they could end/escape their femcel status immediately if they wanted to, but they don't want to because they feel that all the males available to them are unworthy and beneath them.
Or because they're anxious, depressed, afraid of getting used, have self esteem too low to even try, or have any of a litany of other issues thinking humans can develop.
If some chick's a weird internet-dwelling agoraphobic and has to fight off a panic attack every time she leaves the house to go someplace unfamiliar, dating is going to be a challenge for her. And lord knows there are enough sad neurotic women nowadays.
I don't even know what this type of thinking is with the "femcels don't exist all women have it easy and they never independently struggle" thing; trannies do it too though so I'm quite convinced it's not a healthy school of thought wherever it comes from.
I'm probably in the minority but I have no desire for a woman to share my interests. It's a good thing for each of us to have activities to do independently of the other. The things I enjoy I'd rather do on my own.
Rather than common interests, I consider not having niggercattle mentality by far the most important non-physical trait. A woman that doesn't have an innate distrust of authority is a lost cause in the (((current year))).
I don't either, that's weird. Open mindedness is a positive trait so that you
can do things together or appreciate what the other person does, but that's all.
If I were to get psychoanalytic I'd say it has something to do with a lack of self-understanding leading people to attempt to form social or romantic relationships based upon more surface level similarities.
Of course online dating specifically encourages that because you're judging people based upon either looks or dating profiles, which is why it sucks. You're supposed to be looking for another human being you can co-experience life with, not shopping for a used car.