Alright I've done a bunch of sleuthing on this dead Australian 20 year old that had SRS with Sutin in January.
Firstly I looked at some more comments on that post the mother made and found this comment she made talking about another MTF they met in Thailand.

Judit you say? I bet I can find this person.
Turns out I can. It's
RealHumanNotAlien. He straight up says his name in a post.
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So now we know a legit friend of this dead MTF and we know that there is likely interaction between them on Reddit in the past.
Well I think I found the dead MTF.
On this post by
RealHumanNotAlien we see a comment by
Bel456
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So we know Bel456 is a Sutin Patient in January and he likely has the name Bell/Bella going by his username. This is promising.
Looking at more info on his account
I immediately see this comment which suggests Bel456 is an Australian. He also has posted to r/perth (which is the exact town the dead MTF is from) and talked about centrelink.

He's poor and the mother did struggle to find housing in the past. Which lines up with what I posted about her.

He mentions he's rural which the mother also mentions on her Reddit. He was also home schooled by his mother which is something she also mentioned.

This post confirms he's around 20.

And finally he has two pictures of himself on his profile from a year ago. He actually does look like that MTF I speculated may be him. Both have many facial piercings. Not exact but the images are a year apart.


Okay so Bel456 lives in Perth, is 20, and had SRS with the same surgeon in the same timespan as the dead MTF called "bella". It's probably him.
On his profile he talks a lot about his psycho mother. Explains why she's so talkative and overbearing.
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how do I fix my life
I have no clue if this is the right place to post but imma share a bit of life and hope someone has advice on how to fix the mess that is my life
When I was 3-4 I was put into the care of my grandparents and the department of child protection until I ran away at 13ish due to sexual abuse from my grandfather and older brother as well as physical and emotional abuse and I moved in with my mum and at the end of the school year
The start of the next my anxiety spiked and I couldn't handle going to school so my mum pulled me out to be homeschooled and because I moved ages away to live with her I had no friends and she didn't really take me to homeschool groups just made me do a few online programs
After about a year and a half of living with my mum doing absolutely nothing for school and not having a social life my younger brother ran away from our grandparents and moved with his dad (we are half siblings) and my mum decided that we should all live there the problem is that she then pulled my brother out of school to and we dont have much near as as we live 20minutes from the closest town and over an hour from suburbia now and everything has just gotten worse here
My mum has bpd and various other mental health issues and my brothers dad is an alcoholic and massive stoner and he will smoke over 100$ of weed a day and it's not legal here a few months ago just after s year of living here he accidentally cut off his thumb and now isn't working at all and my mum hasn't worked for over a decade and it's causing a ton of issues
There are daily fights that are made worse by the drug abuse of his pain meds alcohol and weed and my mum has various meds she has gathered she uses and they never communicate properly and aren't in a relationship but still share a room because the house isn't that big and brothers dad insists on using one room to grow weed and my mum hordes slightly and stores stuff there
I am now 17 I live in the middle of nowhere with one friend who I see maybe twice a year that I met online and I can't get a job in town to get money to move because it's the type of place you need to know everyone in town to get a job and my parents refuse to be social and I can't
I don't see any future for myself as I can't leave and my mum guilts me every time I try because she and my brothers dad can't afford this place without the centerlink payments she gets from having me and the payments she gets from me being homeschooled which are stopping soon
If anyone knows what I might be able to do to get out of here and get somewhere I can be safe hopefully with my brother so he doesn't have to stay here even though he doesn't realise how bad it is
He's unhappy. One of his last posts before his reddit was abandoned.
Are most people happy?
I haven't ever been happy long term, the longest I've ever been happy consistently was three days in a row.
Do others usually feel like this or are most people actually happy and enjoying life?