gay porn questions: how does female friendship work? Men, for example, are usually friends based off of compatible talents and sense of purpose towards which they collaborate (whether that be an intellectual, creative, or other pursuit). What do women do together?

uhh well the entire category of women isn't monolithic so it's going to depend on the friend group. but any human friendship is going to be derived from some compatibility in personalities. it's just regular shit like talking about hobbies and life events and media man. the biggest general difference between female and male friendships from what I've observed is probably that women are less inclined to insult each other as part of their regular interactions

Would you agree that it's true that men are more world-oriented, whereas women are more person-oriented?

I guess so but discrepancies like this aren't something I would read into very much. people have an extremely irritating tendency to reverse engineer purely genetic explanations for behaviors that have an actual range of potential environmental input variables

What is it like when you're not in Estrus, when the tides are low or however that works?

Human females don't have conventional heat cycles. Researchers wouldn't have to debate about whether they exist at all if we did. If I didn't count the days of my menstrual cycle or test for ovulation I'd have no idea when it's happening

This will not be a very helpful answer but I just say "Fuck it we ball" because I refuse to fall for doomer meme of "Being a woman is constant suffering and torture porn" that tends to perpetuated in very female spheres like Tumblr. Yeah some things suck about being a woman, but it shouldn't wear us down or prevent us from living and enjoying life fully. Because if women in some shithole places like Middle East, India and Africa, can find moments of joy and respite despite all the hardships they face, so can you.

ma niggette.... I'm so sick of defeatist female self hatred, I actually have to manage the contempt I feel when I see it because it's responsible for so many self sabotaging behaviors that collectively fuck us over. The only reason why being female is a burden is because of what other people impose upon it. Femaleness itself was never the problem

 

[Ravier Xavenblood]

Sometimes my gf's jealousy comes up out of fucking nowhere. Last night I was just watching a movie with some online acquaintances and I mentioned that to her and she was all "do any of the egirls try and flirt with you?". I have some online acquaintances that are women but they're all taken and very aware of my relationship. She's been quiet about her concerns with that for a long time. Feels like this just came out of nowhere you know. What did she mean by this?

 

[Susanna]

Bardcore needed to be modernized for the posers man.

Weirdly this is the only band I can think of that has a hurdy gurdy player.

 

[gorgoroth7134]

Moving on from the gay porn questions: how does female friendship work? Men, for example, are usually friends based off of compatible talents and sense of purpose towards which they collaborate (whether that be an intellectual, creative, or other pursuit).

From what I've observed, female friendships are generally formed by proximity and circumstance. You form a bond with someone (through work, school, hobbies, mutual friends) and the focus tends to be on that bond and not so much a pursuit of sorts.

Sometimes my gf's jealousy comes up out of fucking nowhere. Last night I was just watching a movie with some online acquaintances and I mentioned that to her and she was all "do any of the egirls try and flirt with you?". I have some online acquaintances that are women but they're all taken and very aware of my relationship. She's been quiet about her concerns with that for a long time. Feels like this just came out of nowhere you know. What did she mean by this?

You shouldn't be asking strangers online about this, you should focus on communicating with your girlfriend - she is, most likely, more worth the effort and can help you understand exactly where the question came from.

 

[Ravier Xavenblood]

You shouldn't be asking strangers online about this, you should focus on communicating with your girlfriend - she is, most likely, more worth the effort and can help you understand exactly where the question came from.

She can be hard to talk to at times but sometimes she just spills her heart out randomly after a few glasses of wine.

 

[gorgoroth7134]

She can be hard to talk to at times but sometimes she just spills her heart out randomly after a few glasses of wine.

If you take your relationship seriously then you really should focus on communicating and helping her with those barriers then.

 

[Shidoen]

Weirdly this is the only band I can think of that has a hurdy gurdy player.

Sometimes you haven’t truly lived until you hear some of your favorite songs played by a bunch of toothless serfs.

 

[Zero MK 2]

You shouldn't be asking strangers online about this, you should focus on communicating with your girlfriend - she is, most likely, more worth the effort and can help you understand exactly where the question came from.

always best to not air your dirty laundry online.

 

[YHWH's Strongest Soldier]

I don't want to name it because there's not a very large online community for it, sorry gals.

It's a fucking nyckelharpa or an oud, isn't it? If it is, take it to a renaissance fair and the bpd cosplayers will be all over you.

Edit: If you want to attract people with your weird hobbies, seek out the weirdos.

 

[Shidoen]

It's a fucking nyckelharpa or an oud, isn't it? If it is, take it to a renaissance fair and the bpd cosplayers will be all over you.

Edit: If you want to attract people with your weird hobbies, seek out the weirdos.

I can confirm.

 

[AWizard]

>fujo
I'm vaguely reminded of "Now kiss" memes on online forums in the 00s.

I tend to hate other autists/awkwards/nerds is the thing. Not liking the bad qualities in yourself that you see reflected in others, I guess? But also so many seem to be oblivious and empty headed in a way I'm not. Like nerds whose height of cultural sophistication is watching anime (which I also like, but....there's more to life.) They're just dumb as shit. I can't really explain it well. Am I just being difficult and pre-rejecting people to feel safe? hmm.

Here's a question, is part of not wanting to meet with other autists/awkwards/nerds is being (I'm assuming) in your late 20s/early 30s?

 

[Chromeo]

I tend to hate other autists/awkwards/nerds is the thing. Not liking the bad qualities in yourself that you see reflected in others, I guess? But also so many seem to be oblivious and empty headed in a way I'm not. Like nerds whose height of cultural sophistication is watching anime (which I also like, but....there's more to life.) They're just dumb as shit. I can't really explain it well. Am I just being difficult and pre-rejecting people to feel safe? hmm.

Did you ever have the experience in school of being lumped in with very low functioning students and condescended to as if you were the same as a mouth-breathing fisheyed retard? Or basically made to babysit other autistic people because "hey! you're both autistic!" but you're clearly a full-ass person and they're...missing a few screws? 'Cause I've been there, and it makes you hesitant to get thrown back into that situation. Made me angry about it, like "goddamn it why do I work so hard to be normal and get treated the same as these fucking idiots?" Not that they can help it, yadda yadda, but still. It creates a lot of hostility towards other autistics.

 

[Black Hole Vacation]

Asking for a general opinion here rather than the moid hate thread. What do women think of the growing "Karen's getting arrested/tazed/owned" that bodycam slop true crime channels are pushing?
I see channel pages full of nothing but these videos and can't help but think it's just advertiser friendly woman hate.

 

[ephermeral]

Asking for a general opinion here rather than the moid hate thread. What do women think of the growing "Karen's getting arrested/tazed/owned" that bodycam slop true crime channels are pushing?
I see channel pages full of nothing but these videos and can't help but think it's just advertiser friendly woman hate.

I was hoping that the fall out from the Citibike Karen incident would be the catalyst in getting people to chill with that nonsense. Looks like it’ll never end, we’re just getting more flavors of it.

 

[Chromeo]

Asking for a general opinion here rather than the moid hate thread. What do women think of the growing "Karen's getting arrested/tazed/owned" that bodycam slop true crime channels are pushing?
I see channel pages full of nothing but these videos and can't help but think it's just advertiser friendly woman hate.

I think it can be, but it's squares and rectangles. All squares are rectangles, but not all rectangles are squares. The Karen trend 100% got taken over by misogyny, and some bodycam videos misuse the Karen term in that way, but once in a while there are videos where it's actually a woman being a Karen. Saw a bodycam video a few weeks ago where an old woman at a grocery store followed and harassed a disabled man who had a service dog (and it was an actual service dog.) The managers or the disabled guy or someone called the police, and when they showed up she was convinced she was in the right for harassing the disabled guy. That was 100% a Karen, and it was a bodycam video of her arrest for harassment and discrimination against the disabled.
But around the same time I saw a video that said "KARENS THINKING THEY'RE ABOVE THE LAW," and there was some dumb 21 year old girl who got arrested for a DUI and was kind of stupid (as well as drunk) but was otherwise cooperative, polite, didn't even need to be restrained beyond the normal handcuffing. Was she a Karen? Absolutely not. That's just someone calling a woman a bitch and really stretching what happened to pretend it was interesting enough to warrant a YouTube video.
I can't say what the ratio is of squares to rectangles here, but some of it is actually women being unreasonable while being arrested or being arrested for unreasonable shit.

 

[isalaide]

Kids think those Karen videos are absolutely hilarious, but to be fair between mothers and aunties and school and other activities, kids are spending all their time with Karens and are just pleased to see any of them get their comeuppance.

 

[Ruined by the Rain]

My hairdresser fucked up and now I have this cut (I was going in for a wolf cut).

What do? Buy a wig? I have been wearing a hat outside since getting this goddamn cut

 

[Shidoen]

My hairdresser fucked up and now I have this cut (I was going in for a wolf cut).
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What do? Buy a wig? I have been wearing a hat outside since getting this goddamn cut

The hairstyle looks good you can work with it. If you’re not satisfied with it you could always go for a buzz cut but overall I think it would look fine, have you dyed it at all?