- Joined
- Jun 13, 2021
While we do not have active memories of our infancy, research shows strongly that the way an infant is treated is the foundation of human attachment. Chalal has all the signs of childhood emotional neglect which can manifest as BPD in adults. Her eating isn't genetic, it's not PW. Someone being a deathfat does not equal PW syndrome. She has FAS maybe, but PW definitely not.
She is the poster child of what happens when an infant/toddler is appeased with food when not being left to "cry it out". She can't be content with a hobby, relaxation to Chalal is not being still and calm. Her version of relaxing is being high or farming dopamine through food. She must consume to feel anything. Her hobby is consumption.
That is why Chalal reads about herself, watches videos about herself and fills her face. She hardly watches or does anything else which is why she has nothing to talk about. Her bonds to other humans are surface level and transactional. Her bonds to her pets is just as weak and shakey. She is bonded to eating and herself.
She is the poster child of what happens when an infant/toddler is appeased with food when not being left to "cry it out". She can't be content with a hobby, relaxation to Chalal is not being still and calm. Her version of relaxing is being high or farming dopamine through food. She must consume to feel anything. Her hobby is consumption.
That is why Chalal reads about herself, watches videos about herself and fills her face. She hardly watches or does anything else which is why she has nothing to talk about. Her bonds to other humans are surface level and transactional. Her bonds to her pets is just as weak and shakey. She is bonded to eating and herself.