Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious

[Jaws Of Hell]

Now the hands girls? Those people are the weirdos

Out of everything, you think hand girls are weird? Men also like hands. I've met multiple men who liked them.

 

[Susanna]

The real creeps are the feet guys.

 

[suspended animation]

Since I don't earn enough money and can barely operate a chainsaw, yes

I wouldn't be as concerned about the money or tools as I would about a man not understanding that I'm sending him a big hint when I compliment his hands or body.

Financial situations can improve, you can learn to operate tools from YT, but a man who is oblivious to flirtation is a turn off

 

[Afinepickle]

a man who is oblivious to flirtation is a turn off

This explains much.

I will say though as a moid in these accursed days of current year whenever you get a compliment or any kind of attention from the opposite sex the first instinct tends to be "is she fucking with me?" Followed by suspicion.

Point is you have to do it a few times, at least more than once in order to assuage said suspicion.

Now if by the 7th time you're all "you have REALLY NICE HANDS HINT HINT" he's still clueless then he's just fucking retarded.

 

[DavidS877]

but a man who is oblivious to flirtation is a turn off

Complimenting someone's hands isn't flirtation, it's just weird, less weird than feet but still pretty weird.

Men are told never to ever compliment a women's body, but I suppose that's probably because we think "Nice Ass" is a compliment.

 

[56 others]

Out of everything, you think hand girls are weird? Men also like hands. I've met multiple men who liked them.

i dont like hands but if a woman (bio) has man hands it grosses me out

 

[Jaws Of Hell]

Complimenting someone's hands isn't flirtation, it's just weird, less weird than feet but still pretty weird.

Men are told never to ever compliment a women's body, but I suppose that's probably because we think "Nice Ass" is a compliment.

I agree that complimenting someone's body is weird. Focus on something that the person chose instead like their hair or clothing choices. If a woman's makeup looks good I compliment that, and 100% of the time, I get a genuine smile and a thank you. It's also a really nice icebreaker.

Men also like compliments about their fashion and hair too, and if he's wearing nice sneakers he'll definitely like to know it's been noticed. I make a point to also notice when they get haircuts. The reactions tend to be very cute and genuine too.

Don't offer a fake compliment, though, most people can tell.

 

[suspended animation]

Complimenting someone's hands isn't flirtation, it's just weird, less weird than feet but still pretty weird.

Men are told never to ever compliment a women's body, but I suppose that's probably because we think "Nice Ass" is a compliment.

I definitely wouldn't start out by throwing out a comment like "nice hands," it's something I would flirtatiously say once it's clear we're into each other as a hint to him that I would like him to feel free to use them on me.

And yeah you should probably refrain from complimenting sexual organs until you're sure that the other person is into you.

 

[BongoMongo]

This explains much.

I will say though as a moid in these accursed days of current year whenever you get a compliment or any kind of attention from the opposite sex the first instinct tends to be "is she fucking with me?" Followed by suspicion.

I have this issue and am working to overcome it. I'm a woman and compliments are seen as transactional, with a compliment given perceived as being a way to get one in return.

I started a new job recently and have had some nice things said to me, about me, and the first couple of times I clammed up. I've found just replying, that;s very kind of you to let me know you appreciate that is enough. But good LAWD is it hard to do at first.

 

[Pickman's Modeling Agency]

I have this issue and am working to overcome it. I'm a woman and compliments are seen as transactional, with a compliment given perceived as being a way to get one in return.

I started a new job recently and have had some nice things said to me, about me, and the first couple of times I clammed up. I've found just replying, that;s very kind of you to let me know you appreciate that is enough. But good LAWD is it hard to do at first.

If you have a genuine compliment to give then by all means, but accepting a compliment with a simple, "Thank you, that's nice of you to say" is perfectly fine. Compliments are great icebreakers between women, but it shouldn't be transactional and I don't think the majority of women view it that way.

(Just saying "thanks" does take some practice, though)

 

[Thé au lait]

Now the hands girls? Those people are the weirdos.

Go to work and earn money I assume.

He can chop wood, or fix a car, or mow the lawn, or even get conscripted to go die in some war.

What's weird about liking hands? Some people have very nice hands that you can take one look at and know they'd be pretty to watch playing a piano, and I'm sure there's men too who have hands that look nice to hold!
Is this actually a controversial thing?? I thought everyone liked hands

 

[BallsDeepInAi]

Hello. I need some advice regarding the menstruation cycle.
My girl is being angy and grumpy nowadays, kind of wanting to rot in bed instead of hanging out with me.
Atleast she told me why, it's because her uterus is shedding and it's painful for her.

I'm kind of not helping her case because quite frankly I'm blunt, honest, and retarded. So when she asked me how she looked, I complimented her and also pointed out flaws that she could improve on. She didn't reply but I knew she was giving me the silent treatment. She also complained to me about the pain but I simply said that she should eat more bananas or anything that would help with her periods.
She also got mad at me, but again not verbally.
I dunno, why go through the discomfort if you can just plan ahead and never go through with it? I mean I try to minimize all discomfort, pain, or nuisances throughout my days, why go through them when you can prevent them?

ILast month she was all clingy and lovey dovey. But now that I really need her because I'm being fried by the hot fucking sun during work, I want to be comfy with her after work. Cheezus, Hell froze over so it can burn the earth.

 

[Thé au lait]

Hello. I need some advice regarding the menstruation cycle.
My girl is being angy and grumpy nowadays, kind of wanting to rot in bed instead of hanging out with me.
Atleast she told me why, it's because her uterus is shedding and it's painful for her.

I'm kind of not helping her case because quite frankly I'm blunt, honest, and retarded. So when she asked me how she looked, I complimented her and also pointed out flaws that she could improve on. She didn't reply but I knew she was giving me the silent treatment. She also complained to me about the pain but I simply said that she should eat more bananas or anything that would help with her periods.
She also got mad at me, but again not verbally.
I dunno, why go through the discomfort if you can just plan ahead and never go through with it? I mean I try to minimize all discomfort, pain, or nuisances throughout my days, why go through them when you can prevent them?

ILast month she was all clingy and lovey dovey. But now that I really need her because I'm being fried by the hot fucking sun during work, I want to be comfy with her after work. Cheezus, Hell froze over so it can burn the earth.

Make her hot tea and soups (motherwort is your friend, do NOT confuse it with mugwort because that will make her want to kill you). Get a hot bath ready for her. Ask her if a light massage would help. Make sure she drinks hot water and doesn't drink any cold shit. Make sure she gets iron in her diet.

I have no idea where you got the idea that she can "plan for it" to get rid of discomfort and pain, if that were the case nobody would have a problem.
It's not just the shedding itself that's the issue either, it's the contractions. Ever had a painful cramp in your leg where your muscles are fighting with each other? Imagine having that in your uterus, and there's no option to stand on it and make it go away. Having more potassium in her system can make that worse, depending on her potassium ion levels.

 

[umami's milk]

I just don't understand what is so sexy about the digits. Admirable, sure. Sexy? No. Fingers, toes, what have you... these extremities are purely PRACTICAL body parts.

 

[TheCakeIsALie]

Keep her favorite snacks and food on hand. Stock Tylenol. Just be nice to her. Ask her how she’s feeling and if she needs anything

Sometimes we do want to be left alone but it varies. I don’t get grumpy, I get hungry.

 

[斯尼 德之王]

I simply said that she should eat more bananas or anything that would help with her periods.
She also got mad at me, but again not verbally.
I dunno, why go through the discomfort if you can just plan ahead and never go through with it? I mean I try to minimize all discomfort, pain, or nuisances throughout my days, why go through them when you can prevent them?

Nigga, you're an idiot.

 

[TheCakeIsALie]

Prevent period pain? No such thing. Bananas dont help. She can take pain relievers, use a heating pad or take a hot bath. Or all three.

It’s also not just cramps but the bloating, makes us feel heavy.

If we could prevent period pain altogether don’t you think we would?

 

[NoReturn]

I dunno, why go through the discomfort if you can just plan ahead and never go through with it? I mean I try to minimize all discomfort, pain, or nuisances throughout my days, why go through them when you can prevent them?

What are you talking about?

 

[Clamater]

Hello. I need some advice regarding the menstruation cycle.
My girl is being angy and grumpy nowadays, kind of wanting to rot in bed instead of hanging out with me.
Atleast she told me why, it's because her uterus is shedding and it's painful for her.

I'm kind of not helping her case because quite frankly I'm blunt, honest, and retarded. So when she asked me how she looked, I complimented her and also pointed out flaws that she could improve on. She didn't reply but I knew she was giving me the silent treatment. She also complained to me about the pain but I simply said that she should eat more bananas or anything that would help with her periods.
She also got mad at me, but again not verbally.
I dunno, why go through the discomfort if you can just plan ahead and never go through with it? I mean I try to minimize all discomfort, pain, or nuisances throughout my days, why go through them when you can prevent them?

ILast month she was all clingy and lovey dovey. But now that I really need her because I'm being fried by the hot fucking sun during work, I want to be comfy with her after work. Cheezus, Hell froze over so it can burn the earth.

"Pointed out flaws she could improve on."
It'd be interesting to know the kind of helpful beautifying improvements a blunt, honest, retard would suggest to their girlfriend. If you could so kindly give an indication it might help explain why a woman experiencing a painful period wouldn't want a sunfried man pressing his erection* into her backside as she cramps in bed.

*sorry for the assumption about what "wanting to be comfy" means, but I am also a blunt, honest, retard and these things tend to track.

 

[isalaide]

Hello. I need some advice regarding the menstruation cycle.
My girl is being angy and grumpy nowadays, kind of wanting to rot in bed instead of hanging out with me.
Atleast she told me why, it's because her uterus is shedding and it's painful for her.

I'm kind of not helping her case because quite frankly I'm blunt, honest, and retarded. So when she asked me how she looked, I complimented her and also pointed out flaws that she could improve on. She didn't reply but I knew she was giving me the silent treatment. She also complained to me about the pain but I simply said that she should eat more bananas or anything that would help with her periods.
She also got mad at me, but again not verbally.
I dunno, why go through the discomfort if you can just plan ahead and never go through with it? I mean I try to minimize all discomfort, pain, or nuisances throughout my days, why go through them when you can prevent them?

ILast month she was all clingy and lovey dovey. But now that I really need her because I'm being fried by the hot fucking sun during work, I want to be comfy with her after work. Cheezus, Hell froze over so it can burn the earth.

Did you need to attend the ER to get the banana removed from where she rammed it, or did you manage to pass it unaided?

"when she asked me how she looked, I complimented her and also pointed out flaws that she could improve on" how are you even alive with this little survival instinct

don't say shit like this