Kelly Lenza / LividLipids / softbodytendermind / ass_child / photopotamus - "Radical body liberationist”, Intentionally Repulsive, Uber woke middle-aged SJW influencer wannabe, doxed her former therapist for getting WLS, ate her way to heart failure

[Angry New Ager]

Sorry, but if any of you heard the pitter-patter of bare feet against hardwood floor, that was me dashing to the nearest window to check for the encroaching asteroid destined to end all life on this planet.

Never thought I'd read that our nekkid kid poster Kelly would actually (a) take Ozempic instead of just stabbing herself with insulin needles forever, and (b) even CONTEMPLATE breaking up with her precious fat community.

I'm going to go rock it out in a corner now, because reality is upside-down and backwards; a team that never wins took TdF stage 2, and Kelly has been revealed to be operating outside of my stone-set expectations for her. Who would've thunk.

I wouldn't get too excited; she's still Kelly, still a raging Narcissist, and while Narcs may adopt a new persona if they think it will serve them, they don't change in any substantial way.

Her articles about leaving the FA community are from nearly a year ago, which means she'd been planning her exit before that.

Here's the thing: Kelly has a very hard time getting along with other humans. She longs for community, but she needs to be completely accepted, and a respected leader and expert within that community, and bails when she's not. Her snit at not being given a leadership role right away in the historical costuming society, despite the fact she does costuming badly and has no special skills to offer (besides mediocre event photography) is typical.

She was always a nobody in the FA community, constantly posting her hot takes and hideous semi-n00dz to social media, only to be pretty much ignored. So really, her making a big deal of leaving the FA community is a lot of "Nobody noticed and nobody cared."

For some reason it has become worth it to her to abandon social media, or at least go private, but I can guarantee it's because there was a consequence she desperately wanted to avoid, and the threat came from an external source. Maybe she got a CPS visit. Maybe Jerry consulted a lawyer and threatened to divorce her and take custody of the kids—Kelly would literally be out on her ass in that scenario. I don't know what it was, but somebody has goaded her into keeping her shit private, using a meaningful threat and the ability to inflict punishent if she didn't.

 

[stupid frog]

She's probably still on Discord or something.

 

[glimpse bank fur]

Found her tumblr:
https://www.tumblr.com/cloudgenderkaiju

Oops!

 

[Breadbear]

Wait, are we the stalkers? We're the ones stalking her by checking out her public social media?

 

[GloriousScarf]

Wait, are we the stalkers? We're the ones stalking her by checking out her public social media?

Yes it seems to be us.

Spoiler: Screenshots

I had a look over her previous posts. It's all the same blah blah blah woe is me and long Covid. Although she seems to acknowledge long covid is all in her head, progress I guess?

Spoiler: Random screenshots

I don't really understand Tumblr so I have no clue what dates these were posted.

Did we know Kelly & Jerry are in an open relationship? Well, she is, Jerry is being a cuck.

Spoiler: More screenshots

She's been banned from SIL's house (LOL)

Spoiler: Banned

There is a TON of posts about how she is miserable all the time and feeling shame and suicidal. I SS a bunch which I don't have time to sort now.

 

[glimpse bank fur]

I don't really understand Tumblr so I have no clue what dates these were posted.

Click the meatball menu on the upper right of any given post, there should be a timestamp there.

 

[Berserker Armor]

She's been banned from SIL's house (LOL)

I highly doubt that being anti-Zionist is why she’s banned from her SIL’s lol
Also she needs to get her kids into fucking therapy

I am going to go through her posts some later today I think but I did the liberty of screenshotting her pinned post on mobile (I archived the url but it’s being retarded) because what the fuck is this? What is this? What?

Spoiler: NSFW and just weird

 

[often puzzled]

I guess that's me she's talking about, because I did say that they looked happy and that I hoped they were. I meant it, too. I don't wish Kelly ill. I certainly don't wish her children ill. I'm no one to her. I can't have any influence at all on her life. I can't imagine a scenario in which our paths would cross in real life. In the extraordinarily unlikely event we'd ever encounter each other, she'd never know it, because I wouldn't do or say anything. I am nothing and no one to her, and she should place no value at all on what I say.

I don't have an "enterprise," and this website has no collective enterprise. Getting anyone here to agree on a collective enterprise would be like trying to herd rabid, feral, wet cats, but harder.

I like Eyebrow Cat. Kelly sounds depressed. Jerry's current status is hard to interpret (based on the little I just read). I'm not clear if the SIL is the one who lived with them or the other one. If she's close with the kids, I hope they get it worked out. I wish the children well.

That's the long and short of it, but, again: my opinion does not matter.

 

[LonesomeDud]

Kelly, every lazy "stalker" would sooner stand up out of the chair to see a spectacularly large turd down the street than they would to see you if you were standing right outside the door being obnoxious. Myself included.

And a spiritual awakening means changing your position and heart toward earthly things. You might be woke, but I'm awake, and I don't hate you. If you want to be loved, start by loving, and forgiving, your haters.

 

[Berserker Armor]

Kelly sounds depressed.

Having skimmed through the blog since my post. She is. She very very much is. It seems to also be rubbing off on the kiddos as she has brought up consistent meltdown between the both of them. Issues with medications with one of them and the lil one’s diabetes still being hard to manage. She was even a huge mess and talking about her mom behind her back while on that vacay. It really sounds like she’s doing everything for the kids while Jerry is just there even in these blog posts. Their relationship is so so dead in the water it’s not funny.
It’s funny because as MATI she has made me… I feel bad for her in a way. I do worry she’s going to go some form of postal or hurt herself.

 

[LonesomeDud]

Having skimmed through the blog since my post. She is. She very very much is. It seems to also be rubbing off on the kiddos as she has brought up consistent meltdown between the both of them. Issues with medications with one of them and the lil one’s diabetes still being hard to manage. She was even a huge mess and talking about her mom behind her back while on that vacay. It really sounds like she’s doing everything for the kids while Jerry is just there even in these blog posts. Their relationship is so so dead in the water it’s not funny.
It’s funny because as MATI she has made me… I feel bad for her in a way. I do worry she’s going to go some form of postal or hurt herself.

It does sound like she's really struggling with asking for help around the house. Being a stay at home mom doesn't mean that Jerry gets to be a fat, useless slug. If Kelly hurts herself or the kids, at this point, I blame Slug Boy over her. She's pretty clearly struggling, and he's supposedly an intelligent, college-educated guy. He knows better.

 

[FarmerKhourtney]

Can’t judge her on the yard work. It becomes very overwhelming if you don’t keep up with it. Although pulling weeds and cleaning up as a family can be a worthwhile activity (and doesn’t cost $2,000) reading all of those actually made me really sad. On a human level.

 

[The Skeksis Emperor]

I come here to laugh but this is just sad and concerning.

Dammit Kelly, ask for help and stop running away from your problems by wokescolding anyone who comes close, and smoking weed. Unlike most cows Kelly actually has some real talents, if she could stop wallowing in her past and her anxieties she could make her life a lot better. She owes that to her girls.

 

[Breadbear]

She's a lot more sympathetic when she's not being performative.
This reads more like her personal diary than the usual OMG LOOK AT ME Instagram crap. Feels almost voyeuristic.

 

[Zemblan Physics]

She’s not a bad writer. She could even become an interesting writer if she was honest about how things turned out this way for her. Right now, she’s still clinging to the trauma & HAES narratives but I think the cognitive dissonance is getting to her. Maybe I’m naive but it seems to me she’s on the brink of getting it?

ETA word

 

[Clamater]

Regarding Palestine: All the time and effort spent on trying to coddle a brown man's religion instead of pouring a single drop of water onto the raging fires that are consuming her life and family. Her children are gaining weight rapidly, the diabetic hospitalization, her daughter is physically assaulting her hard enough that Kelly is in tears, her daughters are physically and emotionally torturing one another, her yard (like an acre???) is such a disaster she can't get anybody to work on it for under two grand until a neighbor who is probably directly effected by the neglect does the work for free, she can't leave her bed...but Palestine is the most pressing matter. Well Palestine and finding some poor creature for Jerry to press himself into. Of course that's what they're both the most worried about, opening their marriage while ignoring their children's crises.

I almost felt a great sympathy, but knowing the actual turmoil (and making educated guesses on the rest) that is going on in both daughters' lives and reading that these gross old fat fucks want to gunt their way around strange genitals is a bit much.

 

[vlcsr]

She's a lot more sympathetic when she's not being performative.
This reads more like her personal diary than the usual OMG LOOK AT ME Instagram crap. Feels almost voyeuristic.

Reading her posts, all I could think was “this woman needs a paper diary. And a therapist.” I don’t know why she feels the need to put it online where anyone can see it.

 

[GloriousScarf]

Regarding Palestine: All the time and effort spent on trying to coddle a brown man's religion instead of pouring a single drop of water onto the raging fires that are consuming her life and family.

On that point she had a post where it sounds like she argued with the family therapist about this.



Kelly...girl..stop. Stop stressing about things happening half a world away you can't change when you are drowning in your part of the world.

 

[Angry New Ager]

Although pulling weeds and cleaning up as a family can be a worthwhile activity

It can be when you don't have two kids who actively hate each other and one who is prone to violent screaming meltdowns where she attacks her mother.

Those poor kids; between bad genetics and being raised by Kelly and Jerry Lenza, they're fucked. They're the only ones I feel any sympathy for.

 

[Terfatron]

Well Palestine and finding some poor creature for Jerry to press himself into.

I think anything is better to pour ones emotions in to than the real, hard work that is depression.
I don't say it's right but I think she uses the open marriage and plaestine to run away from here's and her own misery.

I do feel sorry for her.
This is the most open and honest she's even been and I want her to get help.
Stop running away, stop focusing her energy on Palestine and helping Jerry fucking randos.

She could write all this in a private diary and maybe lay off weed.
Get some help w the kids and hopefully she and Jerry can get navigate this