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- Jul 18, 2016
This kid has never, even for a second, been allowed to figure out who he is in a natural way. Hes Been told who and what he is, as determined by his weird, straight mother. “Quite bad”—- set up to fail in an incredibly cruel way.You don't become trans, you are or you aren't. Her mother has been quite bad to her I agree, but hopefully she gets away from her in a few years.
Desmond may have been gay, effeminate or some other expression, on his own accord had he been permitted a normal childhood. Instead he’s been used the same way Jani Schofield was used by her parents, for their own interests, his parents (particularly mom) have fetishistic interests.
I’m pretty sure most people ITT wouldn’t have a problem with Desmond being queer or expressing gender in a non traditional way if it wasn’t obvious that he’s been deliberately put in weird, inappropriate situations and taught that “being queer” is about sex, drugs, stripping and surgery. Kids like Desmond don’t get to see normal ass queer people who keep the kinky shit at home, who have varied hobbies, a variety of friends and keep to themselves (like everyone else). He doesn’t see a gay couple who’s been together 20 years, or any thing of the sort. Instead, his role models are a drag queen that didn’t realize it would be seen as “strange” to pose in a thong with a child, and Michael Alig. Hes been given a really sad , hyper-stereotypical narrative of what life for a queer person “is like”. It’s horrifying to any queer person who has an ounce of self respect .
We are absolutely failing LGBT youth when their entire existence is defined by this nonstop bullshit. There’s similar issues in the straight community too but it usually doesn’t involve life changing medical decisions made flippantly.
Weve All seen how the most fucked up people, disgusting, predators will try to network. They try to find employment or other community involvement that they can use as a cover. Unfortunately , the gay community has failed to take out its trash, this isn’t all that different than when a religion gets infected with pedos. Desmond has been given, on a plate, to the exact kind of creeps that a decent parent would want to keep away from their possibly-queer kid.
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