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Well there was this thread, but it died after like a week.
Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious
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🔧 At about Midnight EST I am going to completely fuck up the site trying to fix something.
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It's because you can ask moids directly in the Q&A
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I actually feel a bit of pain when I hear the word moid, idk if it's cause I've been bullied as a child by girls or it's because my sister bullies me, it spirals off into "nobody likes you, you will die alone". Shameful to admit I know.
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It's a silly word made by and for femcels as a counter to being called a woman.
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Allow the pain to flow through and eventually out of you, and when it passes only you will remain. "Moid" will return to its unremarkable slot alongside "foid" in the online lexicon and become just another word...
Which it is.
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Being called a moid by your woman is like calling a black woman a nigger in bed.
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... Well I hope he isn't taking his sister to bed.
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I know, it's not that complex. It's just I had a lot of Regina George types in my middle and high school so at the time something like moid would've felt like a painful blow. Now it's like an insect bite, too many is only sometimes a problem. Praise the sun for the immunization.
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My school had plenty of Regina Georges but to my luck and detriment I went to a inner city nigger school. So those types got slapped by hoodrats who won't take their shit or just hooked up with literal niggers who treated them like shit.
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Probably a question done to death by now, but why do women really expect guys to make the first move? My ex approached me, and it really feels like my own overthinking is stopping me from talking without being nervous/mindreading/overthinking about what they think (and what they think abt me approaching them as a whole)
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Personally it's power play. If he won't chase you, he won't do shit for you in a relationship. I think women need to have the man love them more than they love the man for the relationship to work. Otherwise it's just setting yourself up for failure.
Don't ask "what can she do for me?" put yourself in her shoes and ask "what can I do for her?"
Relevant info: I'm blackpilled and I do not speak for all women.
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I don't think there is any reason not to hit on a guy if you like him. I don't think any guy you would actually want to keep company with is going to fall over and die like a flower if you chat him up. He may in fact be pleased at your initiative. Yeah sure there's the risk of getting a knockback, but nothing ventured, nothing gained, right?
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I've always ignored this convention personally so idk
On the one hand I really don't think there's a point in overthinking or mind reading vs. just speaking your mind and getting it out on the table, on the other I've definitely been autistic enough for speaking my mind to get me in trouble a lot lol. So it might be something of a matter of experience to figure out who is a good person to speak unfiltered to and who isn't, the best time to do it, etc. But to me it seems reasonable to be honest about the fact that you don't really know how to interpret her coming into your life again. Stuff with exes can get dicey though, I'd just keep in mind the relationship presumably ended for a reason, but ofc I don't know what your reason is and I think how you interpret that reason in the present day is entirely up to you
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I have questions on the frequency of contact. I've gone on a couple of dates with this woman that I am deeply infatuated by. I wake up thinking about her, and I go to sleep thinking about her.
My natural inclination is to just call her all the time - not to give her a moment's rest from my incessant desire to even just text her, but we all know this won't do. So I've been repressing my natural and pure urges to appear reasonable.
The issue is that she's a little more old fashioned and has never contacted me on her own. I don't really have a metric to know what is too much. It's been 4 days, so I'll go and text her again.
For the record, I don't appreciate these arrangements in which all the initiative must come from the man. I'm too neurotic and emotional to cope.
My natural inclination is to just call her all the time - not to give her a moment's rest from my incessant desire to even just text her, but we all know this won't do. So I've been repressing my natural and pure urges to appear reasonable.
The issue is that she's a little more old fashioned and has never contacted me on her own. I don't really have a metric to know what is too much. It's been 4 days, so I'll go and text her again.
For the record, I don't appreciate these arrangements in which all the initiative must come from the man. I'm too neurotic and emotional to cope.
AWizard
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Good God I'm not that old. In still in my early-30s....ish.
I'm sure there is, what are your friends' reasons?
Makes sense. There a reason why they're chronically single?
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Okay, this is only me reporting what happened to my friends and colleagues. This is anecdata.
Nobody was ever good enough, is one I hear a bit. Mostly they set incredibly high standards and discard all who do not meet them, but one of them is genuinely a neurotic bampot who would be unliveable with. She has had one boyfriend about fifteen years back, but the experience got him fired (they worked together). He rejoiced in the nickname "Tim the Dim". Well, he didn't rejoice, everyone just called him that behind his back. He was a bit on the dim side to be fair.
Another of these ladies split up with her then-boyfriend, who remains a good friend of mine, because he wanted to get engaged and get married and have family etc when we were all in our early twenties, and she didn't want to consider doing that until she was at least fifteen or more years into her career. He is a lovely bloke, very funny, incredibly smart, a really kind and thoughtful dude. We were flatmates for a while. He absolutely was not a moid or looking for a tradwife, he was immensely respectful and admiring of her brainpower. But she was clear she was prioritising her career and it just wouldn't have worked. He has been settled with a family for a long time now.
Another few are divorced, a couple have been divorced more than once. One has been divorced three times but is no longer looking for a partner of any kind. It's been a rough decade for her.
There were a lot of break ups and divorces over the issue of children. Mostly where the guy wanted them and the woman didn't. Although there have been a couple that went the other way.
The age gap relationships all exploded once the woman hit thirty. The young boyfriends were tossed and the older husbands were walked out on. There was a husband in his late fifties who had a significant stroke and there was no way my friend was taking on any caring responsibility for him.
The second-time-arounders are all doing fine. They tell me that once the first wife has walked out, a husband is very nervous about it happening again and is pretty anxious to keep the second wife happy. I have no idea if this is representative.
Without fail, every marriage or LTR in my friend circle where the woman significantly outearned the man didn't make it longer than four or five years. Again I doubt this is representative.
There hasn't been adultery except in one couple I know of. The womenfolk have instigated all the breakups, but they have not had another guy on the line. They have just all got tired of their existing relationship and walked.
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It's representative of those same high standards you mentioned earlier. People in high-earning jobs typically stick to and marry people in other high-paying jobs.
Poor fellas.
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I never expected it, however it reassured me that the guy actually likes me. I wanted someone who would actually love me. Most single men would date a woman if she approached him. Even if he didn't actually love her. Basically I didn't want to waste my time on someone who might not actually like me and is settling for me for now till something better comes along or till he is actually ready to be in a committed relationship. From what I understand this is easier if you wait for a man to make the first move.
Though I was thinking about confessing to my then friend(now husband), since he seemed like a good fit. But he beat me to the punch.
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This sucks. I know some women expect the man to make the first move, but that hardly applies to texting in my opinion. She never texts you first? How long do you typically go between texts? There's no one metric for texting frequency, in a normal exchange there is give and take and you kind of go with the flow. If I was always the one texting first, that would give me the impression they weren't that into me.
As an aside, I technically made the first move on the man I have been married to for a decade. Though it was on a dating website so it barely counts.
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>date a girl for a while
>everything seems fine, we have chemistry and i assume we both like spending time with each other
>suddenly one day says its over, she doesn't want anything with anyone and wants to be alone, but still wants me in her life because i make her feel like she matters to someone
>oh okay, whatever, seems we have a mutual trust relationship so if thats how you feel then who am i to stop you
>fucking replaced in less than a week by another guy
>not even an upgrade, guy makes some of the severe incels here look sane and productive
Why are women like this, it would't sting as much if she had the decency to just end things outright instead of this wishy washy shit
>everything seems fine, we have chemistry and i assume we both like spending time with each other
>suddenly one day says its over, she doesn't want anything with anyone and wants to be alone, but still wants me in her life because i make her feel like she matters to someone
>oh okay, whatever, seems we have a mutual trust relationship so if thats how you feel then who am i to stop you
>fucking replaced in less than a week by another guy
>not even an upgrade, guy makes some of the severe incels here look sane and productive
Why are women like this, it would't sting as much if she had the decency to just end things outright instead of this wishy washy shit