There was a brief DM chain here on KF towards the end of last year intended to find out more about the F1NN community (it didn't go much of anywhere at the time and died off), and the biggest red flag to come of that were Discord logs of the various mods in there saying they didn't give a fuck about having NSFW conversations with minors and only banned it to abide by Discord's rules. There was an adult woman (real, not troon afaik) in there who was admitting that they'd allow NSFW convos with all ages if Discord allowed it.
To the shock of absolutely nobody.